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anonymous
writes: please publish as i am desperate for an answer. two years ago a girl and i realy liked each other, each night we would text each other. after a while she aquired a new number but i never bothered to ask her for it. i dream about her a few times per week and never seem to forget about her. i dont seem to be interested in any girls apart from her. she leaves school this year and i want to know if i should ask her for her number. i often catch her looking at me in class and flicking her hair in my direction. do you think she likes me now after two years as i always seem to see her glancing at me and i always see her close to me no matter where i am. she has shown me pictures of her pet horse in classes. also should i call this girl's house to ask her to the school dance? i dont want to appear as if i want to hurt her.
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (4 June 2006):
Sure, why wouldn't you?
The worst case scenario, is she isn't interested. And that puts you squarely where you are now, right?
On the other hand, if she gives you her new number, you're off on a new romantic adventure with a girl who seems to show at least *some* interest in you.
Good luck and be bold!
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reader, richierich79 +, writes (4 June 2006):
Be cool, it sounds like things are going well. It is bad you lost communication for so long, but it is not to late to get it back. I would get her number, and see if the two of you still have that chemistry. If things seem to go well over the phone, meet in person, if that goes well, how could you not want her to join you. It's 50/50 if you will connect, but the score is zero if you don't try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): What are you waiting for? It seems like you have already understood the signals she has been sending to you, so why not ask her for her number? The worst she can do is say no, then at least you'll know where you really stand and you can move on. But given that I'm a girl, and I know that if I'm not interested in someone I don't look at them, I say go for it. As I said, worst that can happen is she says no but what have you got to lose? Hope all goes well.
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