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Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?
Q. I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...
A. 23 July 2011: Well first off; be CAREFUL! I'm not against online relationships one of my family members met a women from canada online and now they are happily married in california. But be careful; pepper spray or some way to defend yourself for that unlikley ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to stay out of gossip at school and not look like you are trying to be too goody goody?
Q. What is the best way to stay out of gossip at school and not look like you are trying to be too goody goody? I hate it when the girls get catty because I was on the receiving end once and the only way I got out of it was to change schools and keep a ...
A. 14 May 2011: Best way; is to just not care what others think and do your own thing. Try to always do what is right for you; and what is morally right. It's hard but it will be good for you even further than the gossip. When my friend got his lady pregnet ... (read in full...)
Premature Ejaculation Tips - Last Longer In Bed!
Q. Premature ejaculation can be a serious problem for guys. Often times its effects go outside the bedroom and into your relationship. But the good news is there are things you can do to last longer in bed. If you or someone you love can’t last very ...
A. 14 May 2011: There is also the stop and go method. What you said about keeping in mind your arousal level; that comes into play here aswell. Pay attention to how aroused you are then stop for 10 seconds or however many you need to gain back control then ... (read in full...)
How can I teach him a better technique?
Q. Every time my boyfriend fingers me, the day after I am really sore. I also feel like i get dry a lot faster when he is fingering me rather than when i am masturbating. I am guessing this is all just results of him being too rough?? Does anyone ...
A. 14 May 2011: Deffinatley show him how you like it first; then after if you are willing to let him "explore" but within your pressure range so he doesnt hurt you, let him even guide him more. A good sex life is all about communication just like a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Penis size insecurities......
Q. OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...
A. 13 May 2011: Forgot something in my last post lol. A womens vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep and can only stretch to around 5 inches. I say average guys have the best luck there being as they get the full penetration and don't have any penis left hanging in ... (read in full...)
Penis size insecurities......
Q. OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...
A. 13 May 2011: To your point about the fat aroumd the pubic area. I seen something on the news about that. Every 30 pounds a man loses if he is overweight; will gain about an inch to the penis. This is not making the penis bigger; all it does is reveal more of ... (read in full...)
Do I come to grips with losing everything I know?
Q. My girlfriend lives 8 hours away. I want to move down there with her but would prefer her to move here, it is so far away from everything I know. I am a country guy bread in full; she lives in the big City L.A. It feels strange to think I would be ...
A. 13 May 2011: @Annalisa: The reason she feels safe there is because her family (NOT HER, she goes to college and maintains a 4.0 grade, she chose to stay out of it all a long time ago) is involved with one of the controling gangs. She herself is safe in the area ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but find myself thinking about this other guy
Q. I've been happily married for 6 years. Suddenly I meet this single guy acquittances from the past and we start chatting everyday. We both realize and keep saying we're really drawn to each other. He also tells me stuff like he wishes I was single ...
A. 13 May 2011: This man is nothing but temptation. Throughout life everyone is tempted by another. Its human nature to be attracted to the opposite sex, and there are many great people out there. But truth is we CANNOT have them all. You have been with your ... (read in full...)
How could he say this to me!
Q. My husband and I fought over something stupid on Mother's Day...we have not talked to each other about our child since then. On Monday our son had his last soccer game. We all went and some man held the door open for us as he was going out. I said ...
A. 13 May 2011: I have to say his words are overtly and irrevocably disrespectful. But you have to talk to him about this; find out what is causing these outbursts of jealousy, anger, and judgement. Atleast that's what I get from the words he used. Any person ... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend when he's having trouble ejaculating?
Q. Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend's difficulty in ejaculating please. We've been together 6 months and everything is great :) But, when we have sex, although he gets an erection easily, he has difficulties actually ejaculating, so we often ...
A. 13 May 2011: If he says he gets turned on by turning you on then that is great. He says he's always thinking about if he's doing well enough for you. Are you vocal in bed? Do you tell him as you are doing the deed how much he is driving you crazy? Try talking ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend spends a lot of time with a woman in her 60's. I think he should spend more time with me. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. Can someone help me with this question? I don't know of anybody being in this situation ever. My boyfriend of nearly 7 months chooses to spend his time with a lady in her 60's rather than with me. He goes to her house every night and through ...
A. 13 May 2011: I do believe it would be nice of this fellow to spend more time with you. But you may have to look at it from his point of view; maybe since his Grandad past away he wants to continue seeing her to keep her company because he cares. And lets face ... (read in full...)
My husband is buying a flat and puts it in his name. If he dies, who will get it, me or his son?
