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writes: well i started talking to a work man, he asked for my email i gave it him ,then couple days later asked for my phone number, then i didnt see him for 4 days wen i did he said ill be getting phone weekend ill phone u,but still nothing after,5 days he is also married with a son his mate said he said he will phone ,he asked him day after he said ill sort it plz help im connfussed ,
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 If you get involved with a married best get used to waiting by the phones sometimes for days on end. You will never have his full attention or concern. He will call or see you whenever he feels like it, your needs will never be a factor in his decisions. His wife on the other hand most likely does matter a great deal to him (albeit not as much as she should). Sloppy seconds is all you're going to get.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Why would you want to settle for such a 'date'? The guy is married with a child - this relationship can never even go anywhere...apart from you getting used as a 'bit on the side'. You should feel sorry for his wife, feel better about yourself than to settle for being a mistress and find a single guy.
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reader, steemo +, writes (13 October 2006):
 it sounds like he has changed his mind or made up wiyh his wlfe sorry
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Well I am really sorry your connfussed. But I am confused about what you want to know. He's married. All you want from this man is sex right...because that is all your going to get. As long as you understand that from the beginning and don't turn this into some elaborate star crossed love swept romance novel then you will be fine. Now why do you want sex with a married guy. Are you unable to commit and KNOW you just want a bit of fun? He has not called because It was not convenient for him to call. His wife has been in the room...he's been holding the baby....He didn't have the time to try to meet and boink you...so why call.
I am not trying sugar coat this. That is were you are. Now if yo don't understand that...you need to think about the path you are CONVINCING yOURSELF to go down. You are not going to win him...the wife has the cards. Hot stolen sex...that is what you are sure you want? No more? If so...don't wait by the phone. He'll call you when he gets around to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): To be total honest, i think you should see this as a blessing. Nothing has started therefore there is nothing to finish. You need to strongly keep in mind that he is a family man. He is more then likely just after a bit of cake to eat if you get my meaning. Even if he does phone you and gives you the story that his marriage isnt working, i would advise you stay away.If his marriage is working or not they are together in the same house with a child, its best you take this oppotunity to walk away.
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