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writes: Im in a bit of a mess to say the least. Ive been seeing someone for 4 and a half months and after a stupid argument at the weekend he says he needs time to sort his head out. Maybe in the future we can sort things out but he cant make no promises. Ive realised i love him more than ive ever loved anyone before and its killing me. I know i'll wait for him but im risking getting hurt again. Friends have said that if its meant to be then it will be, but, im just not sure.can you help???
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): forget him. life is about you having fun. move on. you will soon laugh at the whole situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): Well first off...was it in fact a stupid arguement and I don't think he feels this way.
What exactly went down. What were the exact words and don't relate back to me what you felt and thought he said...recall the words and what started it.
It must have been an ungoing concern of his that he left unaddressed.
Can you stop and listen to what he is saying. Can you stop yourself from re-acting to what he is saying.
Often times we re-act to what someone is saying instead of taking the time to listen.
I can be of help if we can first figure out what the arguement was about.
Thanks.
I still think this is a communication problem and couple's counselling is always the best way to go about most issues in a relationship.
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reader, mwest  +, writes (9 August 2006):
I know what your going through. My boyfriend of 8 months just broke up with 2 weeks ago because he is having a rough time with his life right now and has nothing to do with us. He wants to remain friends still and I want the same too. What I would do is, let him be for awhile. Let him have time to think and maybe he will miss you and want you back. If it was a stupid fight, then he should realize that and be mature enough to talk things out with you and make things better. But, if he doesn't want that, then he might just not be worth the heartache then. Your better than that. I hope things work out in your favor!
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