Been on a few dats, but I don't know how to break it off now
Q. I've been on a few dates with this really nice sweet guy but I've decided now that I just don't feel anything for him! He still keeps texting me but I don't know how to break it off- whether to be honest and explain that I just don't feel a spark or ...
A. 12 October 2008: Please be honest with this guy,the same thing is being DONE to me at the moment,we met,we dated,got on great,I would actually say he was more the chaser of me,now he has stopped calling,teting etc,although he did text me out the blue a couple of ... (read in full...)
I feel very disappointed he hasn't tried to make much contact after the break up to know how I was doing. Are people really that callous?
Q. Could someone please help me understand? My boyfriend (?) and I broke up in October last year. I also found out later that month that he had lied and cheated many many times. We actually tried to do the whole friends bit on his insistence. Didn't ...
A. 19 May 2008: Have the same situation,although i was only with mine for a year,so not as much history as you.Anyway like that he insisted on the friends thing and at the time you clutch at straws rather than cut contact.
Anyway was too hard cos I was still in... (read in full...)
He's never cum with me at all, and we've been together for 6 months!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for a good sixth months and we've had sex and I've given him oral and hand jobs but he just doesn't cum at all. He's been close but it's never happened once. I feel like maybe I'm not doing the best I could...
A. 15 May 2008: Hey Glad I was maybe of some help, the gay thing aside, is he prudish about sex? My b/f was 37 years old and had practically no sexual experience, you couldnt even discuss sex without him clamming up. It was suggested to me also that due to my b... (read in full...)
Should I go back with my fiancé or should I move on?
Q. My Fiance and I recently seperated. (April 10th) We had been dating for 6 years. We were engaged. We were living together. We were bestfriends. We were soulmates. Planning to spend the rest of our lives together. We both had wedding bands. I wor...
A. 14 May 2008: I'm sorry to be harsh,but if this guy really wanted to be with you,then he would BE with you!!! I understand youthink he is under his parents spell,but is he a man or a mouse and do you really want to be involved with a man that cant make a decision ... (read in full...)
He's never cum with me at all, and we've been together for 6 months!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for a good sixth months and we've had sex and I've given him oral and hand jobs but he just doesn't cum at all. He's been close but it's never happened once. I feel like maybe I'm not doing the best I could...
A. 14 May 2008: I was with my b/f for a year and in that time he never once came either through oral or penetration,when I questioned him about it,he used to say he was just being cautious.Does your b/f have hang ups regarding sex,is he embarrssed at all about ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?
Q. My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hey
That is good you had a nice time,but sorry to say I'm sure she did too,but you probably wanted to think she was gazing at you,as you know we aer in the same position,and I honestly feel they do love us,but they are using us as well,as emot... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband get turned on unless he touches himself? He doesn't respond normally to sex!
Q. After the initial honeymoon first six months of sex, my husband of 2 years has never been hungry for sex or had a high sex drive. It has bothered me hugely as I love sex and believed he did at first. As time has progressed, it has got fewer and ...
A. 28 April 2008: Does he manage to get hard and perform every time you try or just occassionally,my guy has ED and never manages it and r/ship just fallen apart because of this,and not on my part on his because i think he couldn't handle fact he couldn't perform and ... (read in full...)
Once we came close to having sex, he backed off . Does he have a commitment phobia?
Q. I am wondering if my ex bf had "commitment phobia". He broke up with me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. Yet one of the first things he said to me when meeting me was "I really want to be in a relationship. I am so over random hooks ups, ...
A. 23 April 2008: Hi Just out of relationship with a guy identical.We were together a year,I could count on one hand the times we had sex.He was unable to even get an erection or maintain one to have healthy sex life.He had such low self-esteem it was unreal,like ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?
Q. My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...
A. 22 April 2008: It sounds as though you do really love her,as I do my b/f,but I personally think I deserve more than somebody that just enjoys my company,everyone deserves to be adored and treated like gold.
Being at her beck and call will only make you feel wor... (read in full...)
Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?
Q. My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...
A. 22 April 2008: Hi Pandagold
As I said before,we are in the same position and I dont want to be cruel,but these people are damaged goods,no matter what you do they are so full of self-loathing no matter what you say you are wasting your breath.
I have now cu... (read in full...)
I will never love her the way she loves me....what is a good way to manage this situation?
Q. I have just ended a long phone conversation that seems to keep occuring, i do not know what to do so i have turned here for some advice.. I met a girl a year ago and we moved into a relationship at what i feel now was far too fast, after the last...
A. 22 April 2008: In what ways did things move too fast?Haveyou met each others families etc?ou need to let her know,I am going through the same thing at the moment,however my guy has told me that throughout the year he has never been in love with me,which was just ... (read in full...)
During an argument he said he doesn't have this problem (soft erections) with other girls, could he be cheating??
Q. I confused. my bf and I have been together for 7 years and for the last year or so hes been gettin soft during oral and vaginal sex.now its not every time but happens now and again and I don't complain or say anything. a day ago we got into an ...
A. 21 April 2008: I personally wouldn't stand for anyone making a comment like that to me,it is disrespectful apart from anything.You have been with this guy for that length of time,yet he can make a cutting comment like that.
I would be seriously asking myself h... (read in full...)
Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?
Q. My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...
A. 20 April 2008: My God Pandagold you and I are in exactly same position,she is the female equivalent to my guy,I am trying the friendship thing and it isnt working it is so painful and you will never move on as long as you are in touch,cos you wanna ask personal ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?
Q. My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...
A. 20 April 2008: Hi
Going through this myself,we were together a year,how long you guys together?Like your g/f my b/f just said he isnt in love with me although i am his best friend in the whol world and he loves me as a friedn,the thing is I didnt feel from him ... (read in full...)
