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writes: Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship for 7 years and it bacame abusive and destructive during the last few years of that relationship. I became very guilty about how I let down her young children by not staying.But i couldnt stay..It was no good no more..I am currently in a very loving, no drama relationship with an absolute gem. Recently my current girlfriend came across some recent emails from me to the past girlfriend that seemed warm and reflective..Needless to say she was quite upset and dissapointed with me. It nearly ended this beautiful relationship. Even though we are trying to work it out, i know she is disappointed in me. I don't love the ex-girlfriend. I don't want to see her either. She wants to know why i do this, and i really don't know the answer why? I feel it is out of guilt because i let her kids down and didnt follow through and stay? Any validity to that...??? R
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reader, steemo  +, writes (10 October 2006):
 you are very silly sending e mails that your girlfriend found it would upset her it would me i bet she felt like crap when she found out you got some work to do to show her its her you care for ... the reason you feel guilty you may have a bond with the other kid so that will make you think of how your ex is getting on with things it will pass in time
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