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writes:Ok so, my girlfriend told me recently that "I want you to be happy and I want to give you everything you want" We are 6 months in the relationship and I've sorta been yearning for head..she wants me to tell her what makes me really happy, ive told her just being with her makes me happy but she told me she knows it something else. I want to tell her I want head but I'm discouraged by it because months earlier my friend mentioned that his girlfriend gave him head and she responded with "ew I think that's gross, that's like one thing I can't imagine myself doing for a long time" and now that I heard that I don't know what to say to her, I told her that I'll tell her what "really" makes me happy someday but I really hope I'll be able to talk to her about it without her thinking I'm disgusting for even bringing it up in the first place. Advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): If she has said that to you, then I would think she is thinking of giving you head, but I cant say for sure!
If you want to be really polite about it, say something like, "I would love to go down on you, and maybe you could repay the favor" or something like that, so the knows its not just a one sided thing of you demanding oral sex...
Or you could just try asking her when you are both in a comfortable and romantic setting... some girls love it, some hate it, some will do it but dont really like it... and until you ask youll never know which one she is! Just try asking, she offered so she probably wont be offended if you ask for something like a blow job... its not exactly kinky or scary, just some people dont like doing it!
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reader, SeriouslyStephanie  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 If you are both underage then I wouldn't advise you to participate in sexual activity. However, if you are both of age then just speak to her about it! Just ask her, don't say "will you give me head" just start a conversation about it and see if it's something she would like to do. If your not mature enough to talk about sexual stuff with her then your not mature enough to be participating in it. You should see if she wants you to repay the favour though - it's no fun being a girl, giving head and not getting anyting in return! Good luck!
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