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writes: How can I get over a guy that I love?We started dating, then we broke up as he began to ignore me. He then got back in contact, i did as much as i knew to see if he was serious about trying again and so we started seeing each other again. He says he wants me, but his actions just dont match his words. I know in my head that he is not good enough for me and that he doesnt have consistently treat me well, but still I want this guy so much. Deep down I believe that we could have something absolutely amazing, but i know only if we both want it. It hurts me so much to only get part of a relationship with him. At times he acts the part of the boyfriend and makes me feel special and we have a wonderful time together, but then other times i barely hear from him. He doesnt see why this hurts me and makes me confused. I know what i would say to someone else in my position, but its not so easy to just not contact or try to make things work with someone who you want so badly. How can I move on from this?
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reader, steemo  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 it hard and it hurts but time will heal i no it may not seem like it but it does .what you need is a stepping stone to keep your mind of the man you love go out have fun just do something
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reader, jack23 +, writes (11 October 2006):
 I would suggest firstly talking to him, and making him aware of the situation. If he knows exactly how you feel he has the opportunity to do something about it, and he may change to become more like the boyfriend you want.
I this fails. Its good that you have made yourself aware that hes not good enough for you. What you need to do is forget bout all the good ways he treated you (shouldnt be hard from what you say) and concentrate on what caused you so split. Think into the future and what a continued relationship like this would be like. How unhappy it would make you to live like this, and how would you constantly be wanting to find someone new.
Thing about what you really dont like about the relationship should make it easier for you to move on.
Hope this helps :)
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