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writes:I hate it when my boyfriend hangs up on me.... but he does thatt all the time.... i ve explained this to him like 100 times now how insulted i feel about this but he doesnt seem to care n hangs up whenever he feels like widout even acknowledging that i am in d middle of a sentence.... he never lets me explain wat i feel n hangs up without evn saying anything.... everytime i call him back n tells him how awful it made me feel... but he doesnt seem to stop and repeats dis again n again... yesterday i made it very clear that m not goin to call u again n u'll b the one who calls me dis time..... i hvnt got a call from him.... its getting on my nerves now....what should i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): I'd hang up on him too while he's talking and see how he feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Don't call him. He's doing this to irritate you and insult you. In fact, he sounds rather controlling at the same time. Is that what you want? If a man is in love you, he wouldn't do this - he would be more considerate and respectful of you. I would do more for my own self sanity. I would go out and get pedicures/manicures, do my hair differently, go out for walks or jogs, volunteer, find a part time job (if I didn't have one), I would spend more time with my girlfriends or even baking or learning to cook up a new dish. Don't let him ruin your day because of his own meanness.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 I think you should dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Here's what he's saying to your face every time he does that:
I know this hurts your feelings, TOUGH! Here, I'm going to hurt you AGAIN!"...
Why are you still with this jerk?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 I think you did the right thing. Stop calling him back! And if he never calls you again, well then you know exactly how much he cares about you - a.k.a. zip. This guy sound disrespectful and like a horrible partner. I wouldn't waste any more time on him. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, msnewbeginning +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Personally, that is something that really bothers me. It's on my top list of things, not to do. 1.) Don't hit me 2.) Don't call me out my name /curse at me 3.) Dont hang up on me. If u do any of these then its OVER! Hanging up is so disrespectful, just makes me feel like I'm a nobody.
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reader, Catharsis +, writes (26 March 2011):
 He should treat you better than that.
Don't let him trample all over you and your feelings this way; it's rude and unnatural -- a "good" boyfriend wouldn't do that. He should be willing to listen to what you have to say.
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