Did he ever love me???
Q. I am in love with a married man. We started our relationship like a normal one, i knew he is divorced, i live with him during his wife was in another country. I fall in love with him, and according with him he fall in love with me. After one year of ...
A. 18 February 2011: The guy is married. You will find someone else, but you have to take the first step and not contact him or let him contact you. Walk away, this man will not divorce for you.... (read in full...)
Is this real, or am I hallucinating?
Q. This may be the strangest question in terms of love, but I really would like help! I've gone to my parents, to the counselor, and even my neighbor. They don't believe me! Okay, so let me set the scene; I'm 15, as it should already say on the post. ...
A. 18 February 2011: Everyone is right. You are seeing things, you are hallucinating. Accept this a hallucination. A form of Hypnagogia. Read about it here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypnagogia... (read in full...)
My mother treats the dog better than me!
Q. Okay My mother has been out of work for over a year my mother is obese she is 400 pounds and im 6 months pregnant and I'm going to go get my g.e.d and my mother keeps on calling me a low life peace of shi* and tells me that hopefuly m...
A. 16 February 2011: I feel sorry for you baby. I am very sorry that you are about to become a mother at such a tender age. You have to get out of there. I'm sure it is hard, but I suggest you look into section 8 housing (government welfare housing). Welfare to keep ... (read in full...)
Tips on the first night?
Q. hi this is salman ! i m gonna get married in 5 days so i wounder if any one can give me any tips that how to handle the first night with the bride about sex and every thing and it should be according to ISLAM. thank u...
A. 16 February 2011: Hey Salman, we are all the same. I am not Islamic, but I can tell you that Allah, God, Jehovah, Yaweh, or whatever has bigger things to worry about then how you have sex with your wife. If you are worried about following ISLAM for your first night ... (read in full...)
Rejection has made me afraid of asking girls out, what should I do?
Q. I'm currently in my final year of college before I go to university. Last year, I was confident that I would meet someone and pursue a relationship. Long story short, I was rejected by five girls within four months. Maybe I was too desperate, m...
A. 16 February 2011: Lower the bar brother. Find the least attractive or even less attractive girl you are willing to go out with and ask her out. Dont worry, its nothing permanent. Work your way up from there to a more attractive girl. You will learn. Look up Cee ... (read in full...)
My husband is great but I can't cut ties to my ex.
Q. Plz advice me .Iam married female with one kid and understanding husband. Before marriage I had bf...He was good, never crossed limits and good to me for 2 yrs.when I was talking abt marriage he said he is not in situation of getting married ...
A. 16 February 2011: Its easy. Don't waste your time with this guy. You are happy with your "great" husband. Sex is horrible you say? Marriage is mostly give and take and sex is a very small percentage of it. Get him a sex book. Put on a porno. do something crazy ... (read in full...)
Does love conquer all, or will the lack of money and career stand in the way of love?
Q. I am 23 and I have been living in London for more than 2 years. I was initially here to complete my degree, but I fell in love with a nice English boy. We met 2 years ago and are living together now. We have a wonderful relationship and we are even ...
A. 16 February 2011: Go Home Darling!!! You are young and You are sacrificing WAY more than this guy. You aren't married and have no obligation to each other. I want to say that love conquers all when both parties are willing to sacrifice equally. When there is ... (read in full...)
How many times should I let my friend stand me up? Does this mean they don't want to hang out with me?
Q. If a friend says they'll do something with you with you, but then cancels plans at the last minute to spend time with their partner, (who the friend complains completely takes them for granted), how many times should you allow this to happen before ...
A. 16 February 2011: Hey Buddy, close the book on this one. If your friend stands you up, and provides you with a lame excuse like this one, relegate this friend to acquaintance status and move on to a new friend. If this friend is a true friend, they will come around ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think about cheating if you've only been married for 2 months. I'm in a sexless marriage!
Q. Hi everyone, I was just wondering whether it's normal to think about cheating if you have only been married 2 months and already sex is out of the question. Tried talking about it, but personal issues on my partner's side mean we don't. I have ...
A. 16 February 2011: Hey Rob, you are too young for this BS. The only excuse you should take from your "for better or for worse" partner is a medical or mental condition that is preventing her from performing her wifely duties. If she doesn't want to talk about it, try ... (read in full...)
I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?
Q. I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends ...
A. 16 February 2011: Wow! It would be very easy for me to say don't think about it, forgive, forget, blah blah blah. I can tell you I would be very angry, I'd want to keep asking why, and expect a constant explanation from my wife if I found out something like that. ... (read in full...)
How do I tame my hubby?
Q. I'm 28yrs old with a child. Got married in 2008. My hubby is a nice n loving Person thou not romantic,but has a bad temper.he has hit me twice n i just feel its so wrong. He always compares me to his ex and uses abusive words on me everytime we have ...
A. 15 February 2011: First. No one should be hitting you. Understand that is wrong and you should not accept that. Second, tell this guy you will not allow him to hit you any longer and seek help. Counseling for both of you. If he doesn't stop, leave him. Life is ... (read in full...)
My stepson messaged me to ask me out to dinner?
