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writes:Hi, I dated this boy for about 15 months and we really liked each other a lot. Arguing/fighting became a problem though and I was always the one to say we should just work it all out together. Then one day, he broke up with me, but told me that he still wanted to remain close and he still had all the same feelings and wanted to get back together eventually, just right now he needed a break. That was over 2 months ago, and I still can't get over it. He's come over a lot and we'd talk all the time. When he'd come over, we'd still act like we were dating and occasionally we'd kiss each other and all that. I told him numerous times I don't want to be used, considering we were single, and he told me not to worry, he wouldn't. Just 2 days ago I found out that during these past 2 months, he has also hooked up with 3 other girls without telling me. He never tried to stop anything between us or make it obvious that he didn't want to hurt me before he hooked up with the other girls. I honestly don't know what I should do. I know I shouldn't deal with him anymore, but it's hard not to because I still have feelings for him. please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Im going through a similar thing. the best thing you can do is carry on with you life, dont wait around for him!! keep on telling myself...if its really love, he'll come back!! and if he dosnt come back...you'll find someone who apprecicates you in the meantime anyway!!! Guys can be so immature, move on!! xxx
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reader, mwest +, writes (14 August 2007):
I'm going through something similar myself right now. Let him go girl! He's not worth it. I'm having a hard time letting my ex go because we still talk even though he's with someone else now and I'm telling you, its just going to end up in my heartbreak for you. You deserve so much better. My ex and I are quite older than you and he's still not grown up and mature for his age. You'll find someone better and he'll appreciate you for what you have to offer. I'm here if you need to talk!
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