Q. I have question about the law in Europe ( Germany ). I'm come from Asia but married to a German. My husband wants to buy a flat here in Germany. He said he will put the flat only to his name. But he said he will make also another paper that when he ...
A. 13 May 2011: If he said he'd make another paper that says if he dies the flat will be yours it will be yours. If he makes such a paper; there is no legal way to take it away from you or give it to somebody else. If I were you I'd ask the details about the ... (read in full...)
What elements make for mindblowing sex?
Q. My wife and I have been together 10 years and I am trying to figure out why sometimes sex with the same partner can be so blah and other times so incredible. Usually, for us, it's blah or double blah. I have a hard time making my wife cum and I wa...
A. 13 May 2011: I agree with Savannah; ever heard the saying "tease to please"? It goes a long way. And I dont mean just teasing in the bedroom; though that surelly helps when you can get your lover to beg for it. Teasing doesnt have to just take place in the b... (read in full...)
I'm ready now, but he isn't. What should I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We are very close and care so much for each other. It's like having a best friend and a boyfriend in one, and I'm really happy, but I'm getting a little frustrated with the fact that we aren't having ...
A. 13 May 2011: All you can do is be patient. If he isn't ready you cannot force the issue. You love him, he loves you. All those things will come in time. You are both young aswell. Give more time for the relationship to mature. 8 months is a while, but real ... (read in full...)
How can I make the best out of what I got?
Q. Hello, I have a small penis and have entered a relationship with a curvy woman. We have had sex before and she says she has enjoyed it, but has also told me it could be better. She has told me she was going to ask her friends about positions ...
A. 13 May 2011: Doggystyle makes for deep penetration; butterfly is another pleaser. But sex isn't all about the penis my friend. Statistically over 80% of women need more stimulation to climax than they can get from a penis. You want to rock your girlfriends ... (read in full...)
I did something I regret... What should I do?
Q. I did something that I really regret on web-cam a few months ago. It was with my internet boyfriend. I still can't believe I did that. Now that we've already broke up, all I can feel is regret. I'm still a virgin, never been a real relationship, ...
A. 13 May 2011: You are not a slut at all; you are young and like many young people; we either do things out of impulse or after being pressured by another. Many of these situations turn out to be mistakes. But this is part of being young, we make mistakes and a ... (read in full...)
I like a player. What can I do to get him to like me?
Q. Hey ! (: Whenever I used to go out with my group of friends I used to notice a very pretty guy there... so when we all went out he would look at me and smile , at first we didn't speak very much... UNTIL the last Friday. We were at a friends b...
A. 13 May 2011: This guy is a real peice of work; I am a guy. He gives guys our bad name when women say all men are dogs. I am sorry to say he is not worth your time. Him trying to kiss you when you were vulnerable 1st warning sign. 2nd Warning sign him telling ... (read in full...)
Is married man hinting for me to sleep with him?
Q. Hello, What does it mean when a married man hints to you that he is staying in a bad situation? Is he lying or telling you the truth? Does he want to sleep with you? Interested in a relationship? Wants to give you a green light to pursue him?...
A. 13 May 2011: This answer is easy; it does'nt matter what he is hinting if he's hinting or not. Stay away from a married man. A married man even in a bad situation should have enough respect for his vows to stay honorable to his wife no matter how terrible the ... (read in full...)
I have been turned down so much that I wonder f my husband prefers his hand to me
Q. I don't know where to begin. I guess its quite simple. My hubby and I have been together for 7 yrs. Married for just over 1. In the beginning we had sex non stop. Then it went down to a few times a week, then once a week, then once a month, then ...
A. 13 May 2011: I do not understand how a guy that age would ever say no to having sex. I do not believe it is you however. If a guy is saying no to sex; its all him. Low sex drive what have you it could be. Still you say he's jerking it to porn daily...may be ... (read in full...)
How do I stop imagining how my wife cheated with this older man?
Q. Please help! I am still coming to terms with my wife having a full-blown emotional and physical affair with an older man. What I absolutely cannot get out of my head are the thoughts and images of these two people going at it - this man doing t...
A. 13 May 2011: I am sorry to hear about your marital issues. There is no easy answer to this question. Most often infidelity ends a marriage. First you have to ask yourself if you love your wife enough to stay with her to work this out. If not there is no need ... (read in full...)
Tips for talking to girls please
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old male. I came out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago, i think i should mention this was my first relationship. And i dont really have many female freinds so to be honest i do not know how to talk to girls.Es...
A. 13 May 2011: Okay; here's the thing my man. There is no set way to talk to girls; every girl is different and different things work for each girl. There is no guide book to this though some have written a few. All I can tell you is be yourself; and this is ... (read in full...)
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