I have to chose, both of them will be hurt
Q. Im so confused. I met this great guy and there was instantly a connection. Things went really fast and we are already living together. But he is so hot and cold. Sometimes he is the sweetest man on the planet other times its just like we are nothing ...
A. 19 February 2011: aww so happy for u thumbs up for making the right decision best of wishes! ... (read in full...)
He was having a text affair with the cleaner because we had a row?
Q. i have been with my man for 5 years, in this time he has photographed his penis and himself in my bedroom on the adult friend finder, i was 7 mths pregnant at the time, ive found various other women photos on his phone which he down loads from ...
A. 17 February 2011: He is very naughty but girl if u forgive him that means u forgive and dont punish him by hold graudges, if u really feel angry still maybe u havent forgiven him and u should consider seperating for a while it would probably be good and really u ... (read in full...)
I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and I wish I hadn't!
Q. I've done something really stupid. Something which I've emphatically discouraged people from doing on DearCupid so many times because it only ever turns out badly. I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and surprise surprise - it turned out ...
A. 17 February 2011: i would date someone who had resembled my ex coz those features is what am atracacted to me i even have a blind date organised by my sister this weekend and i asked her if he had my ex's body feature, doesnt mean i want to make this person my ex it ... (read in full...)
Dating and he says I should be happy to be free and single
Q. there is thhis guy I real like think I am falling in love with him been going on date with him since sept but when I try to talk about commiting he wotn talk just say I should be haapy to be free and single but told him I dont want that he still ...
A. 17 February 2011: Seems to me he is after Friends With Benefits kinda thing or he just wants to be ur friend just ur friend because if a man loves/likes/interested in a woman he would not like her to be free and single trust me.... (read in full...)
He texts her because he feels bad for her?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. we get a long very well we hardly ever fight. the only serious fights we get in is when i catch him texting this girl that i have been insecure about for about a year now because she likes him and ...
A. 17 February 2011: Is txting all u know about doesnt sound good anyways tell him its either u or her simple as that.... (read in full...)
I have to chose, both of them will be hurt
Q. Im so confused. I met this great guy and there was instantly a connection. Things went really fast and we are already living together. But he is so hot and cold. Sometimes he is the sweetest man on the planet other times its just like we are nothing ...
A. 17 February 2011: I cant tell u who to choose but if u want to get married and have kids one day i think ur ex is the man than as u have stated that he sees the same picture, also i dont like how this current bf is out and about specialy if he doesnt let u know. You ... (read in full...)
He asked for photos, I sent them and now he doesn't talk to me
Q. Okay, so there is the guy i've liked for over two years. We went out for a little bit last year, but we broke up for multiple reasons. We still had feelings for each other, but he moved an hour away. We still keep in contact, but i haven't seen him ...
A. 17 February 2011: Maybe he does like u and he just been busy what do u mean he doesnt talk to u did he stop answering ur calls/txt or emails (however u communicate) or did u not contact him jst assuming he would? Its always good to think positive unless he hasnt ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals and I don't know what I am to him
Q. Dear Cupid, so, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years, over the years we have become closer. in the last year and a half we have been spending lots of time together as he broke up with his girlfriend so i was there for him over that time. ...
A. 17 February 2011: Give him time and until then meet other people hang out with other friends let him hang and miss u... (read in full...)
I was rejected because of my height
Q. A girl i liked rejected me because of my height, i am 5'7 and i never thought twice about my height, it hurt because i cant change how i was born.my question is are all girls that way? I was very good to this girl in every way....
A. 17 February 2011: i dated a guy who was short i did that because i liked him as he had really good qualities he was the most amazing guy ever but that relationship lasted for 2 weeks as i was not attracted to him. I didnt tell him i didnt want him because of his ... (read in full...)
I would have left this married man if I could!
Q. I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go ...
A. 17 February 2011: Why want someone who cheat on his wife and children arent u scared he will do that to u too because he would even though u r lucky he is not pursing to marry u so u probably wont go through the hell that poor woman went through. His finaly doing the ... (read in full...)
I can't change her mind but it seems like my actions are not getting results
Q. My girlfriend and mother of our to children moved out four weeks ago. The reason as far as I know is that I wasn't there for her. I've been trying so hard in the last four weeks to show that I'll do anything to right the wrongs in our lives. I know ...
A. 17 February 2011: Dont give up but do give her time to miss you, i am sure u might alreayd do this but try offering to taking the kid/s while she can have a day to herself, get her and the kid/s lunch take it to them, kiss her on the forehead, txt her so often, and ... (read in full...)
What is his problem.... He is acting extremely odd with me?
