Why would my boyfriend rather masturbate than have sex with me?
Q. My problem has a few layers, so I will try and explain as clearly as possible without rambling. I have been together with my boyfriend for 3 years. I am 19 and he is 26. I had sexual partners previous to him, but I was his first. He tel...
A. 25 January 2012: Thanks guys, just a quick update... I have spoken to my boyfriend and he said he didn't realize he was upsetting me as whenever we have spoken about it it has been in an argument and he thought I was just using it as
Ammunition in the argument. He s... (read in full...)
I am tempted to have sex with my ex. He is flirting with me and I really would like to respond! Please advice?
Q. Hey guys, I'm getting tempted by my ex and don't want to cheat on my bf, what should I do? My ex sends me racy FB and text messages, and has asked for/sent me pictures of himself in various stages of undress, telling me what he would do to me if we ...
A. 24 January 2012: The question is, could you live with the guilt if you slept with your ex? You say your boyfriend has never cheated on you, so why do it to him? I understand that you are unhappy with the lack of intimacy from your boyfriend and don't feel sexually ... (read in full...)
Can you use body lotion as an anal lube?
Q. I run out of anal lube. Can you use the brand Vaseline face and body lotion as anal lube? My girlfriend is really concern and I need an answers soon. Please help me asap!...
A. 11 July 2011: No. It erodes the latex in condoms. You need a latex friendly WATER BASED lube such as KY jelly. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he'll want me to go on top, and I feel so uncomfortable! Any tips?
Q. I dont know if this is a bit crude, but im currently single out of a 5 year relationship ive met someone new and i havent yet had sex with them. I worry that when I do have sex with them they will want me to go on top, I don't mind doing that ...
A. 11 July 2011: Go reverse cowgirl (face the other way) its easier top "bounce" or lean forward loads so your face is nearer his and then its easier to do the motion. I know how you feel, I'm a size 16 and my boyfriend is tiny he only has a size 28-30" waist lol so ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me to help her with repairs around her house, and is furious because I said I would charge her for it! Does that make me a jerk?
Q. I dated a girl for a while. In that time, I did a lot of things for her. One thing I did was help around her house. I am very handy and once worked for a plumber. I mowed the lawn and did repairs. We broke up two month ago. It was a bad breakup....
A. 11 July 2011: You're not being a jerk, she is trying to take advantage of the free help. Tell her if she does not want to pay then she will have to find someone else because to do the work for free! You are absolutely right in saying that you want to keep ... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed about eating around my boyfriend.
Q. Well, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We just moved in to an apartment together in April. I've always been curvier and possibly a little overweight... but it generally stays the same. I'm a size 16, 18 on a bad day,...
A. 23 June 2011: Hi there. I think it is because you are spending all your wages on food for the house that you feel like all you do i eat. Your boyfriend obviously loves you or he wouldn't of been with you for 2 years and live with you, so I wouldn't be embarrassed ... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: I don't mean to sound harsh, however CUT YOUR DAUGHTER SOME SLACK. Seriously, you are reading into this far too much. And what are you doing copying and pasting your daughter's conversations off facebook? It is an invasion of her privacy to copy ... (read in full...)
She wants to make me happy, and I want her to give me head but I'm afraid of her reaction. How do I approach this?
Q. Ok so, my girlfriend told me recently that "I want you to be happy and I want to give you everything you want" We are 6 months in the relationship and I've sorta been yearning for head..she wants me to tell her what makes me really happy, ive told ...
A. 18 March 2011: If you are both underage then I wouldn't advise you to participate in sexual activity. However, if you are both of age then just speak to her about it! Just ask her, don't say "will you give me head" just start a conversation about it and see if ... (read in full...)
What happened to my sweet girl? Cant she see that I love her?
Q. Ok this is for the girls but if you lads know I'd like to hear you to. So say you got 2 girls. Girl A's a super bitch that don't chase a lad and don't let him treat her like crap and Girl B's a sweet rosebud who chase after a lad and keep being ...
A. 18 March 2011: Well no offence but it is your own fault. You said you pushed them both to the point of no return - why would you do that and expect everything to be ok? Your "sweet rosebud" as you call her has probably got sick of coming crawling back to someone ... (read in full...)
Complicated mess with a father, his mistress, son and wife....
Q. A son and his father ,aged 63, have started together a successful company that has over 30 employees. The problem started when one of the female employees wanted to start an affair with the boss which is the father. The father is married and has 4 ...
A. 18 March 2011: Just speak to your father!! Maybe he doesn't realise what trouble he is causing and getting himself into.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date her before she is 16?
Q. Hi, I'm a 17 year old male and I met this 15 year old girl who lives in the west of London (I live in the east). I'm going to be 18 in May, she will be 16 in August, would I be a prevert if I dated her before she is 16?...
A. 18 March 2011: Dating her is acceptable, however having sex with her is illegal. By all means take her out for dates etc but if you have sexual intercourse with her before she is 16 you are breaking the law.
And no, it doesn't make you a pervert to date her... (read in full...)
He doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me!!!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 4 months, it a man who's more mature than me. Last night he said "I love you so much" in french, then he said he didn't mean it. After when we back home, he said he doesn't love me but he is crazy in love with me. ...
A. 1 July 2010: I know you mean older my mature, but this guy sounds pretty immature to me!... (read in full...)
Semen in his boxer shorts!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he ...
A. 1 July 2010: He might of been masturbating. The fact the boxers were behind the TV suggests to me that he was perhaps watching a dirty movie and was trying to hide the evidence.
I wouldn't worry - it's natural for a male to watch a bit of porn now and then... (read in full...)
Help with bikini line!