Q. Let's just start with me saying that I am divorced. Been so for about 2 yrs. I've been married twice. I have 3 kids of my own. 2 girls and 1 boy. All from my first marriage. My second marriage, no kids, but my husband had 2 boys. One is in...
A. 15 February 2011: Trust me. He wants to get some. Its no big deal, you arent married anymore and as long as you understand it isn't forever, keep it to yourself. You are both adults.... (read in full...)
Cheating and the Internet...A Wife's Perspective
Q. Recently, I discovered that my husband had been looking at personal ads on the internet. And, not only was he looking, he was emailing responses. I’m sure you all know the ones I am talking about. The “casual encounters,” section of a popular ...
A. 15 February 2011: Hi. I'm a man, I married and have done the exact same thing. I was just having fun, and don't have the guts to go through with it. Your guy is just being a guy. Relax. Worry when you get the idea he is having an affair which he probably wont. ... (read in full...)
My ex still contacts me I think as a friend but I still want to be with her
Q. hi, im really down and confused so appreciate another perspective my girl of 6 years finished with me 3 months ago. her decision. we been having problems for few months. our sex life had really changed and we were like best friends. she is ...
A. 15 February 2011: Don't contact her again brother. Let it go. She doesn't know what she wants, and wants to keep you around until she finds someone better. Call her, tell her you aren't interested in keeping in touch and go on with your life. Trust me, you will ... (read in full...)
I want to find out if my husband is cheating for sure
Q. Lately my husband has been adjoined at the hip with his computer. He's also been working late at the office. He'll get up in the middle of the night after I'm asleep and get on the computer again. He says he's just finishing up work, but it's like ...
A. 15 February 2011: Tell him you that lately you feel like he is cheating on you with the attractive black woman at the office. See what he does. You already know what is going on but are hoping you are wrong. The question is, what are you going to do if your hunch ... (read in full...)
Is my husband's friend attracted to me?
Q. Is my husbands friend attracted to me? *C* has been coming to my home every week or so fro supper. he worked with my husband for years. he lives about 300 miles away and would come to my husbands work place when he had to work here in the area. wh...
A. 15 February 2011: Pay close attention to this. I have never met any one of my friend's wives that I didn't fantasize boffing. I swear, I fantasize about all of them. But I realize I think like this because I am a man. I'm sure my friends think the same way about ... (read in full...)
I'm not the valentine he proposed to. I can't live with my mistake
Q. I'm destroyed. My exbf proposed to his valentine today and it wasn't me. How do I put back the pieces of my broken heart? Last year he proposed to me but I blew him off because he revolved his world around me which made me look at him like a ...
A. 15 February 2011: Come on! You don't want this guy. What is bothering you is that you no longer have control. Let it go! If he were to drop everything for you right now, you would blow him off like you did the last time. You will find someone else. ... (read in full...)
I hate myself so much for falling for him
Q. I really need some help as im quite desperate. To cut a story short, I started liking a guy about 6 months ago and ever since its got even more and more deeper and stronger. I barely saw him and he never made the effort to speak to me if he did. On...
A. 15 February 2011: Skeez!!!!! Let it go!!! Quit that gym, find another one. You are 20 years old, educated, smart, and your whole life is ahead of you. Don't waste your time one second longer. This guy doesn't want you so no matter how much it hurts, LET IT GO, ... (read in full...)
Why has life always been such a battle for me?
Q. Hi, Can someone answer me shy is life so shitty. I've constantly had to fight for things, left school at 15, due to parents divorce, made homeless 17 due to parents. Spent years going through different rooms in sheltered accommodation, l...
A. 15 February 2011: Listen pretty one. You are smart, educated, and extremely wise thanks to the hell you've been through. You've made your mistakes. Learn from them and move forward. Take baby steps one day at at time. You will be successful, you can do it!!!... (read in full...)
I worry every day that my girlfriend is going to end things with me
Q. I am a a recent college graduate while my girlfriend is still in school. She is currently spending the next 4 months studying abroad. We've been together for two years and this is the first time we've ever been apart like this. Its been 5 weeks ...
A. 15 February 2011: She doesn't want you anymore brother. Get there first and dump her before she dumps you then don't waste your time explaining. Invest in yourself. Become successful. Believe me, you are young and the world is full of countless beautiful women to ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to bring up having the implant to my mum
Q. My boyfriend and I have planned to have sex within the next month or so. But we desided that we weren't going to do it untill I had got the implant, but I need to talk to my Mom about talking me to get a implant in the first place.. but I don't know ...
A. 15 February 2011: I was 17 and gave up a college scholarship for the love of my life. Needless to say, she wasn't the love of my life and I found the love of my life 14 years later. Trust me, right now it feels like the right thing to do. Tell your boyfriend you ... (read in full...)
How can I feel so strongly about 2 women, as I have been a one woman man all my life?
Q. First, I am married to a loving and beautiful wife of almost 30 years. I couldn't live a day without her, she needs me, and we have two wonderful children. That said, before we met, I had a relationship with a young woman with whom I never spe...
A. 15 February 2011: Let it go brother. You are "married to a loving and beautiful wife" you "couldn't live a day without". You've had your fun. You didn't get caught. Do not contact this woman again. Count your blessings and continue with your life.... (read in full...)
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