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writes:Dear Cupid, im in a relationship and have been with my bf for 4 months but i've known him for YEARS. Everyone tells me he's a good guy and he's proved it to me many times. I know there has to be trust in order for a relationship to work and i do trust him. But he has always been talking crap about his ex gf and he deleted her number. But now he has it stored. Im wondering if he's talking to her behind my back? im honestly not the jealous type of gf and i dont care if he's best friends with her. But what i do care about is for him to be honest with me and let me know that he's talking to her again instead of being hypocritical about it. What should i do and what should i tell him about this because it concerns me. Thanks :)
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reader, Sabrena  +, writes (15 February 2011):
2 weeks why date someone who was single for only two weeks??? he clearly was nt over her he only bad mothed her because he was angry anywys if u love him and want to fight for hm than i would say be confident and tht means nt showing u give a toss abt miss ex, dont ask dnt question look hot always make hm crazy for u by working u girl power after all ur the future and she's the past, i would advise jst enjoy ur time wth hm and to be honest i dnt see harm in thm being frnds if thy do get bk together thn i guess u cn only learn a hard lesson to nt date someone who jst broke up wth someone coz tht wil be lik a rebound relationshp. hpe i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe was single for approx 2 weeks before we got together
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reader, Sabrena +, writes (26 January 2011):
Sorry can i just ask how long he was single before you and him became a couple after breaking up with his ex?
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reader, BigAppleGirl69 +, writes (26 January 2011):
Ask him when the last time he spoke with her was. Then ask if her number is still in his phone. I would have to see what kind of response he gives to advise any further. More than anything, trust your gut instinct. Its a gift we have been given that men don't have and it should never be ignored. Always trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, it isn't and you need to investigate. Good Luck!
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