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writes: Im 15 and have 34D boobs. I do like them (i consider them my best physical feature) but my problem is that i feel sometimes really degraded by the comments i get from boys about them. i dont wear low-cut tops to attract attention to them or anything like that - i cover up as i should but still they comment. like "shes got well big t*ts" or "check the t*ts on her!" dont get me wrong, i like attention from lads but not in that way! i feel dirty, cheap and slightly violated when i hear things like that. what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone for the replies!
Some of you told me to tell the headteacher - prehaps I should've explained, it doesn't happen at school. Its usually when Im out and about with friends that it happens.
I will try and ignore the comments and be proud of who I am...and as Dr Vendetta said "use them for their magical powers" lol
Thanks to all again for the replies!!!
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Consider yourself lucky. many girls will bitch and whine about their tiny boobs or they want Bigger boobs.Having big tits is nothing to be ashamed of. As you get older you're going to realise, and i mean this with a great sence of seriousness. You boobs have magical powers. Yes thats right. Magical powers. Liturally. guys are easy to malnipulate and are a sucker for girls with well endowed breasts.Telling the head teachers or principal is only going to make it more of an issue, as teachers are perverts as well.Yes you have Big boobs, Congratulations.Be proud of them. and of course you're not being wrisky but flashing them off or wearing low cut cleavage tops.Guys will always be pricks about stuff like this at a young age. would you rather they said " wow did you see that girls under developed breasts? ahhaah yeah mine are bigger"Try turning this to your advantage if you can.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Very little, you can't change the entire world.
The most you can do is learn to accept that this is just the way things are, let it be water of a ducks back.
I could say that they are being immature but that might get you to think men grow out of it. They don't.
Some guys will always be like this, consider it early warning, apparently to them a woman is nothing but a carrier of boobs. True enough, but you should have the decency not to say it to her tits... eh face. (Kidding).
People will always make comments if you stand out and if you don't stand out, they will find something. You just go to learn to ignore it and not let if affect your own self image.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): ignore them. be proud of urself. i wish i had big tits:P lol
those comments are immature and dont mean a thing.
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reader, Passthrough  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 If they are actually using those words, that's sexual harassement... Take it up with your headmaster or principal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): You shouldn't feel cheap or dirty, the perverted inmature boys should. I was in the same boat at your age, and I know how it feels when someone makes those kinds of comments. If it is happaning at school, talk to someone in adminitrative position, and you could file sexual harrasment charges. No one should ever be self concious of a God given gift. Please know I will pray for you Sweetie.
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reader, Secret Teller +, writes (13 July 2008):
 well actully that it called sexual harrestemet, if it bothers you that much tell an adult. then everything will be better.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): man im 3 years older than you and i wish mine were that big!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): I'm 15 too, and I know that guys can be total idiots like that sometimes. I'd say do your best to ignore all the comments, what does it matter what they say, do they even know you? A real guy would get to know you not just be interested in your bra size!
Don't feel dirty or cheap, you're not provoking their comments by saying suggestive things back are you? Just don't listen to the lads who make stupid remarks like that :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Don't worry about anything guys say! My friend.. well 3 of m freinds are the same size.. and they don't cover up. I have heard some of the comments people can be given. I would say don't worry about it, if they say it, think 'yeah, to right pal, I do have big boobs, and you know what?! I'm proud' see if that makes you feel better. It's all about self confidence. Trust yourself. :)
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