The process of (LDBI)
Q. This article consists of four simple words, Love, despair, broken, and incomplete. In other words the process of LDBI. Everyone goes through this process atleast once in their life, maybe more. Let me explain this process to you in greater detail. L...
A. 6 November 2010: I feel that the process you have came up with is a very thought out and very true thing. I was slipping into a rough patch, then i read your article and surprisingly it made me feel alot better. I really just want to say thank you.... (read in full...)
I want to be a teen dad, but how do I tll my parents?
Q. How can I tell my parents that me and my partner are trying for baby and will get a flat when the baby is born? My dad is quite old fasioned, he will probably go mad what should I do, Im excited if my partner gets pregnant because I love her lots ...
A. 21 July 2008: becoming a parent is not easy and your teen years will never be the same if you have a baby. what are you and your lover going to do if she gets pregnant and her parents or your parents will not help take care of the baby. are you guys going to drop ... (read in full...)
When and how should I come out of the closet?
Q. I'm gay and only 13. Here is my situation. I go to a catholic school. My dad is an uber republican. All of my family is super religious(christian), as are my aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, grandparents. I live in a community where a lot ...
A. 15 July 2008: i had a friend (14 years old) that was in the same situation you are. his mother and father were the biggest repulicans anyone will every meet. they went to church every sunday morning, every sunday night, and every wensday night. and my gay friend ... (read in full...)
Can I be close to my boyfriend AND my gay friend?
Q. I have a good friend who’s gay. We used to be best friends until I met my boyfriend. When I introduced them both, they did not get along. They were polite to each other, but my gay friend thinks I can find someone better than my boyfriend. My ...
A. 14 July 2008: love don't come around often.
but a friendship is once in a life time.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend's sexual history normal?
Q. Hi everyone, hoping someone could help me out a little here. This may seem odd, but I’m too shy to bring this up to any of my friends, for fear of sounding strange. I was never a guy who dated too much, and tended to keep to myself most of the t...
A. 14 July 2008: of course it's normal! there is nothing odd about a hot younger girl having a healthy sex life. but don't worry she loves you and only you. don't let the past get you down or you will never have a bright future.
best of luck.... (read in full...)
Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?
Q. Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ...
A. 14 July 2008: moan of course. guys love that. when you moan everything get hot and steamy.... (read in full...)
Might be pregnant, boyfriend stressed - What to do!
Q. My boyfriend has been really stressed lately, mainly because we're thirteen and might become parents. I always feel like I am doing something wrong. I try to get him to talk to me about it, but he says he doesn't want to because he doesn't want me ...
A. 14 July 2008: you don't need to be worrying about your boyfriend you need to be worrying about yourself. there is question you need to ask yourself, can i take care of a baby.
can me and my parents aford a baby.
will my parents except the fact i'm pregnant... (read in full...)
I want to get back with him, but I'm scared of rejection.
Q. please help me i dont no what to do. I lost my virginity to a boy when i was just 13. i new him as he only lives round the corner from me and have liked him 4 ages .. 3 years later we got together we was in a seriouse relationship. But recently...
A. 14 July 2008: if he says he doesn't know what he wants sometimes don't mean that, he might just be scared, he might think he's falling in love to fast. talk to him about the problem tell him you need some info. you deserve a anwser. tell him you want to be with ... (read in full...)
All my friends talk about oral sex - but I don't know what it is!
Q. What is oral sex? I am too young to even think about having it, I just want to know because everyone knows and I don't. So when they talk about it I just have to go along with it, and what if one of these days they ask if I know what it is...I ...
A. 14 July 2008: oral sex is when another person uses their mouth on another persons privates.... (read in full...)
Is she embarrassed by my age?
Q. Hello to you, I've been seeing my girlfriend for a year on Tuesday. I love her with all my heart and soul. The thing is, I've just turned 19 and but my girlfriend 34. She has been divorced for 4 years and has two children. A boy whose 12 and...
A. 14 July 2008: thats great that you love your girlfriend, and i'm postive she loves you back. i don't think your girlfriend is embarrassed by you or your age because if she was she wouldn't let you meet her kids. i think the case here is she don't think her family ... (read in full...)
There's this really cute guy I met on the school bus, how do I take it further?
Q. hey i'm 13 and i broke up with my first bf ever a couple of months ago and theres this really cute boy that i met on my school bus, i really like him but he's 16 we both like vid games especially world of warcraft (geeky i know but still) n we're ...
