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Does he want me back or does he just want sex?
Q. 2 days ago me and my ex (who lives 200 miles away) spent 4 hours on the phone chatting and I brought up the fact I want him back but he told me he had a gf. He told me he loved me but don't want to break this girls heart because he be no better than ...
A. 4 March 2010: You already know what he wants or else you wouldn't be asking such an obvious question. It's up to you if you want the same thing I mean sex if not then forget about him there's no more to it he has a gf if he don't end up cheating on her with you ... (read in full...)
Does he see me only as a friend? I want more.
Q. I started chatting to this guy on a dating site, we chatted once or twice then he disappeared. About a month later he mailed me again, was honest and said he had met someone but things didnt work out and he wanted to carry on chatting to me etc. ...
A. 4 March 2010: He obviously wants to forget about his ex...i would suggest yea go out with him if you like him the way you say you do be very cautious with your feelings keep your guard up so you won't get hurt don't show to much interest in him... Enjoy his ... (read in full...)
I can't stand her jealousy...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half, and we are happy. Unfortunately, there is one thing that I really can't stand, and that is her jealousy. I'm 20 years old and have been offered to be a tutor for my college, and here is ...
A. 4 March 2010: First of all don't ever do what your partner want you to do or be of do what makes you happy because when you are content you make people around you happy including your partner and if she is not happy with your wish and progress to put yourself ... (read in full...)
My mom and dad want to use my credit and then have me go bankrupt, any way I can stop them?
Q. So I have sort of a financial problem... Apparently my dad and mom want to work up my credit then have me go bankrupt I have no specicfic reasons why so dey want to ... But I have no control and if I say no they stop talking to me... Why would I ...
A. 4 March 2010: I've tried talking to my dad he is very stubborn I told my bf about the situation he says somethings not right my dad wants me to get a house but oh what do you know it's a house for all of us which mean mom dad lil brotha and me. This is so unfair ... (read in full...)
Feeling ready to give my virginity to him.
Q. i am a virgin and i have very strong feelings for my boyfriend. we have know each other for all most a year now and i think that he may be the one i lose my virginity to. how do i get him to see that i am ready to give myself over to him without ...
A. 3 March 2010: how old are you? That's one and two it hurtts not to scare you but make sure your ready just remember one day you guys might brake up and the next you might be saying I wish I'd never have had done that wit him.... (read in full...)
He's asked me to marry him and I said yes... now I'm not so sure.
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have two children together under 2 years old. My boyfriends is always putting me down, we have no trust in each other, when we argue he always calls me horrible names. He is always saying h...
A. 3 March 2010: You deserve to get married with someone that reallylove you for you and doesn't put you down. Never satisfy yourself with less, you shouldn't be having doubts to start with. How can you be with someone you have no trust in? That's a big no no. Don't ... (read in full...)
Anal Intercourse...what to do to avoid pain and weird things from happening?
Q. Hi yall the name nessa. Anywho I have a slight problem. So my bf's been asking and complaing...he wants to have his noodle doodle up my a*s and to me that's just going over the limit... I don't know what to do I want to satisfy him anyway I can but ...
A. 3 March 2010: Thank you all this is all very helpful stuff. I'm actually talking to him now and he understands it's something I really don't want right now or not in the near future besides It Hurts! :P so I guess in my case I'm sticking to good ol fashion sex ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my jealousy?
Q. i have been with my bf for about 6 months. i love him and i know he loves me too. ive always been the jealous type but its been getting worse the last few weeks even though hes never given me any reason not to trust him. i just find that him always ...
A. 3 March 2010: why are you jealous? In what type of situations are you jealous most? You have to ask yourself this type of questions. Don't be so controlling or demanding of him he might dislike it if anything and eventually get tired of it.. Yeah jealousy is the ... (read in full...)
Should I stop being friends with her? If so, how?
Q. So I have this friend that I've known for about 7 years. We went to the same highschool, and now we're in college together. We had a falling out a few years ago, because I couldn't stand her lying to everyone, gossiping, and using people anymore. I...
A. 3 March 2010: Let her know why you stopped talkin to her in the first place that you do not like her attitude and that you feel that she's taking your friendship for granted. She might get upset and she might say some hurtful things but just ignore it don't make ... (read in full...)
Does she secretly like me and should I say something to her?
Q. ok so there is this girl who we will call mary a mutual friend who we will call colleen and myself , dave ok so one day colleen told me she had to talk to me so she said mary thinks you like her.i said how? colleen said because of the emai...
A. 3 March 2010: Nice. Umm... Let Mary know how you feel take her out to eat maybe while you try to discuss this with her I think it'd make it more of a better ambient for you and her. Give it a go. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mom called me ugly for no reason
Q. My boyfriend does NOT have a good relationship with his mother. It stemmed from when he was about 13 and she whipped him for no reason (he claims). He doesn't communicate with her, and now that he's 18 it comes off as if he's using her for housing ...
