My boyfriend told me he nevers gets jealous?
Q. I find this hard to believe. When I pointed out jealousy is a basic human emotion experienced at least once by all, he admitted he had felt it "occasionally" when he "considered things" (?) But aside from that, he had "no experience" with the ...
A. 16 September 2011: some men choose not to be openly jealous. jealousy can cause major problems for your relationship. Enjoy being trusted by your mate because if he becomes the jealous type then you will become stressed and miserable. ... (read in full...)
I think I should break up with my g/f but its going to kill me seeing her with someone else
Q. I'm no longer happy with my girlfriend of fourteen months. I'm tired of her constantly being mad at me and guilt tripping me into giving her a deep apology that she doesn't deserve. Even after i apologize she remains mad at me for hours. The thing ...
A. 16 August 2011: Being accused will encourage a person to cheat. If you are not happy and you have explained this to her then maybe you should leave. If you are a descent guy someone will soon come alone that deserves u. try avoiding her until u are comfortable with ... (read in full...)
Why do creeps ask girls if they are virgins?
Q. Why do creepy guys and perverts ask teenage girls "Are you a virgin"?...
A. 15 August 2011: Most men like to be a girl's first. The first time opening up someone is a pleasure for men.... (read in full...)
I wanted to know what he was up to on facebook!
Q. My boyfriend left his facebook open at my place. So i checked it. I saw that he chatted with ex girlfriends, and also flirted with them. He also said he wasn't secure about his relationship with me..and that there are loads of other cute girls, ...
A. 20 July 2011: I wouldn't confront him bc you invaded his privacy which meant you didn't trust him. I know it was tempting but when,you go searching you will definitely find something. If you are not happy leave!... (read in full...)
Is there any way for this relationship to maybe return from sexual interest to our original real connection?
Q. I met a guy on the internet a few months ago, and he and I have been talking regularly ever since. Since day one, I really feel like the two of us have had a connection. Everything clicks. But recently things have taken a turn from genuine interest ...
A. 17 July 2011: Don't feel pressured into having sex. That's your body and you have the right to refuse sex! You should explain to him before you meet that you don't want to have sex. Don't get there and act brand new...knowing that you guys have made plans.... (read in full...)
Sex hurts so much! How do I make b/f understand?
Q. My boyfriend always wants sex. But recently im really sore that last time we did it I nearly cried. I don't know why im sore its not like I'm allergic to him. He's always going on at me about not having sex but I just can't go through with it. What ...
A. 30 June 2011: You should explain to him how you feel... (read in full...)
Can I dedicate a song to my fiance that my ex once dedicated to me?
Q. I want to use a song that my X boyfriend dedicated to me for our fist song my fiancee doesn't know and honestly when my X dedicated that song to me I didn't feel anything and it only makes me thing about my true love now who is my fiancee.... Would ...
A. 30 June 2011: if u really like the song and you feel its reminds your more of your future than past then go for it. Bbut if everytime u hear the song u think of your ex then maybe u should pick another song... (read in full...)
Found out my friends are a little two faced - what now?
Q. My bestfriend who i have known for around 4 years now had started turning a bit cold recently and its been bugging me. We still go out and have parties and talk about everything, but i was on her social network account tonight she left unattended at ...
A. 30 June 2011: Just keep your distance because eventually they will start talking about you to your face acting like they are joking.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister is acting all jealous of him. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriends sister has just started acting weird. When i first started dating him she wasn't that jealous of him spending time with me. Now that my boyfriend trys to see me 2 times a week she doesnt like to be around me and i told my boyfriend of ...
A. 30 June 2011: You should explain to him that she is doing this out of spite. Also explain that you deserve his time just like her and when your schedule permits you deserve his time. If you work and go to school she can find time to spend with him then. If he ... (read in full...)
How should I respond to his need for space?
Q. I'm not sure what to do about my relationship. One of my boyfriend's friends told me that my boyfriend told him that he thinks the world of me, but he feels ashamed because he doesnt have much money. His hours were cut down at work recently. Things ...
