Should I wait until he makes a move? He's read, but also ignored by message
Q. I use to date this guy for 7 weeks. And I fell in love with this dude and he did too, but he broke it off. because my mom is so over protective. And it sux. I really want to be back with him. I talk to my mom about how she is so over protecti...
A. 24 March 2011: I totally agree with Jmtmj on this one,when someone tells us we can't have it we as humans see it as more attractive and a challenge and want it even more,cuz we are told we can't have it! That's a fact! ... (read in full...)
I am a Christian in love with a Muslim, and I am afraid of alienating my family.
Q. I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for almost a year. I really love him and the time we spend together, our relationship just feels right to me. My only concern right now is religion, if it even is a concern. I'm Christian and he is Muslim. I'...
A. 22 March 2011: Hi, I am writing with a case of been there done that,got the t-shirt,my first love,I was in a relationship with a British-Muslim guy for 6 years, I am a non-Christian myself, he told his family I was his friend's sister,I was young,so I just ... (read in full...)
After reading the post, do you think he likes me as a friend or more?
Q. Dear cupid, I havent been on many dates in my lifetime. Maybe around 3 so far. Never had a boyfriend, only casually 'gotten to know' guys but things didn't work out because they turned out to be people someone they weren't and i ended up getting...
A. 24 February 2011: Hi,
By what you have wrote,it does sound like he likes you,exsample being playful with you,it does seem he was confortable with you.
He did say he was sorry quite alot,guys never say sorry,unless they really mean it! He said he would make it... (read in full...)
Couldn't we at least stay friends?
Q. So, a while back this guy added me on Facebook. He graduated the same high school I'm attending, so he's 3 years older than me(I'm 17, he's almost 20). We started talking and he really seemed into me and even told me so. We would Skype often, and ...
A. 24 February 2011: Hi, When you go on a first date with someone,it's very important,cuz that's when both of you make a decision,if you have any common ground or chemisty together,and if you do,it's best to wait for the guy to ask for a second date,or if he do... (read in full...)
I have a lump under my armpit...
Q. Hello everyone I seriously need all possible advices. Lately I've noticed that I have a lump under my armpit. It's the size of a pea...some people told me it could be sweat glands because lately I felt like I was really sweating too much so maybe it...
A. 24 February 2011: Hi,
You have been told right,I would say it sounds like a sweat gland,I get a lump under my arm pit now and again too,we all have them,sweat glands in different parts of our body,but to be on the safe side if it doesn't go back done after a few da... (read in full...)
Is he mad and wants me to leave him alone?
Q. A friend of mine and me used to talk on a daily basis last year and got a little to close. He moved and now is in a situation in which we cannot talk as much, but I didn't realized that until today when he send me this, I work in a comm company so ...
A. 24 February 2011: I am glad to hear a happy result! I am also happy to be of help! All the best for the future! :)... (read in full...)
I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?
Q. I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call a...
A. 23 February 2011: I will explain what I meant by that last sentence,you have to make a choice,if you think she can ever be trust again? if you want to give her a second chance with your heart again?,you would have to rebuild your relationship all over a again,start a ... (read in full...)
She wants to hear from me but I think she still loves her ex
Q. i want to date this lady who jst came out of a 4 month relationship which did not work out,we've been talking on fon for two weeks now n the respond has been great.i told her how i feel abt her bt she said she likes to hear from me bt she think ...
A. 22 February 2011: Hi,
I would give her time! She's enjoying your support you are giving her as a friend from a break-up,her heart needs time to heal at the moment,but I wouldn't expected anything but friendship from her at the moment,the best relationships can star... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me because he said I pointed out his flaws
Q. So the other day I went to see my boyfriend and he had some weird bumps on his lips and I pointed it out and ask him if it was a cold sore because it could be herpes and you should go check it out. So at first he was playful with it and after I ...
A. 22 February 2011: Hi,
It sounds like to me,that he's very immuture or you have court him out for cheating,and he is making out it's your fault he is dumping you!(classic reverse psychology) Before you dumped him for being a cheat anyway,I bet you don't have any... (read in full...)
My life turned upside-down as people consider me as an attractive girl and I was rejected by a not so good-looking person.
Q. I have met this person in my university. He's not in my institute but still we met in the university canteen where he was campaigning about some event. We met twice or thrice. At first, there wasn't anything but after some time I felt something for ...
A. 22 February 2011: Hi,
Firstly looks have nothing to do with anything,beauty is in the eye of the beholder,the main thing is chemistry and similiarties.
You have worn your heart on your sleeve to much,guys like the thrill of the chase,but you didn't give him ... (read in full...)
Do you think this man has lost interest in me?
Q. Last spring, I hit it off with a guy, who was charming and doting and looked at me like the world would end if he turned away. After a few weeks we had our first kiss and slept together. We had a couple more great nights talking and drinking and ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
Stay away from this guy he is a no good player and a user,he got what he wanted from you and has run off again,he likes the thrill of the chase,you gave in to him to easy and he knew you would!
How do you know he called time on their re... (read in full...)
Is he mad and wants me to leave him alone?
Q. A friend of mine and me used to talk on a daily basis last year and got a little to close. He moved and now is in a situation in which we cannot talk as much, but I didn't realized that until today when he send me this, I work in a comm company so ...
