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*ams81
writes:I started chatting to this guy on a dating site, we chatted once or twice then he disappeared. About a month later he mailed me again, was honest and said he had met someone but things didnt work out and he wanted to carry on chatting to me etc. Eventually the mails became smses and then he called me, our 1st conversation lasted for over an hour. Was awesome, we laughed, acted silly etc. We decided to meet for the 1st time last night and i have never been so nervous, that never happens. We get along really well, have the same sense of humour and he said that i bring out the silly/crazy side in him. His recent relationship ended a month ago, she broke up with him, and he said he is still feeling a bit crappy, still likes her etc. My question, does he like me? He wants to come out with my friends and i this weekend and i am trying to be nonchalant about it but wow I like the boy so much. He is awesome. At the same time tho so am I, does he see MY awesomeness LOL
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reader, Tams81 +, writes (5 March 2010):
Tams81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAwesome thanks guys! He is worth the wait, such an amazing man, how she cud ever let him go is beyond me. I will be the good friend.
He smsed last night to say he knows now how I felt after seeing my ex with his new girlfriend so soon after we broke up, coz he saw his ex with her new man and is completely gutted. Told him that maybe it is for the best that he saw her coz now he can finally start healing and looking toward the future. Told him he is amazing and just needs to start believing it. He said thanks and he thinks im here at the right time , like a cushion to fall on coz he feels crappy. Really feel for him coz i know how much it hurts.
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reader, brigid.imagine  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 He's already proven he's honest. And it's great you gave him the chance! He might not be over her yet, but that's okay. He's willing to try again, so don't give up on him. Be his friend for a while, and when he's ready for more, he will really know you and feel comfortable with you. :)
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reader, nessabarela505  +, writes (4 March 2010):
He obviously wants to forget about his ex...i would suggest yea go out with him if you like him the way you say you do be very cautious with your feelings keep your guard up so you won't get hurt don't show to much interest in him... Enjoy his company. Take in notice that if he knew and you guys were talking and all of a sudden he disappears he didn't give any significance to you and would have rather been with someone else. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Im sure he does lol. btw im laughing with you.
Theres only one way to find out if he wants to come along..ask him.
What do you have to loose?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 He could be on the rebound, and just feeling sorry over his last break up or he could be waiting to get to know you better before comitting himself to you.
He may hold off because he is afraid of getting hurt or rejected so wants to get to know you better first, he may see his past relationships and be learning by his mistakes not rushing in too fast.
Love works in strange ways, sometimes we grow to love more as time goes on other times its an instant attraction.
Wanting to meet your friends can be a good thing, but if he puts all your friends before you then its likley its not going to work out.
If your both happy then live for the moment now, time will tell with this.
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