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writes: Here's one for you...6 months ago i was introduced to my cousin's girlfriend, no big deal.coincidentally, i started work at the same place as her, we quickly became friends, sharing all the same geeky interests like computer games. My cousin joined the army, and only visits home once every few weeks.Long story short i'm crazy about her, she's the first person i think of when i wake up and the last person i think of before i go to bed.6 months on and we're very close friends, i have confessed everything to her, in an adult way. she admits she's attracted to me too, but would never want to ruin our relationship, but i would ruin a hundred of our relationships just to kiss her like i love her.everyone always interrogates us,is anything going on? simple answer is no.i dont want to break them up, i dont want to lose our friendship, i dont want to just be a friend, cupid! help!
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reader, AnonimousJake +, writes (9 December 2007):
AnonimousJake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow... a year on and everything has changed, what a loser i was! she showed her true colors as a player in the end, and both myself and my cousin now look back and laugh! my advice for anyone in a similar situation: Girls come and go, family is forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): wow i cant blame you i feel that way about my brothers girlfriend and ive kissed her before i feel so crappy bupt i know i love her i dont know what to do its crazzy because were in the same situation is that really as messed up as it sounds
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reader, AnonimousJake +, writes (11 October 2006):
AnonimousJake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhad a chat with her, and i suggested we put alot of space between us, it hurt her alot i know, and doing that to her felt cutting off my own arm, but i know its for the best, thank you for your replies.
i guess this space will tell if my feelings for her are for real, and wether she has any feelings for me.
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reader, steemo  +, writes (10 October 2006):
 stay clear a little she could just be playing you because she nos you fancy her test the water and interduce another girl and see her reaction
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): This is very hard but you cant go there she is with someone else imagne how you would feel if the roles were reversed it would devestate you she needs to end it first then you need to ask yourself is she worth having a divided family for cause believe me it will divide the family there are already accusations flying so if i were you i would take a step back take a big sigh of relief and i wouldnt go there thats just my advise
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