A. 21 February 2011: My advice is everything in life you chase,runs away,it he wants to be friends he will contact you,if not his lose but don't contact him first,easyier said than done,I know! But otherwise it's just one sided,and that's not good! Don't think of ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to someone I love?
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up recently because we are only 20, our priorites didnt match right now. and we obviously still have great chemistry (we spent three years builfding it before we dated). problem is she met someone new and while they are ...
A. 21 February 2011: Only you can answer that qustion really,can you wait around for her to change her mind? I would stay in contact as just friends,if you would rather have that than nothing,but I wouldn't jump everytime she texted or calls, you don't want her to know ... (read in full...)
She just wants to be friends and I want more. It is driving me crazy! Should I leave her?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, i am wondering if you can pls. help me with a problem that is driving me crazy. I have a friend whom i am feeling very close to. she just wants to be friends. but the closer i get to her the more i feel i am falling in love with her...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
Always put your feeling first before anyone elses,it doesn't make you a bad person,you have to care and protected yourself,none else is going to do it!
You have some tough decisions to make,first yes you are close,in a brother and sist... (read in full...)
I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?
Q. I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call a...
A. 21 February 2011: Her vanishing is a sign of guilt,pure and simple! She knows she treated you badly and you didn't deserve it!
The chances of her contacting you are very unlikely,cuz she knows you will tell her were to go,and call her all the names under the sun ... (read in full...)
Did I only want him when I couldnt have him, and now we are back together I don't want him again?
Q. Please help. i was in a relationship with a guy about a year ago and he broke up with me but i wasn't ready to split with him so i spent most of last year wishing i had him back. i thought i was heart broken. in the last few months we became really ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
How long were you guys orignally together? Have you spoken and resolved why he broke-up with you in the first place, you might have hurt feeling caused by him breaking-up with you, that you might want to share with him? You might not feel the... (read in full...)
Turnung The Tables On My Boyfriend
Q. I have not been here in a while, but right now I need somebody to talk to before I lose my mind. I already have finished crying my eyes out, now I need to vent and express myself and receive some ideas. I have always had a huge problem with ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
I am a independent women,I do still have times where I get needy on my partner,we all get them now and again being women,but the problem is when we are like that constantly,but your bfriend got with you knowing you are needy and clingy s... (read in full...)
Does it seem like he's just not that into me?
Q. Confused? What went wrong? I met a guy online about 8 months ago. He lives out of town but comes into town for business and we have seen each other about 4 times. The last time was christmas. Although, our relationship has been a bit of a yo-yo, ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi,
I think the main problem here is the distance,that's it! I think he really likes you and was interested,but he wants someone he can see more frequently and lives near to him,so he can have a stable relationship,you guys can't see one another ... (read in full...)
How can I fight the urge of sleeping with prostitutes?
Q. I am getting well into my 20's and I have no girlfriend and have fallen into a bad habit of sleeping with prostitues again. I am genuinely quite a sensible person I do not like doing this at the risk of cathing an STD, I always wear protection but ...
A. 20 February 2011: Hi,
I am sorry to hear,that you feel you have to pay for sex, so you feel excepted as a man!
That gfriend you had was nasty and cruel,that's all not all girls are like that and you must believe that,size isn't everything to a women,cuz you ca... (read in full...)
I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?
Q. I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call a...
A. 19 February 2011: Hi,
I am so sorry to hear that! :( You court her out simple as! She wanted her cake and eat it! But you found out! You are saying will she have you back? Are you serious? it should really be the other way around! Do you really want a cheater ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to someone I love?
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up recently because we are only 20, our priorites didnt match right now. and we obviously still have great chemistry (we spent three years builfding it before we dated). problem is she met someone new and while they are ...
A. 19 February 2011: Hi, I guess you are her first love and vice versa? If that's the case you never forget your first love, but you can't just be friends because you know one other inside and out. You have to keep going forward not backwards. Unless there are kids i... (read in full...)
Does his staring at me mean that hel ikes me?
Q. I like someone and I catch him staring at me a lot but I am not sure he likes me or not because whenever I catch him looking at me he turns away and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to tell him that I love him. Please help me to know how would I ...
A. 19 February 2011: Hi,
We don't look at things we are not attracted to, so I would say he likes the way you look! :) The talking thing maybe he is very shy and even more so when he likes someone,and he isn't good at starting a conversation up,so you should approach... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to feel wierd about this?
Q. My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went with ...
A. 19 February 2011: Hi,
I would find this weird too! I think things would be better if you meet her so you can clear the air,and find out more about her and see if she is a threat or they are just really close friends only? I would talk to him about meeting his frie... (read in full...)
Is he mad and wants me to leave him alone?
Q. A friend of mine and me used to talk on a daily basis last year and got a little to close. He moved and now is in a situation in which we cannot talk as much, but I didn't realized that until today when he send me this, I work in a comm company so ...
A. 9 February 2011: It sounds to me that at one point or another,he could have wanted to be more than friends with you, there could be another girl involed now? but he has moved on either way,and to him he sees you has just a friend and no more now! If you wanted more ... (read in full...)
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