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writes: Need to get some new friends to discover something about myself. I'm male, 22, and single, and curious.I've many friends, different genders, different race, but not different sexuality. How do I get more gay friends, I've not been to any gay bars, or things loke that, as I'm nervous about being seen and someone recognising me, and having people saying things and being "funny towards me". But I'm curious and I have no one to go with If I do eventually go. I want to see it and experience that lifestyle and see if i like it.Any ideas or tips. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): Use a website!
My old housemate was in a similar situation to you, but after he had been on a few websites he made plenty of new friends and I hardly saw him again!
Good luck :)
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reader, Ask Chris +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Hi in my opinion i think the best thing for you to do is sign up to a website which can help you meet others like yourself. By doing this you can make friends who live near to yourself who perhaps go to clubs that your interrested in. Ask them do yuo mind going along with them for the night. I dont recoment meeting someone off the internet without getting to know them first so be careful, take your time. the clubs or the lifestyle is not going anywhere in a hurry. try using the website called Face party to meet people like youself. www.faceparty.co.uk
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (4 June 2006):
Join a gay club, which is not oriented towards sex - e.g. swimming club, running club, salsa lessons, rambing association. Then you'll be welcomed by the organiser and can make new friends under no pressure. Or join a coming out group for younger people.
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (4 June 2006):
 I agree with richie the internet is a perfect tool to manuever through a new experience because its a 50/50 chance of success, its discreet, and also its plain blunt {if thats wut u want its wut u gonna get}... but i have a lot of male friendds that are gay or bi and they met their mate through the net, a chat line, or gay club... god luck i hope this helps u....
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reader, richierich79 +, writes (3 June 2006):
 I only have a second so I will make this fast, I would use the internet as a tool to meet people of different sexual preferences. Why not? I use it to read about how to fix a car, everything you need is at your fingers. Good luck!
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