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*outh Gal
writes:Is my husbands friend attracted to me?*C* has been coming to my home every week or so fro supper. he worked with my husband for years. he lives about 300 miles away and would come to my husbands work place when he had to work here in the area. when he would see me I could tell how his eyes lit up when I would make an unscheduled stop at my husbands work place. He would help clear the table, complement me on my cooking and just be the all around nice fellow that he is.I wasnt giving him the time of day. Then he accepted another job in his own home city. Now he comes every three months or so. We visit he and his wife when in his home city. We go out for supper. This past Christmas we met for dinner and when we were leaving he gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek next to my ear. I recprocated and gave him a kiss on his cheek. I since then have been thinking of him alot. Next time we met for dinner at their house. he hugged me when I came in and gave me a squeeze along with the hug. I recrcated and did the same. When my hubby and I were leaving he gave me ane were other hug, rubbed my back and kissed me on the cheek close to my mouth. i recrocated and kissed him on the cheek. I am now floored! Then we were to a Tea where he and his wife were working. We were leaving and he gave me a hugs and rubbed my back , no kiss this time as we were in front of alot of people. IS HE ATTRACTED TO ME???? or is it my imagination. HELP!!!
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reader, South Gal +, writes (15 February 2011):
South Gal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou are SO SO right Lovegirl ......so blunt and soooo very right. Thank you!!!!
I know this is not the right thing to do but I am not the one doing the persueing. He started it when I didnt know he exsisted.He is also married and should NOT be hugging, and pecking and rubbing......I think he is suffering in his marriage as well. Maybe if we could talk this out. maybe I should tell him he is sending me mixed signals. then he can tell me I'm nuts.I would just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): does his wife know that you are an enemy encroaching on her man and marriage.
you visit him and her, you take her hospitality. you abuse her hospitality. you abuse this relationship that is called friendship.
perhaps he "tries" these things with you bec you are giving off signals??
you are in your 50's, perhaps some honour please. you go into his wifes home in the guise of friendship but you are eyeing her hb.
PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!
LoveGirl
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reader, South Gal +, writes (15 February 2011):
South Gal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know its heartache to pursue this BUT......what if this guy is in the same mode with his marriage as I am with mine. I feel so empty at times. I just want to leave but i am unable to as I don't have the courage nor the means to do so. He is the excitement i am craving and also he is married so I know it cant go too far.I dunno, I am at a loss here.
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reader, nononsense  +, writes (15 February 2011):
Pay close attention to this. I have never met any one of my friend's wives that I didn't fantasize boffing. I swear, I fantasize about all of them. But I realize I think like this because I am a man. I'm sure my friends think the same way about my wife. A true friend however, will not do that. Take the hugs and kisses. The quick backrub and enjoy it for what it is. A sweet fantasy, a fleeting attraction but don't cross the line. There is nothing but heartache ahead if you do.
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