I feel very anxious and uncomfortable when my boyfriend's ex is around and even found myself reading his emails to her. Do I have a right to feel the way I do?
Q. I have been dating my wonderful boyfriend for a little more than a year. We're both 24. He's my first boyfriend, and 99.9% of the time, I couldn't be happier with him. He literally is one of the most kind, considerate, old-fashioned, respectful ...
A. 21 August 2013: First of all unless you've made this entire situation up in your head because you're completely crazy then I don't think you're overreacting at all. If it's upsetting you then it's important to discuss how you feel.
Most of the men I've dated ha... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend still friends with his ex? Does he still have feelings for her?
Q. Hi, lately I've been worrying about my boyfriend's friendship with his ex girlfriend. They were together for 2 years and she was his first serious relationship and also his first love. She cheated on him and left him for the other guy and l...
A. 21 August 2013: Situations begin & end for a reason. After time some people realise this & move on & then, for some, it's a little bit harder.
To answer your question about getting hurt & echoing what they other answerers have said, yes there is a possibil... (read in full...)
I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.
Q. So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). ...
A. 5 May 2011: I really don't mean to be rude but you say that
'We are also committed to only secret relationship and that this relation wont affect or change our love for our spouses. But still in the corner of my heart I feel like I am cheating to myself o... (read in full...)
Am I be controlling by not wanting my boyfriend to meet up with his ex?
Q. I went out with my boyfriend the other night for something to eat and a couple of drinks, we ended up having a heart to heart and he said to me 'If (his ex) ever asked me to hang out with her one day would you mind?', I was a bit tipsy at this ...
A. 20 January 2011: Hi guys,
Thanks a million for the great input. I really appreciate the answers. I do question her intentions as well if she does ask to meet him for coffee. I think she may recently be out of a relationship as well :/ I do trust him but I also ques... (read in full...)
I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?
Q. Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking ab...
A. 29 October 2009: I wouldn't even begin worrying about whether your instructor knows if you fancy him or not because first I'd be more concerned about the fact that he's married! Fair enough if you fancy him because a lot of the times we don't choose who we li... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of these lack of trust and anxiety issues?
Q. Hi guys :) I've been going out with this great guy for over two months and I really really like him. I've been in horrible relationships prior to this and unfortunately these have left me with bad trust issues and anxiety. I can't seem to enjoy th...
A. 29 October 2009: Thanks so much for the insightful answer :) I'm working on the anxiety, I'm trying to get over it, it's a slow process but hopefully I'll get there and it will be worthwhile :)... (read in full...)
She says she does some crazy stuff sometimes and doesn't want to hurt me
Q. A girl that i had been talking to for a few weeks now, and had plans to date me down the road after some other guys got left her alone because she had no interest in them. Well they have and she sent me a message saying that she didn't want to date ...
A. 18 May 2009: At the end of the day it's up to you to take that risk but the liklihood is that you could be hurt again & you're just telling yourself that you'll be ok with it because the infatuation with this girl is blindsighting you.
On the other hand it ... (read in full...)
I told him I like him but he has a girlfriend
Q. Well i have liked this boy for about ages now and i finally told him ( over msn lol ) and he said he sorta likes me aswell but he has a girlfriend and when my bestmatee said to him why dont you dump your girlfriend and go out with louise he said no ...
A. 18 May 2009: I'm afraid your best bet is to leave this one. I was in a really similar situation except I got involved with the guy & it all ended badly. He didn't leave his girlfriend like he said, they rarely do. Guess who ended up getting hurt? Me. Situations ... (read in full...)
Cut and paste MSN drama. Can anyone help?
Q. Hey I’m 16 and nearly 17 and just come out of a relationship. The guy I was with was amazing, I wasn’t with him long (only 5 weeks) but me and him really clicked together, and on our second date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He’s 20 got a ...
A. 18 May 2009: Hun, I've been through this myself & I tell you most other girls have been too.
In my opinion I believe he is just letting you down with an excuse, now fair enough his grandad died & it's probably a stressful time for him but I still think he... (read in full...)
She's doing my head in! What's going on with this girl?
Q. hey, i am not sure if am doing this for advice or just to get it off my chest. i met this girl a while back. we dated for a short time before she said it wasnt going to work. she never gave me a reason why. i was crushed when she said it cos it w...
A. 4 May 2009: I understand completely where you're coming from, I was in a strange sort of relationship like that a while ago. I'm going to be brutal with you, stay away from her for a while until you can get over her because she's obviously got some issues that ... (read in full...)
I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't ...
A. 20 May 2008: Talk to her. The basis of any good relationship is communication. When communication falls apart then it's time to think about where the relationship is going. Obviously this is making you feel bad and there could be a reason why your girlf... (read in full...)
WOMEN: Have you ever dated an older man? MEN: Any insight on younger women?
Q. Women : Have you ever dated an older man? If you have, how young were you when you first dated an older man, and what was it like? Age gap? Men: Any insight on younger women? I’m 23, she’s 19. I’ve always dated women my age or a couple ...
A. 20 May 2008: I'm 19 & my boyfriend is 23 but unfortunately he acts younger than I do which annoys me... ;P but apart from that I really don't feel the age gap. I never think about it in fact.
When I was 18 I went out with a 25 year old. I didn't think anything... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?
Q. I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...
A. 16 May 2008: I was just reading that very interesting comment that an anonymous answerer left:
'So kids who live in single-parent households know or sometimes even see or hear their parents having sex with others, and they figure that they can do it too.'
My ... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?
Q. I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...
A. 15 May 2008: I completely agree with you, it's absolutely appalling.
I don't even know what children today are becoming, not only is it sexual activities but it's violence too. & I agree with many of the people who answered that it's the parents that are to b... (read in full...)
Any help from girls! Help, is this a period?
Q. hey hey, I started bleeding today from my vagina and methinks it may be periods but i thought id get your opinion.. my blood varys in colour from brownish to bright red is this right?? and i seem to have a continuous flow of blood.. is this normal ...
A. 14 May 2008: Yep it sounds like a period all right!
Blood may appear brownish then turn red then back to brown when your period is ending.
& having a continuous flow of blood is normal but what's normal for girls when they start having their periods ca... (read in full...)
I've been cheating. I need advice on how to move forward.
Q. i have been cheating on my boyfriend of 8 years i have been unhappy for about a year .i have now finished with other man but despite this i am still in love with him .my boyfreind knows i cheated and left but i told him to come back and he did. i ...
A. 14 May 2008: It seems that you really don't know what you want, or what will make you happy.
Cheating is never the answer to an unhappy relationship & trust me, I've been there. The excuse "Oh but I'm so unhappy in my current relationship" is never a proper e... (read in full...)
Can I delay my period?
Q. Hi I am going on holiday this summer and I don't want to be on my period as I will be in a bikini alot, maybe even skinny dipping, and will be having fun with guys. I have heard that I can postpone my period using the pill so I don't have i...
A. 14 May 2008: If you're on the combined Pill take it during your week break for another 21 days.
So that's the first 21 days then when it comes to your seven day break just keep taking it till you finish your second packet.
There is no harm in this at all. ... (read in full...)
Why isn't she getting pregnant? We keep trying...
Q. me and my partner have been having unprotected sex for 18months now! she is 19 and im 22.it may seem young but we are financially stable and want a baby! but she dont seem to get pregnant! is there a problem with either of us?...
A. 14 May 2008: First of all you need to re-evaluate your situation here. Having a baby & raising it is a really big deal, it's not something that you jump into.
If you BOTH are 100% sure that you want to have a child & that you both are financially stable &... (read in full...)
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