I'm heartbroken about how my daughters are treating me! What should I do?
Q. last week was my nephews 18 birthday celebration. my 2 daughters declined the meal making excuses. whilst we were having our meal my daughters were outside with my grandson in a procession that was happening. we had no idea. the next day on Faceb...
A. 2 April 2016: i'm damned if i do and I'm damned if i don't on all counts.
my daughter won't let me take my grandson to see my own mother (75yrs) and my sisters......yet everyone else can see him. i suppose as my mother smacked me when i was little, she may ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken about how my daughters are treating me! What should I do?
Q. last week was my nephews 18 birthday celebration. my 2 daughters declined the meal making excuses. whilst we were having our meal my daughters were outside with my grandson in a procession that was happening. we had no idea. the next day on Faceb...
A. 2 April 2016: yes i can see where you are coming from. firstly the car wasn't moving and she has screamed at me more than i can mention here. all my family and friends (and me too) know he isn't like that at all - never ever done that before. yet my daughter's ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken about how my daughters are treating me! What should I do?
Q. last week was my nephews 18 birthday celebration. my 2 daughters declined the meal making excuses. whilst we were having our meal my daughters were outside with my grandson in a procession that was happening. we had no idea. the next day on Faceb...
A. 2 April 2016: oh, thank you for your replies. I have only managed to get back on here and reading it all is still hurtful.
Between this time and now, I have made it up with my daughters, only to have them do it again.
I was told, last week, when i looked a... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken about how my daughters are treating me! What should I do?
Q. last week was my nephews 18 birthday celebration. my 2 daughters declined the meal making excuses. whilst we were having our meal my daughters were outside with my grandson in a procession that was happening. we had no idea. the next day on Faceb...
A. 16 September 2015: Thank you all for your thoughts and advice. I haven't been in touch with either of them (i know its early days) but the last thing i did say is that i loved them and didn't want to loose them from my life. My marriage to their father was very ... (read in full...)
He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?
Q. the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage ...
A. 2 February 2009: I am a nice person and want to help him - it's too soon to think about living together but i don't want to see him on the street sleeping rough. Having said that - when the time comes, he will have his own place and move out. He knows that.... (read in full...)
He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?
Q. the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage ...
A. 1 February 2009: hi
thanks for that - i was just feeling nervous of what i had decided.
he won't get redundancy, but i have already printed off some job vacancies for him to contact, rung the benefits office for advice and mentioned private landlords to him. i w... (read in full...)
Condom split! Chances of pregnancy?
Q. i had sex last night and condom split i am 5 days into my cycle what is the changes of me becoming pregant. many thanks for help ...
A. 1 February 2009: i would think you have a good chance of being pregnant - go to the doctors and explain what has happened asap... (read in full...)
He says I am a nut case...
Q. My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight...
A. 15 February 2008: Hi It's been a while since all that happened. I have moved on and have my own home, started dating again, and have a job and a little car, to run around in. financially, it's going to be a struggle, but he has done me a massive favour... (read in full...)
He says I am a nut case...
Q. My partner of 6 years had 2 flings, the second resulting in him wanting me to move out of our home and move her in. He has bought me out of the property but my stuff is still there waiting to be put into storage. I went round our old home tonight...
A. 14 August 2007: Thank you ... (read in full...)
My ex bullied me, cheated on me so bad and has now, convinced me, I am in the wrong! How do I get this out of my head?
Q. this may sound a stupid question but - my ex partner had bullied and harrassed me to leave our joint home and now he has recently bought me out of the property. He has been married twice before and cheated on each of them, and he has done the sam...
A. 5 August 2007: He is a prat and although it is still hurting me, he is potentially going to be a sad lonely old man.
If i was so bad to live with why didn't he tell me years ago? I only became bad to live with when he decided he wanted his new catch in his bed ... (read in full...)
I have an undiagnosed mental health problem and my partner says he doesn't love me any more
Q. Please help, I don't know who to turn to. My partner of 12 years told me a week ago that he no longer loves me and has been feeling this way for months. The reason he gave is that I have been suffering from an undiagnosed mental illness and won't ...
A. 25 July 2007: my ex told me he wanted me out of his life as i was always negative and depressed and was bringing him down, (where he didn't want to be).... the truth was, he had met a younger woman through work and used my personality as an excuse. but, ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he is cheating.
Q. I have been married for a little over a year, my husband and I fight constantly. I think he is cheating but I am not sure. I found a few phone numbers but nothing that confirms he has dated or had sex with another women. He has outside children...
A. 25 July 2007: If you suspect, then from experience i would say you are right - ... (read in full...)
Partner wants me to move out. I need more money before I do but he's very persistant. What can I do?
Q. partner today has asked me to move out, he is buying me out as i am on the title deeds. He has told me he has slept with another woman (that makes the total 2 in 6 months) so why would i want to stay in the house with him/ I can't stand him anymor...