A. 26 April 2011: Some men are not comfortable with being broke. He may feel like that will lead you to another man. He may also feel bad if you want to go somewhere and he can't afford to take u! I really don't think its you, just the situation.... (read in full...)
I check on partner's ex and he broke up with her 10 years ago!
Q. I am obsessed with my partners ex. I just constantly check her facebook page and look at pictures of her and her husband. My partner and her broke up almost 10 years ago! I think I am going mad, can someone please give me some tips to stop!...
A. 25 April 2011: Maybe you think she won, even though she moved on and found happinessmove on with your life and quite facebook stalking her. THe more time you spend checking on her, the less time you have to make your relationship better!... (read in full...)
Can't get this boy off my mind, even though I barely know him. Is it possible to truly like someone without knowing them?
Q. There's this guy who goes to my school that I really like but barely know. Basically, whenever I'm not in school I miss him so much that it always gets to the point of me crying my eyes out or lashing out at my family. Everything I do makes me think ...
A. 25 April 2011: It seems as if you are crushing on him. Maybe you should let him know instead of admiring him from afar. Who knows, he may like you... (read in full...)
Have I gone and ruined everything? A FWB question.
Q. Long story short I have a friends with benefits (almost a month now). We haven't had sex yet, because I'm a virgin We used to text every day, now we text every few days (he always texts me, but lately I have been texting him, and now I regre...
A. 23 April 2011: maybe he really was busy & didnt want to just end the conversation. Dont let your emotions and anger take over. Sometimes females let their emotions have them playing the gf role when they know in reality, its just a friendship.... (read in full...)
How do I control my feelings for my teacher??
Q. well, im 13 and in year 8 at school. i have this teacher and i have been obsessed with him for about a year now, and the feelings are not going away and no matter where i am he always comes or walks past. when he walks and im on my own he stops and ...
A. 23 April 2011: You should let your feelings go before you do something that may cause him to lose his job. If the feelings are that strong then maybe you should change classes. Stay n a childs place! ... (read in full...)
Should I go see a prostitute?
Q. Recently while i was overseas I had sex (twice) with a prostitute, in an adult venue. She had the looks, body and personality of a porn star. It as the best sex I ever had (and the most expensive!) As I am single and having to 'pay for sex' is...
A. 20 April 2011: If that is your what you desire? But if you find a woman, then you can possibly find love and get sex!... (read in full...)
Have any guys stayed with a girl that they dated in their teens?
Q. Is there any guys out there who met a girl at 15/16/17/18 and are still with them? maybe married to them, engaged, still dating and how old are you guys know? I keep hearing so much stuff about how when guys meet a girl at 18 or younger they nev...
A. 20 April 2011: Yes I know a couple that have but relationship was ruined by pressure. Actually they got married because the girl forced the boy into marriage. It was marriage or break-up. She said she had been shacking for too long but they got married when she ... (read in full...)
My dad is having an affair, how should I handle this?
Q. Hi all, Sorry 4 the length. I had to explain in detail. I am so confused. I got an anonymous call with a hidden i.d a woman informed me that my father has a mistress and is willing to marry her. He is 58 years n has been married to my mum for 3...
A. 19 April 2011: I've been in a similiar situation and I chose not to tell my mom until 5 years after they were divorced. I was young and didn't think getting in my parent's business was my place. As I grew older, I realized that my mom didnt deserve to be hurt by ... (read in full...)
How can I stop thinking of my friend romantically?
Q. Okay, soooo I'm attracted to my friend. Really attracted. I think about her all the time. She's gorgeous, funny, smart. I need some advice on how to NOT think about her as much as I do. I asked her out the other day to sushi and she said yes, we...
A. 19 April 2011: People can't control emotions so if its from the heart you can't make it disappear. Be direct because beating around the bush will eventually get you hurt. She will just think you're being a great friend and let someone that comes along come in her ... (read in full...)
Am I too old fashioned about sex?
Q. It seems everyone is having sex these days. I'm only fifteen but I believe in 'no sex before marriage', I don't know why I believe in this because none of my family do. Everyone at school says I should try having sex with someone, I'm not at all ...
