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writes:Hey ! (: Whenever I used to go out with my group of friends I used to notice a very pretty guy there... so when we all went out he would look at me and smile , at first we didn't speak very much... UNTIL the last Friday.We were at a friends birthday and we got both really drunk, we were talking and laughing but not in a seductive way you know, just talking (but then there was a girl there and he was seducing her --' he's a real player, trust me)...A few hours latter i was completely drunk , couldn't even stand on my feet so and don't know why but I started insulting him and he was not happy !! I started crying and went to my friends room, because I felt really bad because i didn't want to annoy him s: A few minutes later I hear him entering the room and he was saying he was sorry for making me cry and he started hugging me and kissing me and saying he didn't mean to make me cry... I didn't wanna be alone so I asked him if he could stay in bed with me ... and we were talking and we was kind of all over me but I stopped everything - even before a little kiss could happen... and then he said he liked me and started closing his eyes... so I started running my fingers throw his hair and he fell asleep and then I laid down next to him and fell sleep too... (he is 5 years older than me and a real player and - he told his friends that I was crying because I wanted him to fuck me and he said no --' ) but, does he like me ? and what can I do to make him like me?
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reader, Sparta  +, writes (13 May 2011):
 This guy is a real peice of work; I am a guy. He gives guys our bad name when women say all men are dogs. I am sorry to say he is not worth your time. Him trying to kiss you when you were vulnerable 1st warning sign. 2nd Warning sign him telling you he liked you AFTER he tried to kiss you and you said no; this is typical of a guy of his caliber to tell a girl what she wants to hear so he can get what he wants out of her. 3rd big warning and ultimate back slap to this (Player) is him telling his friends you wanted to fuck him when he said no; even though you were the one to stop everything. If you were to get involved with this guy; it would only lead to bad things; if he stayed with you, he's more than likely to cheat. When it ends he is more than likely to spread things about you to everyone he knows; even people you know. He will not respect you or treat you well. Stay away from this guy. I'm a guy; I know how these guys think.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (13 May 2011):
 rather than make a player like you - you should be running the other way! he has already showed you what he is like - flirting with you and another girl at the same party, coming upstairs after you and getting all over you while you were drunk, telling his mates you were crying coz you wanted him to f*** you but he said no! sorry hun but although you say he is good looking - he sounds like he's got an UGLY personality.
don't make the mistake of thinking that you will be the one special girl that changes him, don't judge him on what he says he will do for you, judge him on his behaviour ok? if you MUST keep him in your life in any way, just be mates for a long while, get to know him that way before you decide to take things any further or he could end up playing you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 May 2011):
My question to you, OP, is what happened that you have so little respect for yourself that you'd let a guy like this near you? You can't be too happy if you'd allow that.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (12 May 2011):
 He'll probably like you for a day or two if you fuck him. Just tell him your available for sex anytime he wants it. Afterwards will say horrible things about you and he and his friends will start laughing. Probably some of his friends will want to have sex with you too because they think your easy.
"Being so desperate to fuck a guy that you start crying?????"
I can't understand why you want anything to do with this guy, none of this sounds romantic or sexy to me.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 Honey, the only person he likes is himself. He has no respect for you or any other girl. He is just playing with you and using all of you to boost his ego and have something to brag about to the guys. Walk away from him and never look back. He will only play with you and hurt you. You like him because he is a challenge and you see him as unattainable. Honey, pretend like that night never happened and find a nice guy who will show you he likes you. Trust me hun, it may sound harsh but I just want to to open your eyes ans see him for the ass that he is and save yourself the grief you will experience if you get involved with this man.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 No he doesnt like you.As you said he is a player therefore he sees girls as sex objects and nothing more. I really dont see the attraction you have to him ezpecially after him saying that about you to his friends, really you want someone who will lie about you, and make it sound like you are easy? Hunny you are never going to make him like you and yes he may use sweet talk to try and get you in bed, he may play with your head and make you feel special but he wont have real feelings for you and will only talk about you behind your back. Hunny dont fall for it he is trouble and you will get hurt. Just accept that he is a player and he has no respect for woman and stay well away from him for your own sake.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (12 May 2011):
 Part of the womanizing psychology is making the lady think she is the only lady in the world - you are unique like every other notch in his bedpost. HAve some respect for yourself and invest your time in someone who has grown up
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