A. 13 July 2008: talk to him and i don't think the age difference is such a big deal, he is only 3 years older... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any insight on this rash I have around my genital area?
Q. Hi, I really dont know how to explain, but ok, for about 2 weeks ive had this, irritation around my genital area, a redness basically, i used body powder, the goldbonds kind, and i think maby it worsened, i highly doubt its an std, ive been with the ...
A. 13 July 2008: well i'm not sure what the rash is, but if i was you i would go see a doctor just to make sure evrerything is ok.
good luck.... (read in full...)
He punched me! What do I do about this bf who loves me one minute and treats me horribly the next??
Q. hi, i really need a bit of advice as i dont feel there is anyone close enough to talk to about this. me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two years, will be two years in october, and i love him with all my heart and more! i would do ...
A. 13 July 2008: your boyfriend needs help, and as long as your going back to him he will keep hitting you. this is serious and you should stay away until he gets help. i hope everything works out and your not physical or emontoialy hurt. you deserve better and i ... (read in full...)
Why does he need to lie to me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, he basically lives with me considering he stays the night at my house every night. We have a issue lately I have been really under the weather. My job seems to be in a rut and he really has not been ...
A. 13 July 2008: maybe he feels like he has no freedom anymore, or on the other hand he could be cheating but he prob isn't cheating on you. give him some space and maybe things will work out. relationships are hard and when someone is around other person for a ... (read in full...)
What are the odds of my girlfriend being pregnant?
Q. So here is my dilema. My girlfriend and I had sex last night and I came inside her. One hour after, she started her period. What's the odds of her getting pregnant? We have sex on a very consistant basis atleast once a day no more than 5 times a ...
A. 13 July 2008: probably not, the chances are very slim if she started her period. but everyone makes mistakes and it could be possible. best of luck... (read in full...)
He flirts with me when we're alone, but he was very quiet when his friends were near. Does he not like me?
Q. Ok, so i like this guy called Jamie. I've liked him for.. ages really. When i see him at work, he comes across strong and i can tell he likes me. Everyday, he flirts with me, jokes around a bit.. the things a guy would do if he liked you. He h...
A. 13 July 2008: do you really want someone thats going to treat you badly. i think you deserve better.
best of luck... (read in full...)
Why didn't he have the decency to tell me he didn't want to keep in touch anymore?
Q. I have been e mailing a man friend who always said he would always reply to my e mails but uinfortunately he hasnt recently so I assume our friendship is over for good. Why is it he couldnt have the decency to say that he had decided he didnt want ...
A. 13 July 2008: move on and get on with your life. he wasn't going to be there for ever you know, and you deserve better than that. you deserve someone that will always be there for and never let you down. not some one thats going to leave you hanging.
best of luck... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to tell a man I hardly know that I love him? Isn't life about taking the bull by the horns?
Q. Is it so wrong for me to tell a man that I hardly know very well that I love him yes I do love him and I cant help it. Life is too short and my friend says take the bull by the horns and let him know then its up to him if he acts on it or not or if ...
A. 13 July 2008: love is very powerful i hope that you have found your power. because you should tell him you love him.... (read in full...)
I like this lad that says I'm not his type but is he giving me the look of love?
Q. i like a lad but he said that im not his type everyone says he likes me. i know that he keeps looking at me but i dont know if its a friendly look or the lok of love...
A. 13 July 2008: the look of love is a secret look the most darlen thing a person can see. some people doesn't even know what the look of love is i hope you do because if you are getting the look you are a very lucky person. but if your not don't freak, because i'm ... (read in full...)
What can I do about the degrading comments I get about my boobs?
Q. Im 15 and have 34D boobs. I do like them (i consider them my best physical feature) but my problem is that i feel sometimes really degraded by the comments i get from boys about them. i dont wear low-cut tops to attract attention to them or anything ...
A. 13 July 2008: well actully that it called sexual harrestemet, if it bothers you that much tell an adult. then everything will be better.
best of luck... (read in full...)
What should I do about a guy that likes me AND someone else?
Q. I'm really close to this guy, I told him i like him and he said he likes me back! Brilliant i know.. but then he said he liked someone else too, but fancies me alot. I'm not sure what to do, I think about him all the time. Any advice on what to do, ...