A. 3 March 2010: Don't let it get to you I'm in the same boat. But you know there must be a reason (jealousy who know?) why she talks the way she does but don't worry about it my bf's family is the worst of people like I say they are full blown monsters calling me ... (read in full...)
How do I get over the fear of getting a girl pregnant or catching an STD?
Q. OK, so I've pretty much accepted the fact that most girls today do not wait until marriage to have sex, and if they are not going to wait there is absolutely no reason I should ether. So my next problem is how do I get over the fear of getting a ...
A. 3 March 2010: Don't get over that fear keep it in mind always but don't let it get to you bad to a point where your just super paranoid and avoid sex. Sexual diseases are serious as well as pregnancy.. I'd say go inform yourself more of ways you can protect ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with masturbating
Q. Ok recently i have been masturbating more frequently than i normally would. I have been doing it every day sometimes twice. I feel like im becoming obsessed with it and its worrying me. Is this normal? Please Help!...
A. 3 March 2010: SO AM I!!! And when I don't have the real thing I do naughty naughty things with myself. It's fine as long as I guess you don't turn down real sex. That's my point of view.... (read in full...)
I hate my dark, dark skin
Q. I am Cuban and I am dark skin and I like to think that Im exotic with my foreign tongue and look. But all my life I have had people be mean and criticize me for who I am. The media in America portrays majority of the people being beautiful as white ...
A. 3 March 2010: WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!?!n I know exactly what you mean I once went out with a cuban of dark complexion god he was beautiful!!!! I love that dark rich color it's just so yumm nummy tasting. You shouldn't worry about what the media puts out ... (read in full...)
Why is it when you are single you see couples more frequently?
Q. So here is a simple question that I thought I might ask, since I haven't been able to find it yet... Why does it seem that when you are single, and the longer you have been, the more and more sex and couples start to appear? It's pretty wel...
A. 3 March 2010: ummm I wouldn't say that... I'd say that it's because your paying more attention to your surrounding but I bet if you had dat special somebody wherever you went you wouldn't really notice couple because all your attention would be towards that ... (read in full...)
I really want to know if we have a future!
Q. Having sex with my sex buddy for a year. both have us have recently come out of long term relationships. I am not ready to have a full on new relationship. But would like to know if we do have a future. He dosent give much away and says he likes me ...
A. 2 March 2010: Why would you let yourself get down like that? He obviously only wanted sex that why you guys were sex buddies in the first place don't be someones cuddy buddy if you have feelings for that person. Take some time alone a miscarrage can be really ... (read in full...)
My husband leaves me and his daughter to go out drinking constantly.
Q. I been married for 4 years i have a a 6 month old girl. My husband drinks to much and i suspect hes using drugs he never wants to take me out anywhere. He just wants to go out and drink with his friends and forgets about us should i leave him or ...
A. 2 March 2010: Take action. Don't just sit there and wait for to come back home intoxicated he is not respecting you as a woman or as the mother of his child he is not acting like a grown man should act. Doesn't it bother you to see him under the influence.. ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my teacher and I'm very confused.
Q. I'm attracted to my teacher!? I know that there is a lot of questions on many websites about students being in love with a teacher, but its a confusing time. I'm attracted to my teacher. I wouldn't say its love... but i cant stop thinking about h...
A. 2 March 2010: Just be very cautious. I know your probably aware of what can happen. He's at an age where he should know better don't take anything that he does outta loop. You'll get over it there's a bunch of boys running around your school. :)... (read in full...)
After 20 years of marriage I just don't love him the way I did before...
Q. I know this is easy for some, but really am serious when I say that I just don't think I can stay married to a man that I promised to spend the rest of my life too. We've been married 20 years now. Things have always had there ups and down. That's ...
A. 2 March 2010: life is about living it. If you feel more satisfied as an independent mother and woman what's stopping you? Just remember your a mother first before you are a woman. ... (read in full...)
Period comes twice a month.
Q. I have my period twice a month, what should i do? ...
A. 2 March 2010: If your moms aware of how your menstrual cycle is let her know your concerns, don't take birth control if you do not wish too go see your doctor and put your worried behind you.... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm gay but I want to be with my friend who is a girl!
Q. im writing this to ask for advice and to also tell someone how im feeling because im literally driving myself crazy thinking about things and worrying and somehow just writing this and telling strangers how im feeling feels like such a weight off my ...
A. 2 March 2010: It's normal for a two females who have been friends for awhile for one to develop feeling for the other one and in your case she just doesn't want a relationship with you but she teases you. Maybe you need time aloneand ignore her txts or calls when ... (read in full...)
Shaving bumps becoming bothersome.
Q. Okay this is pretty personal but I just wanna know. I shave down there and after eveytime I get those red bumps and they bother me. I just wanted to know if I'm the only one getting them or if there is any way I can prevent them or how I can treat ...
A. 2 March 2010: I hate that. It's sooo normal though just get healing body lotion I use st.ives put some on a soft cloth and rub where it's irritated or itchy I've also heard in cases girls get like white puss pimples it works for that too.... (read in full...)
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