Q. Hey. I'm going on holiday next week, which means bikini time! I need to tidy up down below and sort out my bikini line. I've never really done it before so I don't know what to do. I won't be able to go to the beautician's. So any advice? Thank you!...
A. 1 July 2010: Firstly, make sure you have a PROPER good razor, not one of those crappy disposable things, as they can leave you with a horrible, stubbly, itchy finish. Secondly, make sure you have a decent shave gel (ones such as gilette women or even just asda's ... (read in full...)
I know he is married, ..but I like him!
Q. there this guy that i work with 2 days a week, he's married. we exchanged numbers due to work contact. he starting texting me and we were having a banter and joke for a few days. i saw him at work 3 days later and we were really flirty. he has sent ...
A. 25 March 2010: no no NO NO NO NO Do not go there, you could ruin his marriage and whole life. Trust me. My brother was having an affair with a saturday girl at his shop for 8 months and he lost his wife and child over it. DO NOT RUIN HIS LIFE. He lusts after you. ... (read in full...)
Has anyone taken a partner back after an emotional affair?
Q. I was wondering if any of you have ever forgiven your partner and taken them back after an emotional (non-sexual/physical) affair? I am seriously considering taking my partner back. I can't believe how much healing we've done with our talks s...
A. 25 March 2010: It depends entirely on the situation. By the sounds of it, you both realised your issues and confronted them. This means that it could make your relationship stronger as you both realise where you went wrong last time. At the end of the day, if you ... (read in full...)
My husband says I do not please him sexually. I'll try harder,... but what should I do?
Q. Hi I'm having an problem with my huzzie....Our problem is in our early year or two married i use to lie to him alot and the reason for that is that he never wanted me to do anything for my self or go anyway things like that he never liked me to go ...
A. 25 March 2010: What a d*ck. You should NOT try harder, you are doing everything he wants. Tell him maybe he should go down on you once in a while. Like the previous answer - kick it not lick it!! Sorry dude but he sounds like a right nob.... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't keep fretting about it hun, you're just torturing yourself unneccessarily. Strip clubs mean nothing, even if the girls there are totally naked. I think this has less to do with the fact he went to the strip club, and more about how insecure ... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to call because it causes her difficulties with her husband, I wonder whys he still calls me?
Q. I have an ex-gf, which we have remain friends for years after we broke up ( yrs ago ) , which it was due because a mutual understanding. one day she calls me to tell me she was getting married, i wished her well and told her i was happy for her. ...
A. 1 October 2009: Sounds like 1 of 3 things.
1) She isn't happy in her relationship, and is contacting you to use that as an excuse for a fight or break up.
2) She isn't over you deep down, so keeps contacting you just to speak to you.
3) She genuinely want... (read in full...)
In love with my friend who lives away and is 13 years older!
Q. there is this girl who was like my best my friend but then she moved down to london less than a year ago. when we hung around i didn't feel a romantic connection with her i loved her as a friend but now she has gone i feel that i'm in love with...
A. 1 October 2009: You want what you can't have. She's older and moved away, so in your heart you know you can't have her and your head takes them signals as you want to be with her. I think you probably miss her company and friendship. You should arrange to meet up ... (read in full...)
After 3 and a half years and a child together, we hardly ever have sex, help us?
Q. Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and we have a child together. He says he loves me but we hardly ever have sex anymore ( almost never) and he used to be very, very sexual ALL the time. At one point he told me he loves me ...
A. 1 October 2009: It sounds a bit like the "honeymoon period" has worn off, but this is still no excuse for him to be un-loving. The fact you have been together for 3 and a half years, and have a child, is no reason for him to start treating you like you have no ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and best friend have been fooling around whilst I was on holiday, how do I talk to them about it?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now he's 15 im 14 and sexually active. im worrying as recently i went to Turkey on holiday and when i came back i found out my boyfriend and supposed best friend have been playing a questi...
A. 10 August 2009: I think if they say they were just fooling around, then you have to trust them on that. If you were older you would probably understand, I mean that in the least derogitary way possible. I'm not judging one bit, however I do think that if you think ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend be watching porn?
Q. Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...
A. 9 August 2009: Seriously, you women need to chill out. I am a female and I am in a long term relationship with a lovely man and we have a great sex life. However, sometimes men need to watch porn - its just a fact they all do it and it does NOT MEAN THEY ARE BEING ... (read in full...)
If he went soft when we were having sex, does it mean he wasn't enjoying it?
Q. If 2 people are having sex and enjoying it, what does it mean if the guy goes soft half way through?? Does it mean he didnt like me? or wasnt enjoying himself? I'm filling my head with lots of rubbish and just need someone to tell me what it ...
A. 28 April 2009: It happens to the best of men, and it is nothing to worry about.
However, if you still feel insecure about it, or worried, and you feel comfortable with this man, just ask him about it but not in a way that is going to make him embarassed abnout i... (read in full...)
How much is too large an age gap?
Q. I am 28 and my boyfried is 2 1/2 years younger. It's not an issue for us, but is that too big a gap? His friends don't seem to approve although they are my age. Princess...
A. 22 January 2009: Age gaps are ok to a certain degree. Here's what I think... I am currently 16. I have recently split up with my partner who is 27 (he was 26 when we were together). At first I thought age gaps don't matter as age is just a number. I have always go... (read in full...)
I want to know what experiences people have with age-gap relationships...
Q. I don't really have a problem..(well i do, but thats a dif. story..lol) Anywho, I just want to know if there is anyone out there that is dating or married to someone with an age difference of over 15 years,and if so what makes it work and what ...
A. 24 November 2008: I am 16 and have been in a relationship with my current partner for 7 months. He is 26. We get a lot of different reactions, but to be honest we believe that it is not the age that is the issue, it is the level of maturity. At first I thought he ... (read in full...)
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