A. 17 June 2007: hello
i did go for advice from a solicitor and he said try to stay there as i would get the money quicker - i feel like i am at the end of my tether - partner says he swears on his sons life he will get me the cash as soon as possible
the solicito... (read in full...)
Partner wants me to move out. I need more money before I do but he's very persistant. What can I do?
Q. partner today has asked me to move out, he is buying me out as i am on the title deeds. He has told me he has slept with another woman (that makes the total 2 in 6 months) so why would i want to stay in the house with him/ I can't stand him anymor...
A. 17 June 2007: he has also said he wants to bring his new g/f back to our home when i go - i feel sick at the thought of her in my home
i wish he would just hurry up and get me what he owes me then this isn't my home any longer... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant??
Q. Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...
A. 10 June 2007: you probably aren't pregnant, with already having a period,
sometimes worry can make it late
you can buy tests in chemists for around £5 - they are fairly accurate and it will put your mind at rest... (read in full...)
Why is he playing games with me?
Q. I am writing once again - so sorry for doing this... My partner and I are seperating after 6 years. He has promised me that he will see me ok (IE buy me out of our home, so i can put a deposit on another) The thing is, it is going to take ar...
A. 28 May 2007: I am the joint owner of the house - so I don't think I have to prove any money I put into the house to be honest. I know he can't force me out or lock me out... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 19 May 2007: Look after yourself and do the best for YOU -
best wishes... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that we either need to move on with the relationship, or the sex talk needs to stop
Q. I met a guy a few months back. At first, I thought the relationship was just going to be sex, but he seemed to be true to his girlfriend and I was ok with that, respected it, even after he told me he has not been in love with her for awhile (they've ...
A. 15 May 2007: dump him fast - he done it to her , he do it to you - mark my words... (read in full...)
My husband has gone away for time to 'think' and I'm not sure if there is another affair going on...
Q. Today my partner packed an overnight bag and went off to "think". He says things between us aren't looking good but we could still stay together. He wont make love to me as he says it isn't appropriate at the moment. He also keeps singing REO spee...
A. 15 May 2007: thank you for all your advice.
I am just waiting to go now - i don;t want to be with him anymore and the future looks much brighter without him in the picture
today i am seeing a solicitor as he wants me to move out for awhile before i am settled ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any idea why my periods are so strange?
Q. hi its just a short question, does anyone have any idea why my periods r strange?? i dont ge period pains but they kill me with pain it doesnt hurt or give me stomach pains but i get a pain i can not cope with when the blood actually comes o...
A. 12 May 2007: Go to the doctor or see a nurse. Ask to see a female if you are embarrased and they WILL help you. Periods are with you along time so don't put up with what you don't have to. As you get older they often get easier. Try taking ibruprofen (eat s... (read in full...)
I'm 6 months pregnant, we are in couples therapy but he is still sleeping with someone else! How do I walk away?
Q. I'm having a difficult time walking away from someone and I need to. I am six months pregnant and really love this man, but he is sleeping with someone else and he can't make a decision. We have been in a relationship for over 3 years and were pla...
A. 12 May 2007: hi, you have just replied to my question re - is there any chance? You seem to be a very strong person and you cerainly don't need the crap your partner is giving you. It is emotional enough being pregnant without his messing around. Be st... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Dad that his friend is touching me inappropriately?
Q. my dads friend always touches me in inapproiate places when my dad isnt around he told me not to tell anyone what should i do ? should i tell my dad ...
A. 11 May 2007: Yes, tell your dad. ... (read in full...)
My husband has gone away for time to 'think' and I'm not sure if there is another affair going on...
Q. Today my partner packed an overnight bag and went off to "think". He says things between us aren't looking good but we could still stay together. He wont make love to me as he says it isn't appropriate at the moment. He also keeps singing REO spee...
A. 7 May 2007: Thank you all for your replies. They are all excellent. The reason we wont work, is because he says he feels that now (he had his tyres vandalised a few months ago) it was me who did that and that i have access to his mobile via my computer - I ... (read in full...)
Together 4 yrs, I had to go away, she said she would wait, I got back and shes vanished! How do I deal with no explanation and no contact?
Q. My girlfriend of four years planned our breakup two months before I was to take a work related trip to Italy.We spent Christmas and the night before I left together.We exchanged gifts made love, and I looked into her eyes to say to her how much I ...
A. 27 April 2007: Were you away long? if so maybe she just couldn't handle someone who has to travel alot with work and felt it was the easiest thing for her to do (albeit a bit cowardly).
My partner has almost finished working away and to be honest, it has been... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girl's two kids and how they may affect our relationship?
Q. I am becoming very serious with my gf who has two young children. Their father is completely out of the picture. I have never had any children. They are very sweet; they love me and I love them. We've talked about having more together. I'm ...
A. 26 April 2007: I think you are very lucky to feel the way you do and for the kids to feel the way they do too. Even "true" parents have differences - you just need to talk about them and not be bullied or bully.. Compromise is a good way to go... (read in full...)
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