I would have sworn he was acting and looking at me like a man in love, not an ex boyfriend, was he only trying to let me down gently?
Q. Split with b/f of a year a month ago.He claims he doesnt love me anymore and would like to be friends.Anyway we met up last week for the first time and I got very upset,he was so affectionate towards me,stroking my hair,wiping away my tears and ...
A. 20 April 2008: Thanks anonymous female,were you able to then be friends with this guy or were things just too painful? I want to be there for him as I think there is more going on than he is admitting (he has serious sexual probs) and I would hate to think I am ... (read in full...)
How do I show him how much I want him back in my life without looking desperate?
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up over six months back, we have stayed in contact and have met up a couple of times since and got on really well. He has now moved away to do a course for a year. I think this is the main reason why he broke up with me ...
A. 13 April 2008: Hi
Just broken up with b/f myself and trying to do the friends thing as well,but it is hard,he wants to be friends as in lets see each other all the time friends,I thought i was happy with this,but i realise that i want more than that.As tempting... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't called! Should I be patiently waiting? Is there a reason for this delay?
Q. Hi! I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. We are very close and have alot of good memories together and I couldn't ask for more. I love him so much. But, this is what I found out strange. He hasn't contacted me for 2 days now (nor...
A. 11 April 2008: I would say prepare yourself for the worst,if this is totally out of character then i would prepare myself.It sounds as though he is having some time to himself to decide what the best is.Have patiende and wait for him to call you,if he hasn't by ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?
Q. Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a ...
A. 11 April 2008: You need to move on for your health and your baby's future.If this guy is cheating on you just now,imagine what he is capable of when the baby is born.I'm sorry to be blunt,but he cant have any respect for you to do this.
Save yourself any furt... (read in full...)
Videos of Wham, Rick Astley and wait for it YMCA I felt like the whole world was screaming at me 'He's gay!' Is he??
Q. Is My Boyfriend Gay? I just read another reader's description of the same situation and wanted to pose the same question because I'm driving myself mad. I met a fabulous man three months ago. After three and a half years single it was a relief to ...
A. 9 April 2008: hey
Dont know if you read my reply to other person prb but your guy sounds like mine,excet fact yours has that close friend.My guy cant get erectio in first place and certainly cant keep it long enough for sex,nothing about my guy is gay thou... (read in full...)
I am worried my husband could be gay!!
Q. I am really concerned that my husband is gay. There are a few reasons i think this. 1) he is not into sex that much, we are lucky if we do it once a month, 2) he is very, very tidy around the house (which is great, not complaining) 3) i think t...
A. 9 April 2008: Hey
Going through something similar myself,been with b/f for a year,he is a very conservative no nonsense guy that never spoke about feelings.Anyway he also has sexual problems in that we couldnt really have full sex as he either couldnt get erec... (read in full...)
How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them ?
Q. How do you tell an ex you are still in love with them 8 months after the break-up, I'm still good friends with him, and I don't want to ruin that, plus I'm unsure if he's still with his current girlfriend..Please help, I'm not a very brave person :(...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi
If you are still in love with him then you are not GOOD FRIENDS,you are in love with him as you stated!!You need to come clean and tell him how you feel,if he doesnt feel the same it is doomed anyway,because you arent actually his friend i... (read in full...)
He wants me to stay and let him prove that he will never hurt me again?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. He has been a really great partner and friend. However, he has cheated on me with around 7 women. All of whom he said he just had one time sex with. He has never told me or given me reason to ...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi
Sorry to be so blunt,but if you are still with this guy after he has cheated so many times you must be mad.Have you no self respect that you think so little of yourself???... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 6 April 2008: Hey
Dont know if i have been clear or not,when he says exactly as we are but without sex side it means no longer as a couple and no kissing/sexual side at all.He means friends and that is it,so should I walk away or not?Do guys really want fri... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 6 April 2008: Thanks Laura,So do you think then that I am not reading too much into it and kidding myself or do you think he is in love with me?I suppose I really want an honest bold opinion if I am kidding myself on and seeing what I want and he has made it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 30 March 2008: Thanks for that Mandy,I dont even know what I would do if he did call me,cos I think I am only going to hurt myself more if he does just want to be my friend,but then again think maybe if we spend time together we will go back to way we were,or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 30 March 2008: Well,I last saw my ex on Tuesday when we had lunch and he reconfirmed to me that he is not in love with me and only wants us to be friends.Since Tuesday I have heard nothing from him and am disappointed as I thought as a friend he would have been in ... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 30 March 2008: HI As mentioned before,going through this myself and as difficult as it is,you really now need to concentrate on not doing it again.I have just spent the whole weekend moping about the house wanting to pick up the phone.I was so sure he was gonna ca... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 28 March 2008: HI
Going through exactly the same thing myself,bf of a year has told me he isnt in love with me and will never be anything more than friends,but as i'm sure you will agree,actions speak louder than words and you know by the way someone looks at you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 28 March 2008: Oh God,that had crossed my mind,however would be eaier for me to accept it was over if i thought that really was the case,but think it has more to do with his sexual problems...the male ego and all that... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!
Q. My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...
A. 28 March 2008: Thanks for that,I have asked him if he has ended it because of the ED,and he is adamant he didn't,he understands he has a problem but,he didnt even know his problem had a name until I mentioned it.I just dont know if I should cut all ties or if I ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in an on again, off again cycle with my first love...
Q. Hey I'm just looking for some advice really about first loves. I keep going back to mine when deep in my heart i know that it will never work. we have split up about 3 times before and each time we have had no contact for 3months but then one of u...
A. 25 March 2008: Been there and you hang onto anything you can get at the time as a safety net,but neither of you are doing any good,you are only hurting each other.If you are good together and are right for each other you really wouldnt keep splitting.When i broke ... (read in full...)
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