I know I shouldn't deal with him anymore, but it's hard not to because I still have feelings for him. please help me.
Q. Hi, I dated this boy for about 15 months and we really liked each other a lot. Arguing/fighting became a problem though and I was always the one to say we should just work it all out together. Then one day, he broke up with me, but told me that he ...
A. 14 August 2007: I'm going through something similar myself right now. Let him go girl! He's not worth it. I'm having a hard time letting my ex go because we still talk even though he's with someone else now and I'm telling you, its just going to end up in my ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me, but I think he still loves me
Q. my boyfriend has ended it with me we split 5 weeks ago. he said he needed space and he couldnt give me what i wanted. he said i put to much pressure on him and to be honest i did at times. i asked him to marry me, but i later said i was sorry. ive ...
A. 26 July 2007: I have to agree with flower girl on this as well. My ex is not really being treated for his depression as he doesn't talk to somebody about it but he does take meds for that and his anxiety though. He has a real hard time opening up to anybody ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me, but I think he still loves me
Q. my boyfriend has ended it with me we split 5 weeks ago. he said he needed space and he couldnt give me what i wanted. he said i put to much pressure on him and to be honest i did at times. i asked him to marry me, but i later said i was sorry. ive ...
A. 26 July 2007: You are going through the same exact thing that I'm going through right now. My boyfriend broke up with me for a second time 3 months ago because he's afraid of commitment and feels like I deserve better. He suffers from depression and anxiety. ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me to have sex with another girl and now wants me back
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old female. I have been dating the same guy for about 2 years now. We get along great and we really love each other. But he is afraid of commitment, so when he gets scared or needs space he just breaks up with me. But ...
A. 18 July 2007: Hey hun! In all honesty, I think you should move on from him. He doesn't deserve you one bit. He obviously wants his cake and eat it too. Believe me, I know its going to be hard because you really do like this guy but your so young and have so ... (read in full...)
What do you think is going on with him and what should I do?
Q. I need help again! My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because he's afraid of commitment and he feels like we're not right for each other. I've told him twice now that we cannot contact each other anymore and he says that he respects my ...
A. 25 June 2007: I just wanted to clarify that my boyfriend broke up with me due to his commitment issues and he felt like we weren't right for each other.... (read in full...)
I want him in my life, but I want to get over him..HELP!!
Q. I recently mentioned about not being able to stop thinking about my ex and was wondering what is the best way to try and get over him and move on with my life, without completely cutting him out of it because I still want him to be part of my life. ...
A. 18 June 2007: I think the best thing you need to do right now is just move on with your life and distance yourself from him. I'm actually going through the same thing right now. My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago(his decision) but we have been still ... (read in full...)
He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?
Q. hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and wa...
A. 12 June 2007: Thank you for your sincere words. I think your making the right decision by taking a step back. Men love a challenge. I'm trying my hardest to do that with my ex and I think its beginning to work, hopefully. If you need any more advice or you ... (read in full...)
He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?
Q. hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and wa...
A. 12 June 2007: Thank you for your sincere words. I think your making the right decision by taking a step back. Men love a challenge. I'm trying my hardest to do that with my ex and I think its beginning to work, hopefully. If you need any more advice or you ... (read in full...)
He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?
Q. hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and wa...
A. 11 June 2007: I have to agree with musketeer also and I should take her advice as well, because my ex is very afraid of commitment and that is why we broke up. I wouldn't give up just yet, but keep your guard up for now and just take it day by day now.... (read in full...)
He's checking out women on dating sites! Should I leave?
Q. hello i met my boyfriend online, we have been together for six months. i recently found out he had been checking out single females on a dating site! i am terribly hurt by his action.when i asked him why, he replied he loves me, was sorry and wa...
A. 11 June 2007: I was in the same exact situration you are now in. Like you, I met my boyfriend online and we dated off and on for 1 1/2 years. He told me that he wasn't checking anyone out as he never took those profiles off but I did notice he was on the ... (read in full...)
Anyone who doesn't grovel at my feet is not worth my time. How do I get over my ego??
Q. I find it joyful to see someone beg down to me and ask for mercy so that I can then decide as to what I should do with that person. Basically I can only relate with someone who can surrender to my ego. If they don't, I just ignore them or can't ...
A. 4 June 2007: Are you kidding me? I agree with the other Aunts, you need serious help. Such a turn off for women.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.
Q. hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont ...
A. 10 April 2007: I'm sorta going through the samething right now with my boyfriend and I. We're older than you both(both 31) and we've been going out a year and a half. We have a great relationship but I'm so insecure about myself and its starting to reflect on ... (read in full...)
Im in love with my ex ex again... he wants to make a go of it would this be wise!!?
Q. Hi all My ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, bu...
A. 28 February 2007: Sorry, but I have to disagree with Shandy Pop. I was in the same exact situration that you are in and I can't be more happier that I've gotten back with my ex. We dated for 8 months and then he broke it off with me because he was going through a ... (read in full...)
My ex and I are more than sex buddies, but now she's kissing another guy! I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey there everyone, just wondering if anyone can shed some light, or give advice on the situation i am in. I was seeing a girl for just over 2 years, everything was perfect as it usually is, best years of our life, and now i dont know what the hell...
