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writes:I find this hard to believe. When I pointed out jealousy is a basic human emotion experienced at least once by all, he admitted he had felt it "occasionally" when he "considered things" (?) But aside from that, he had "no experience" with the emotion of jealousy and no answer to give.This doesn't make sense. He has felt it, but has no experience with it? Was he just trying to downplay it? We are LDR, so trust is big, but he seemed oddly adamant he had no idea what feeling jealousy was like. I know he cares about me a lot, so this seems strange...like he's trying to hide he worries about me?Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): How lovely it must be to not suffer from jealousy; I'm jealous of your BF!!
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reader, mar!o  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 we all say so while it doesn't mean we're not jealous it's just that we trust certain kind of people. This is my way of saying I trust you except that from time to time I still show some jealousy. If a guy really doesn't get jealous it means he doesn't really love yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): I think he feels jealousy but just wants you to be free. He knows how to control himself like I used too until my wife took advantage and I caught her through my laid back approach! Just be thankful and faithful to him and you will have no reason to worry at all. I believe he's a nice guy with a laid back style. But if you want me to tell you, everyone feels jealousy but some people feel it like me and dont react unless there is concrete proof and evidence that someone is taking advantage. Hope this helps.
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reader, msnewbeginning  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 some men choose not to be openly jealous. jealousy can cause major problems for your relationship. Enjoy being trusted by your mate because if he becomes the jealous type then you will become stressed and miserable.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 You don't want someone to be jealous. Feel good that you don't have to suffer through a relationship with someone who watches your every move and doesn't trust you. The opposite is not nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): if he's given you no other reason to suspect him, and you have done nothing to make him jealous, or not trust you, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. Some people are just laidback like that. and being jealous doesn't mean someone cares about you, its not really a positive emotion. However, i guess since you are in a LDR keep an eye on things just in case, because if he's raised your suspicions there might be something there
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Yes... AND it don't rain in Indianapolis in the summertime.... there's no such thing a Doctor Zuess, Disney Land and Mother Goose and nursery rhymes....
C'mon.......
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