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writes:Im 11 years old and i think im pregnant ifi tell my mum i know she will kick me out of the house. what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): Probably a bit to late now but 11?!
Has your period even started yet?!
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reader, Secret Teller +, writes (12 July 2008):
 hi hun
i know it's hard but are you for sure your pregnant? if you are i think you're mother will understand and she has to find out soon anyway. let your friends and family help you and don't be afraid. and sweetie you are WAY TO YOUNG to be having sex, and if you still want to have sex please use a condom you are just 12 do you want a baby or a STD at the age of 12.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Hi babes, I'm sorry about your situation, you must be very worried and scared. The aunts and uncles are right, please give us more information, why do you think your pregnant.
If you sure you are pregnant, you can't hide it, your mum will find out. She will eventually know. If you can't face talking to her at the moment, then make an appointment to see your doctor. Give him your name and tell him you need it to be confidential. I'm not sure if he will tell your mother, but you need to get some help, very quickly.
Please write us back, we want to help. Please tell us what happened and what things you have noticed that makes you think you may be having a baby. Don't be scared, we want to help. Write us back today. Take care of you, don't worry, big, big hugs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): WHy do you think you are pregnant?
Give us more information and maybe we can give better advice and be of more assistance.
Best wishes and lots of smiles
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): first, get a pregnancy test to be sure. if youre not, buy a good supply of condoms. if you are then:
you should tell her. shes going to find out eventually anyway. you might be wrong about her reaction. of course, she will be angry, at first, but after she has time to deal with it and take it all in, but i dont think she would leave and 11 year old in the streets.
you can consider abortion (in CA you can do that without parental notice at any age). i dont know your states laws though. but, you shouldn't get an abortion because you are afraid of your mothers reaction. if youre against abortion, then you should really talk about it with your parents, teachers, counselors, anybody mature you can trust about other methods.... like adoption and how to tell youre parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Before going any further, are you using your mum's computer? Your age and the registered user's name sort of conflict a bit.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Hi Hunny
First of all please can you give more details sweetheart what did you actually do I no this may sound stupid but It would give us a better idea of how to help LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Torianne +, writes (12 July 2008):
 First off, you need to determine if you are pregnant. Go to your doctor or a pharmacist for an EPT. If you are then, as a minor, you need to tell your mother. Yes she may be shocked, angry and upset but you need her support.
Also 11 years old is such a young age to be having sex. Your body is not really physically or emotionally ready to deal with it.
Please get a test asap. You need to deal with this sooner rather than later. Chances are you may have to terminate the pregnancy but in the long run it may be the better option although it doesn't seem like it.
Above all, confide in your mother. You need her right now as you are only a child yourself. If not, then please talk to a relative that you trust.
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