A. 13 July 2008: i had the same problem also, and to find out the boy was just playin me. but in your case in may be different, just look out and make sure that really like this boy, ask him does he like you more than this girl, and if he says yes then you 2 can be ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age so it only lasted 2 days! I was in love so how do I recover?
Q. Okay...here it is.. i know im young,but im positive i fell in love last year. i lied about my age, it lasted 2 days and he hates me now. i can't stop thinking about him and it hurts so much. i can't go on without closure. i miss so much it makes me ...
A. 13 July 2008: being in love is a powerful thing and it shouldn't be built on lies. you shouldn't of lied about your age, you shouldn't lie about anything in a relationship, because it only leads to trust issues. now about the recovering part i'm not sure of.
b... (read in full...)
I'm not worried about this other girl, but does this plan sound good with my ex?
Q. Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someo...
A. 12 July 2008: 3 way relationships never work, if you have a deep love for this man like you say you do, you will explain to him that you should be the only girl. but if he don't agree he dosen't have that deep love like you say you do for him.... (read in full...)
If I tell my mother I'm pregnant I think she'll kick me out of the house!!
Q. Im 11 years old and i think im pregnant ifi tell my mum i know she will kick me out of the house. what should i do??...
A. 12 July 2008: hi hun
i know it's hard but are you for sure your pregnant? if you are i think you're mother will understand and she has to find out soon anyway. let your friends and family help you and don't be afraid. and sweetie you are WAY TO YOUNG to be ha... (read in full...)
We are close, he still talks to and sleeps over at his ex's, am I wrong to want him to stop, I am totally confused, should I move on?
Q. so i meet Mr x about 8 months ago in a website we have chilled and have good times we have got to know each other intimate too. but recently i have discover things about his past. he has had 3 exes which he still talks too and the last one he hasent ...
A. 12 July 2008: tell him your true feelings. if he loves you he will understand.... (read in full...)
Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?
Q. At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pre...
A. 12 July 2008: it doesn't matter what age you are, have sex when you are ready. if you have pressured sex you will regret it.... (read in full...)
He asked me if I'd have sex without a condom and I would, but what are the risks of pregnancy?
Q. i am ready to have sex with this boy but he has asked if a would do it without a condom, i don't think i would but whats the chances of getting pregnant first time without a condom? and am a virgin just now btw...
A. 12 July 2008: hun it sounds like you don't know much about sex anyway, and it takes only 1 time to get pregnant. use a condom and be smart about sex. safe sex is the best way to have sex. if you use a condom it can prevent pregnancy and STD.
best of luck!!... (read in full...)
I've always been close to my cousin, but now he seems to be jealous of my boyfriend. What's with him?
Q. So i have always been close with my cousin, even since we were babies we were born 3 days apart. We hang out all the time, staying at eachothers houses stuff like that. He is my best friend i can always rely on him and vice versa. But recently h...
A. 12 July 2008: maybe he thinks your boyfriend isn't good enough for you and just wants to protect you. but i may be wrong i could be something different than the whole protecting you thing.... (read in full...)
Views on condoms - sex more pleasurable without?
Q. I now feel ready for full sex-my boyfriend is too. We've talked about contraception and condoms.Some of my friends saythere's no difference in the pleasurable sensations for a woman whether a man wears one or not.Others say the feeling is much bet...
A. 12 July 2008: use a condom! safer sex is the best way to go, do you want a baby or a STD at your age?... (read in full...)
12 years old and I'm scared to even hold my boyfriends hand.
Q. im only 12 but eveyone at school seems to be getting boyfriends. i have one but i dont know how to snog and im scared to hold his hand any everything. what should i do?...
A. 12 July 2008: do you even want to hold his hand? and if you do don't be afaird because he prob. wants to hold your to. just let it happen it's in the moment kinda thing kinda like kissing.... (read in full...)
I am completely lost on how to get a boyfriend! What does a girl have to do to get one?
Q. I am 15 and totally lost on how to aquire a boyfriend. I am the only one of all of my friends who has never had and does not have a boyfriend. It wouldnt be so bad if they didnt all talk about them all the time. I just want someone to hold han...
A. 12 July 2008: maybe you aren't as mature as all your other friends. and maybe you should ask this boy your head over heels for out, you never know his anwser may be YES. and he might be head over heels about you. does this boy have a girlfriend. need anymore ... (read in full...)
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