A. 19 April 2011: Don't let the talk get you interested. Sex is not all that people make it out to be. Once its gone, there's no turning back. Continue to follow your first mind, waiting is the best option! Check out Lyfe Jennings' song, S.E.X., its real. Sex has ... (read in full...)
Wife is away, does husband want to play?
Q. Can anyone please tell me why a married man has made it a point to tell me that his wife is out of town on business for a few days? Is this an innocent statement or is there a reason he is saying this to me?...
A. 19 April 2011: It depends on the type of person he is,the tone of his voice, and the look in his eyes.... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to 'settle down' but does want to have a chat, about what?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping in touch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend a lot of time with him...
A. 2 April 2011: I think he is hiding something just maybe a relationship. Long distance relationships are challenging but seeing each other every year and a half is just impossible. As much as you may love and care about him, you still need that hug, kiss, and ... (read in full...)
I just want to know if he likes me or if he thinks of me as his sister?
Q. i like this guy for sometime now. We are in different class now and we rarely got to see each other. When i saw him outside or at school hallway he always seem so busy that he ignores me but after that he will come to me and say hey i seen you alot ...
A. 2 April 2011: ask him. sometimes males will play the friendly role to try to avoid rejection. one day he may be the courage to tell you or if its taking him too long ask him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hangs up on me!
Q. I hate it when my boyfriend hangs up on me.... but he does thatt all the time.... i ve explained this to him like 100 times now how insulted i feel about this but he doesnt seem to care n hangs up whenever he feels like widout even acknowledging ...
A. 26 March 2011: Personally, that is something that really bothers me. It's on my top list of things, not to do. 1.) Don't hit me 2.) Don't call me out my name /curse at me 3.) Dont hang up on me. If u do any of these then its OVER! Hanging up is so disrespectful, ... (read in full...)
Needy or neglect... That is the question!
Q. Hey. My boyfriend said im being needy but i feel like im being neglected and i dont know witch of us is right, sorry if this is long but i really need help to figure it out thank you. Well thursday i wanted to talk to him on the phone and he said no ...
A. 26 March 2011: Its called neglected! He just uses excuses so you would feel like its your fault. Don't allow him to put anyone before you when it comes to crazy stuff. If you start out letting him do it, it will never end. Start spending time with your friends and ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for keeping the pic of a guy who means nothing to be but is associated with my holiday memories?
Q. Do you think i'm in the wrong? i have a photo of this boy i met on holiday when i went away for a week when i was younger. My bf of 4 years is telling me i should get rid of it and asked me why i kept it in the 1st place. The reason i kept it...
A. 26 March 2011: No because that picture cant do anything.
Don't broadcast it but getting rid of it is useless.... (read in full...)
Opinion on friends with benefits?
Q. Friends with benefits. What's your opinion? Do these kind of "relationships" always turn into something much more complicating? ...
A. 26 March 2011: I do not believe friends with benefits is a good idea. Eventualy someone will begin catching feelings or getting jealous. If u have a great friendship do not mess it up for a few rounds of sex, its not worth it.... (read in full...)
My problem is his pregnant partner. Is there a chance he will just love me and leave me?
Q. Am girl who is 21 years of age,there is this guy I just met and I love him and I do want to have sex with him, but my problem is his pregnant partner. What if he loves her more than he loves me? What if he just want to have sexual relations with me ...
A. 25 March 2011: Allow your decision to have sex with him be based on what you want for yourself. Don't be intimidated by her pregnancy because he is with you for a reason. Make sure you examine yourself and be aware of possible situations before you give your body ... (read in full...)
I know I did wrong. But how can I help improve the situation with her? And be forgiven?
Q. My wife and i recently had a bad fight. all the info about it is in a question i posted previously. I completely broke her trust. she is still with me, but not really. we haven't been intimate in over a month. she hates coming to bed unless i'm alre...
A. 25 March 2011: Trust is easily broken but hard too gain back. Just do not give up. Pray and take it one day at a time. When she begin to come around and forgive you, do not bring it back up if she do not want to talk about it.Don't keep dwelling on the past ... (read in full...)
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