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30-35,
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writes:Every time my boyfriend fingers me, the day after I am really sore. I also feel like i get dry a lot faster when he is fingering me rather than when i am masturbating. I am guessing this is all just results of him being too rough?? Does anyone have any advice for teaching him how to do it more carefully, slowly, and in a way that wont result in pain?We have been together for a long time and he has researched all over the internet and i have tried to tell him what to do but still he doesn't quite understand. He is upset that he can never satisfy me fully [he has only made me orgasm several times]. I am in serious need of advice! Thank you all!
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reader, Sparta +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Deffinatley show him how you like it first; then after if you are willing to let him "explore" but within your pressure range so he doesnt hurt you, let him even guide him more. A good sex life is all about communication just like a relationship. If you dont speak up; they keep doing it wrong and you end up pissed off or in this case sore. Toungue is always an option as GeeGee said, though diversity helps keep it exciting :). If he can learn to master hitting the G-Spot right; aswell as stimulating the clitorus and using his toungue for the other sensitive areas in a well to do fation. Be crowded; but woah does it make for one intense orgasm for the lady. Ideas ideas ideas :)
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (13 May 2011):
 Purchase some lube and show him how you like it with your own hand. Tell him all the main action should take place on the outside, like gently rolling and rubbing a little ball, not to poke, poke, poke inside. If that doesn't work tell him, no fingers plzz, just use your tongue.
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