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STD dating has become a popular topic lately. Did you know that 70 million people are afflicted with STDs in the U.S. alone and over 400 million people have stds worldwide?The std dating service I uses is an exclusive online std dating community for singles with stds where I can meet new friends, dates or my future spouse! It's also a great place to talk, share and learn about stds from people that also have shared my experience.

She's got herpes. What are the risks to my health?

Q.   My ex girlfriend just found out that she has Vaginal Herpes. She got it from her current,(soon to be ex) boyfriend. So i'm in a bit of a pickle. We have for a while now been talking about seeing each other again and since I split with my girl too it ...

A.   27 February 2008: check more info for this kind of STD at STDromance.com... (read in full...)

Could you get AIDS, HIV, STDS, and etc if you had never had sex?

Q.   Could you get AIDS, HIV, STDS, and etc if you had never had sex? While I was washing down there I felt couple bumps. Then they went away. I had never had sex and I am still a virgin....

A.   11 January 2008:  There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-thir... (read in full...)

Did this man give me herpes? What can I do about it?

Q.   hi. i have an embarassing question. i have contracted herpes from a complete stranger. my mother is asking whats on my face and i keep telling her its a cold sore. this man randomly came up to me in the subway and statred kissing me, then he ran....

A.   11 January 2008:  There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-third of a... (read in full...)

Oh no! I forgot to tell him I have herpes and when I did, he stopped contacting me

Q.   After dating a guy for a few weeks and having him spend the night, I realized I forgot to tell him I had herpes. I have had it for 25 years and take regular medication to keep from having outbreaks.. so I know it seems impossible, but I actually ...

A.   11 January 2008: it's your fault! But i think few people with tell others the herpes. they will choose to dating on STDromance..com... (read in full...)

I picked up herpes from a casual relationship with him... Should I tell his new girlfriend he's got it?

Q.   I was having a casual relationship with a good friend of mine and contracted herpes from him. He knew that he had it but didn't tell me. Now he has a new girlfriend, she's 16 (he's 23) and she's a really nice girl, they've gotten into a serious r...

A.   11 January 2008: yes, There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-... (read in full...)

I am getting tested for herpes, should I tell my boyfriend?

Q.   should i mention getting tested for herpes again to my boyfriend? we went through a tough time a few months ago when he told me he had a rash on his genitals--he tried getting tested after that but then the rash went away and the doc. couldn't see ...

A.   11 January 2008:  There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-third of a... (read in full...)

Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?

Q.   my sister and i got into a fight. She spat at me, and her saliva went on my arms, face, lips, and inside my mouth. Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?...

A.   11 January 2008:  There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-third of a... (read in full...)

Is it possible to spread cold sores and the herpes virus if we perform oral sex on each other, even if a sore isn't present?

Q.   Both my partner and I have HSV 1 (cold sores). He gets them frequently and I've only had one bad case. Is it possible to spread cold sores and the herpes virus if we perform oral sex on each other, even if a sore isn't present? Also, what's the ...

A.   11 January 2008: HSV2 is usually on the genitals its rare to find it orally and HSV1 is usually spread orally it can be passed on from kissing or oral sex. and passing on 'cold sores' and herpes are 2 differant things i wouldnt hold it against someone for giving me ... (read in full...)

I heard vasaline disintergrates condoms, and he has herpes

Q.   I had sex for the first time a few days ago and we used a condom. I had been advised to use lubrication but chose to ignore it, but when we started out i was in so much pain i ended up using the vasaline that i happened to have with me, which solved ...

A.   11 January 2008:  There are over 65 million Americans currently living with an STD, 19 million new STD infections each year, one in three sexually active men and women living with Herpes, and about 50% of all sexually active Americans affected by HPV. One-third of a... (read in full...)

In what ways can I infect someone else with herpes?

Q.   I had a herpes test done recently and I called my doc. to get the results and I found out that I am positive for herpes I but negative for herpes II. Basically I have cold sores inside my mouth, they don't appear outside my mouth though and I was ...

A.   11 January 2008: sex, touch and more tips you can check at this herpes dating site called STDromance.com... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has herpes and I am worried!

Q.   Hi, I'm sorry if this is going to be long, but I really need advice. My boyfriend was recently diagnosed with herpes and I am having a hard time dealing with it. When he heard the news he said he was surprised by his own reaction when he didn't cry ...

A.   11 January 2008: you'd better go to doctor or ask STD couselor at STDromance..com... (read in full...)

My ex gave me Genital Herpes, worried that I will now never have a boyfriend!

Q.   Hey, this is a really embarrassing question but my ex boyfriend gave me the genital herpes virus (i know its my fault as well) and now i'm terrified that i'l never be able to have a boyfriend again because of it! i don't want to pass it on to ...

A.   11 January 2008: 1 in 4 people have herpes. Don't worry. go to STDromance.com to get more tips... (read in full...)

My friend told me I could get herpes or sexually transmitted diseases on my lips at a food restraunt. Is this true?

Q.   My friend told me I could get herpes or sexually transmitted diseases on my lips at a food restraunt. Is this true? Only if the person is infected with herpes....

A.   11 January 2008: go to doctor or ask onlline STD counselor at Stdromance.com site... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I have herpes, I want to break up but I am afraid no one else will want me

Q.   My bf and i have herpes. We found out a year ago and im still with him. I think i am with him cause im afraid someone else wont want me. He's getting mean. I wanna be with sumone else sum1 older but i dont kno if he likes me since we only e mail ...

A.   11 January 2008: NO, 1 in 4 poeple have herpes and you are not alone. Please try Stdromance.com and find friends, true love, trust me... (read in full...)

I've got herpes. How do I tell the guy?

Q.   ok, ive just recently been tested and found positive for Herpes Simplex type 1 (genitally) so i know i caught it from oral sex im worried about telling the guy. hes not a boyfriend more of just sex - although have to confess doesnt feel just totally ...

A.   11 January 2008: tell the guy the true. Don't infect someone else. or you can dating some one at STDromance site... (read in full...)

He has herpes and I dont want to get infected, do we have a future?

Q.   Hi---I really need help...my bf recently had a physical examination and the doctor told him that it looked like he had genital herpes, but he also had a blood test to confirm whether or not he actually has it but results haven't come in yet until ...

A.   11 January 2008: no future! I have similar problem and we have break out . now he joined STDromance site to find love... (read in full...)

Should I have a sexual relationship with anyone even though there are ways to prevent spreading herpes? - may have caught it from the current husband, sometimes I resent him for it.

Q.   I am still in love with my ex husband and I am remarried. We have done a lot to hurt each other in the past. We were young when we got married and he cheated the whole time. I know I am not happy in my marriage now, but I have several things holding ...

A.   11 January 2008: Do not infect someone else, maybe Herpes dating site is good for you. Why not try STDromance.com? My friend LIsa has found a guy there... (read in full...)

24 hours after we split-he's in bed with a herpes infested girl! How could he do that?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 6 months. We broke up late Friday night because he doesn't share his feelings with me.(he shares them with everyone else though...friends/family) On Monday, I went to talk with him to patch up the relationship and I ...

A.   11 January 2008: it's just because he does not love you now! my friends on stdromance site has the same problem... (read in full...)

Is it herpes?

Q.   I have sore, itchy and inflamed blisters around my genitals and think it maybe herpes, i have had coldsores before but never herpes and i havn't had intercourse with any1 that has it but am aware that it is the same virus. is this a possibility? ...

A.   11 January 2008: It's herpes. You can ask the STD counselor online at STDromance...com... (read in full...)

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