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writes: I have fancied this girl for several months, never having been in a meaningful relationship myself. We are really good friends but she has had a boyfriend ever since i started to fancy her. I have told her over the past week, in snippets my true feelings for her, yet she doesn't seem to have accepted them. However, in return she has told me how she feels about me, which was all good until she admitted it was all made up. I can't help thinking i'm being taken for a ride. What shall i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, richierich79 +, writes (4 June 2006):
 Go fish. I know it is hard when you feel you like just one, but there are alot of great people out there and she is off limits. You should respect that. How would you feel if she was with you and left you for her friend who confessed his feelings for her? If it is meant to be, it will be, but when the time is right, no need to push things while she is involved. Look around you, there is probably a great girl waiting for you to talk to her. Please respect her, and him, and open your eyes to this great world around you.
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reader, matron +, writes (3 June 2006):
 Hi, dont go there, she's in a relationship and although she's enjoying the flattery she obviously doesn't feel the way you do. If she was a true friend she would never have risked hurting you by saying things she didn't mean. If you want to remain friends with her fine, but try to move on with your feelings, find someone who can and will love you in return, someone that will respect your feelings, she really isn't worth it but you are x
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