Q. i am a 28 year old lady. I am having an ongoing situation. One of my friend, a married guy (about 42 years of age), and his wife who was good friends with me for few years. Thought of them as parents. They use to talk to me, laugh, and ask me a fav...
A. 17 February 2011: Gee i think he likes you and by him being mean its maybe his way to pulling back. I read the whole story and it appears to me that you are really pushing him away. You should stop pushing him away even though he is being odd just act normal, act ... (read in full...)
How do I get over wondering if I'm pretty enough for my boyfriend?
Q. Okay! First off i was in a realtionship with this guy for 3 years. The beginning was amazing, but then during about 2 years into our relationship, he began to be very standoffish, meaning we never (very rarely) spent anytime together. He was always ...
A. 15 February 2011: If you want others to love u than u have to love urself first, damn tell urself aint no girl pritier than u especialy in ur man's eye because if tht ws the case he would be with her and nt u, listen wen u love someone u thnk thy r perfect even if ... (read in full...)
I expect him to be honest about his ex
Q. Dear Cupid, im in a relationship and have been with my bf for 4 months but i've known him for YEARS. Everyone tells me he's a good guy and he's proved it to me many times. I know there has to be trust in order for a relationship to work and i do ...
A. 15 February 2011: 2 weeks why date someone who was single for only two weeks??? he clearly was nt over her he only bad mothed her because he was angry anywys if u love him and want to fight for hm than i would say be confident and tht means nt showing u give a toss ... (read in full...)
I broke off the affair with an older women but now I feel badly
Q. Dear Cupid, I had an affair with 40+ married woman. I'm 20+ and single. After getting great advices from this forum, I realized it's not right. Then, I broke up with her. I stayed silent and keep away form her with no sms, no call. I even d...
A. 15 February 2011: meet someone new as i am sure u knw the only way to get over someone is to get under another...... (read in full...)
She's keeping me at arm's length. am I wasting my time?
Q. I am 41 and I am sort of seeing a 24 year old woman. We both have feeling for each other, but she's scared to be comitted. She says she's scared she'll hurt me, or if things didn't work out that it would be hard to face each other in work. She'...
A. 15 February 2011: Hmmm i would say dont talk abt relationship jst keep talking and txting each other dont give urself any hopes and do enjoy talkng to other girls/woman as u r a single man with a lil bet of benefit of relationship;)... (read in full...)
I'm regretting that I broke up with such a sweet girl
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We were together for almost 2 years. I felt I need to break up since i didnot want to be in a relationship right now. I have too many problems and want to work through them. I have been in a relationship since ...
A. 15 February 2011: Wow this sounds very weird u break up with a girl u been with for two years and u tell urself that u guys will be back together as this has happened before bt she makes her mind up after hearing ur answers and she accepts the break up, u flip u ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend went away, kept boring money, wouldn't call me! Should I dump him?
Q. My fiancée went back home to visit his mother who he hasn’t seen for 16years when he was leaving we agreed for him to be only gone for a month but he ended up extending his time to a extra months, where do i start before he left we were head over ...
A. 27 January 2011: hey guys thank u for takin the time to answer CJH ur very clever he didnt come back as he said he would lol must have extended ticket time with my money anyways i am so over him i am moving on with my life good to be single again after a year of ... (read in full...)
Help me save my relationship please
Q. I really hope someone can give me advice before its too late....i am an 18 yr old female my partner is 23 i have known him for four years now and been with him for 12 months, everything was absolutely great when we first got together he was sweet ...
A. 26 January 2011: ohh am really sorry that you lost your baby and that your man has changed so much i would advice you to take time out dont break up just seperate from him for a while go and stay with your parents for 2weeks and dont call or txt him make sure u ... (read in full...)
My brand new husband is ogling often and breaking me in pieces
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years and I just got married 3 weeks ago. This is our second marriage for both of us. He has been single 10 years and I 5. In the last year, he has started ogling other women often when we are out. What I define as ogling: He...
A. 26 January 2011: this is totally up to you, and it can be quiet risky, but i think you should test him. i If there is a friend or someone who you know, who he doesn't know, make sure they are trustable. Then get her to meet him accidently, so organise a date with... (read in full...)
I expect him to be honest about his ex
Q. Dear Cupid, im in a relationship and have been with my bf for 4 months but i've known him for YEARS. Everyone tells me he's a good guy and he's proved it to me many times. I know there has to be trust in order for a relationship to work and i do ...
A. 26 January 2011: Sorry can i just ask how long he was single before you and him became a couple after breaking up with his ex?... (read in full...)
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