A. 16 November 2006: I think your doing the right decision for now. If she really loves you and if you are taking the sex away, this will be the test to see if she is just in it for that and not you. My ex once said to me not long ago, that he didn't need to have sex ... (read in full...)
My ex and I are more than sex buddies, but now she's kissing another guy! I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey there everyone, just wondering if anyone can shed some light, or give advice on the situation i am in. I was seeing a girl for just over 2 years, everything was perfect as it usually is, best years of our life, and now i dont know what the hell...
A. 16 November 2006: I'm going through the same thing with my ex right now and believe me, I completely understand where your coming from. We broke up almost 4 months ago now because he's battling depression and he wants to get better before he can be in a commited ... (read in full...)
My friend and her bf broke up. Him and I love each other but don't want to hurt her! What should I do?
Q. my friend was with her boyfriend for just under a year and in this time me and him became attracted to each other although we didnt do anything about it.Once they broke up he started phoning me and we became really close he told me he loves me and i ...
A. 15 November 2006: In my opinion, I think its a really bad move. Just wonder if you get together with this guy and things don't work out, then your left with nothing in the end. Just remember, good friends are always there and guys come and go. I know it may be ... (read in full...)
I'm staying friends with her as I'm hoping to spark her feelings for me back up!!!
Q. I am 21 and have recently mutually split from a long term relationship (4 yrs) where everything appeared to be lasting for life with ambitions of marriage and kids as we both loved each other immenseley. She fell out of love with me over a long ...
A. 26 October 2006: I have to somewhat disagree with Toria. Yes, I agree its hard to stay friends with an ex but at the sametime, if you want to get back with her one day, you have a better chance of getting her back if you stay friends with her then not. I'm going ... (read in full...)
We still love each other the only reason we broke up was his anger issues!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of a a year broke up over the weekend. He came over last night, just because I had some quetions that I needed answer so I could accept it and move on. However.. all we got out of it was that we still love eachother, and the ...
A. 24 October 2006: I'm actually going through the same thing with my ex, but we broke up 3 months ago now. We broke up because he's depressed and has commitment issues as well. We are still very much in love with each other and we do spend time together still but ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 23 October 2006: Stop right now! What are you both crazy or something. This is not normal behavior for a brother and sister. I think you both need somekind of counseling, quickly.... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 19 October 2006: Yes, I am single and I think it would be a great idea.... (read in full...)
Can you be best friends with the person you have just broken up with?
Q. How can you be best friends straight after a break up which your g/f made? i don't want to feel bad by not being her friend, but it seems hard to see her as a friend..especially saying best friends staright after a break up, i don't get it...
A. 25 September 2006: I'm going to have to disagree with Yos. I'm in the same situration as you are in now. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago not because he didn't want to be with me because he's depressed and needs to figure out his life right now. He still ... (read in full...)
I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!
Q. My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...
A. 7 September 2006: Move on with your life. I agree with everyone else. He was just looking for an excuse to break up anyway. Passing wind is a natural thing, sometimes you just can't help it. I'm sure that he does it but its ok because he's a guy. NOT! He is not ... (read in full...)
If I ask her out now shes a free agent will my feelings come back ?
Q. Hey I have a bit of a problem. There is was this girl, and about a year ago I was madly in love with her, I thought about her all the time and really wanted to be with her. BUT she had a boyfriend so I gritted my teeth and got over her after a...
A. 22 August 2006: Do what your heart tells you to do. If you think that you may have something with this girl, go for it, what do you have to lose. You have your chance now don't let it get past you again. But, do take your time with it. If you liked her before, ... (read in full...)
Hes asking me to be patient as he has trust issues any suggestions how to handle this ?
Q. Hi, I wrote for help on 9th Aug "We grew real close I thought we could be together, but Now I fear I have pushed him away!" and i would like to thank the two people that replied. I did as you guys said - I left him be. To my surprise he got in ...
A. 15 August 2006: I was one of the one's that replied to your oringinal message and I hope that I helped you. Keep doing what your doing, let him have his space. Like I told you in my first reply to you, I'm going through the same thing right now with my ex. We're ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 yrs old and smoke , how much harm is this doing to me?
Q. i have smoked 6 or 7 cigerettes 3 in 1 go kinda 1 after another n then the n 3 or 4 after it seperate ..im only 13 and i wanna know how much harm i have caused to myself please be persific ...
A. 14 August 2006: Please stop smoking! You are doing damage to your lungs and down the road you will have health problems later in life. True story-I lost my grandmother suddenly a month ago because she had pneumonia that she couldn't fight because her lungs were ... (read in full...)
He wants time to sort out his head... but cant promise we will get back together..
Q. Im in a bit of a mess to say the least. Ive been seeing someone for 4 and a half months and after a stupid argument at the weekend he says he needs time to sort his head out. Maybe in the future we can sort things out but he cant make no promises. ...
A. 9 August 2006: I know what your going through. My boyfriend of 8 months just broke up with 2 weeks ago because he is having a rough time with his life right now and has nothing to do with us. He wants to remain friends still and I want the same too. What I ... (read in full...)
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