Visit my dying uncle or take my English exams?
Q. Hi I have English exams on the 6th and 8th of June. I am really streesed about it because I found out yesterday that my uncle had 48 hours to live, so I guess that means 24 now. The problem is I want to see him before it's too late but he lives ...
A. 5 June 2006: I must agree, this is a serious matter, and any respectable teacher, would be willing to let you postpone the exam. You need to see your uncle, and you will need to greave. This will be healing time, you can always find time for another exam, but ... (read in full...)
If there's something wrong with me, he'll start yelling at me
Q. hi !!! i'm eebie. well i've been dating my bf for almost 17 mmonths now! i've known him for 6 years. He's my best friend, i just couldln't be with someone else, he's all i know. But lately he's been acting really mean towards me. If there's ...
A. 5 June 2006: WOw, I understand a little relaxing time, but you also need to be able to talk to each other. Have you spent enough time with him just relaxing or doing fun things lately? Maybe he needs a break from the stress, before he can get back to helping. I ... (read in full...)
She loves me - She loves me not!
Q. I have fancied this girl for several months, never having been in a meaningful relationship myself. We are really good friends but she has had a boyfriend ever since i started to fancy her. I have told her over the past week, in snippets my true ...
A. 4 June 2006: Go fish. I know it is hard when you feel you like just one, but there are alot of great people out there and she is off limits. You should respect that. How would you feel if she was with you and left you for her friend who confessed his feelings ... (read in full...)
Love from across the classroom
Q. please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two years ago a girl and i realy liked each other, each night we would text each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times per ...
A. 4 June 2006: Be cool, it sounds like things are going well. It is bad you lost communication for so long, but it is not to late to get it back. I would get her number, and see if the two of you still have that chemistry. If things seem to go well over the phone, ... (read in full...)
Is my love slipping away?
Q. hey!im having a problem with my boyfriend. the past few months hes been really odd with me and i get shouted at for doing almost nothing! on saturdays we normally spend the day together and go somewhere but today i got a text saying that he was ...
A. 4 June 2006: From a males perspective, I would say he is feeling smothered. Perhaps the free time he needs will help him see the true direction of your relationship. You can't force any one into love, but you can push them out. I do not think he should have lied ... (read in full...)
How do I get more gay friends?
Q. Need to get some new friends to discover something about myself. I'm male, 22, and single, and curious. I've many friends, different genders, different race, but not different sexuality. How do I get more gay friends, I've not been to any gay ...
A. 3 June 2006: I only have a second so I will make this fast, I would use the internet as a tool to meet people of different sexual preferences. Why not? I use it to read about how to fix a car, everything you need is at your fingers. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Ever since his relative passed away, he has disappeared, I miss him, what should I do!?
Q. i need advise quick, i am really scared that i am losing my boyfriend ( well i dont even know whether we are together anymore) he lost a very close relative just over a month ago and just after the funeral he told me he needed space, i haven't heard ...
A. 2 June 2006: It sounds like you have done all the right things. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him/her drink. If he has broken off the communication than I suggest you move on unless he changes his mind. There is much better things to do with ... (read in full...)
He was totally fab, but I think ive pushed him away by overstepping the mark, I know I'm an idiot, but what can I do about it ?
Q. What i want to know is do you think i have truely messed up everything that was great? I have been dating his wonderful person for 3 months and have just done the most stupid thing i can think of - i decided to tell him how he's feeling and not in ...
A. 2 June 2006: Ooh thats tough. As a male, and a good male, I understand from the inside what it is like to posses the qualities women are looking for. I am that "nice guy". But if you disrespect me, I will stand up for myslef I am not a door mat. You, out of your ... (read in full...)
Very confused about my love life!
Q. Hi, thank you for all your advice. I am meeting my ex tonight to talk more. I have asked my current bf where he sees us in the future and as he is a very laid back person he just replied with 'who knows what could happen - i dont want to worry about ...
A. 2 June 2006: If you are considering going out with your ex, behind your boyriends back, you haven't given him a fair chance at a future. A laid back partner is not always a cheating partner or a futureless partner. Some people see life as a wave, you just go ... (read in full...)
I need to know...What is love?
Q. What is the difference between love for a friend and a lover? If you're in love with someone but there's no lust then is it still the 'romantic' type of love?...
A. 2 June 2006: I describe friendship as closest to lovers as possible without crossing the line of sexual touch. I think the only difference between a great friend and a lover is physical. Sometimes friendships bloom into love and lust, sometimes only one person ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my dream man overseas?
Q. Hey, i have already posted a few times about my boyfriend going on a working holiday overseas and not being sure if he wants me to joining yet. Well, the time finally came and I said goodbye to him at the airport the other day- it was so sad, and i ...
A. 2 June 2006: If it is the love you describe, and it sounds good from this outside source, then you already know what to do. If it ruins your personal dreams for like a job, or being near family, then you must decied what life you will enjoy more. Money should ... (read in full...)
Emotional Cheating but it is just as tough to deal with
Q. Hi, my bf and i have been dating about 2 and a half years, i am 20 and his 25 years old. the problem is about 7 months ago i found out he was emotional cheating with another female, he says they were just friends but there was an obvous attraction, ...
A. 2 June 2006: It takes years to build trust and only seconds of suspicion to destroy it. Emotional cheating often hurts women the most. I once read that cheating is anything you would not want your partner to hear, see, or read about. It has been my experience ... (read in full...)
I want to see someone else, but how do I break up with my man of 4 years without breaking his heart!
Q. how do you break up with ur boyfriend of 4 yrs???? i like someone else, although i love him, i cant help feeling guilty over liking someone else. i dont want to break his heart he's like my soul mate and we all have the same group of friends. how do ...
A. 1 June 2006: It is hard to leave, but you are doing him more good when you don't waste his time. Tell him how you feel out of respect for what you once had. You should not leave the relationship on a dishonest level. Some times we hold ourselves back from doing ... (read in full...)
She started out as a hot lover, now shes not interested at all, is it too late to get it back ?
Q. I wrote earlier today about the not so steady decline of sex in my relationship. The advice was sound in most cases, but not mine. I am very romantic and very patient, I have tried to speak with her first before seeking outside help. I have tried so ...
A. 1 June 2006: I love all of the sound advice. I have tried so much of it already. I have not let the romance dwindle. I love that part of our life, and I treat her like gold. I just can't seem to get that sex part right. I love everything about sex and I love ... (read in full...)
Will my relationship with my girlfriend work out?
Q. On and off again, 5 times in 5 months. Is she going to change her mind again this time? To make this as short as possible, i'll leave out the insignificant details...I moved to where I'm at now, 2100 miles from home, last year and met a girl at the ...
A. 1 June 2006: I don't want to break off a bad thing, but in life time is awaising. You can either spend your time on and off in a love hate relationship, or you can loose the drama and work on improving your own life, you will be amazed how many great people you ... (read in full...)
My ex has moved in across the street with his new girlfriend
Q. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend 3 years ago, (almost four). I still feel like I love him. I have not contacted him and have gone about my business. He has a girlfriend and a month ago they moved in across the alley from me. Now I see them all the ...
A. 1 June 2006: It is hard to give up on someone you love, but it is also true that if you love someone you must let them go. He has moved on, and I am afraid you must too. Be respectfull of his new relationship, and find some hobbie you enjoy to improve your life ... (read in full...)
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