I'm caring for my younger sister, and she can't sleep
Q. Ok well my other little sister she won't go to sleep I tryed evey thing she is. 3 I asked what's wrong she said stomach ache now I don't like giving meds what else can I do to help her stomach and for her to sleep becuse I'm very tiers and want ...
A. 1 June 2009: WOW! You got a good head on your shoulders! Wait until your dad gets home for the meds, and try to soothe her. Maybe a warm bath? Maybe your laying with her in the bed might work? Also, like OldGuy said, offer her a healthy snack. You're doing a ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be ready for another marriage?
Q. My late-husband and I met in seventh grade, got married a week after graduation from high school. We were married for a year and three months and had one child whom was born on September 11th, 2001. My late-husband worked as a security guard i...
A. 23 May 2009: Like everyone else has said, I am so sorry for your loss. I, like everyone else probably in the world watched as the tower was struck then collapsed.
You should be proud for being able to move on somewhat. I honestly believe that you will know when... (read in full...)
In the last few months everything has went downhill...
Q. I believe I need some advice. I know the answer to the question but still need something from some one. I will make this simple. I have been with my fiancee for a year, we were friends for over 3 years. Close friends, always hung out together. ...
A. 22 May 2009: Good for you! Congrats on the twins! ... (read in full...)
In the last few months everything has went downhill...
Q. I believe I need some advice. I know the answer to the question but still need something from some one. I will make this simple. I have been with my fiancee for a year, we were friends for over 3 years. Close friends, always hung out together. ...
A. 21 May 2009: I agree whole heartedly with Kat and Britt. Get out now, call the police, battered women's shelter, and never, ever, ever tell him about the unborn child. He will use it as a pawn on you, or worse. He'll physically hurt you to hurt the baby. You ... (read in full...)
Married woman who loves two men. Should I leave my husband?
Q. I have been married to my husband for three years now during the course of our relationship he has cheated on me several times, some I can prove and some I just have a strong feeling about. Example after being married for three months I found out ...
A. 19 May 2009: I will give you my honest opinion. Rip out his tongue and then leave him! I'm sorry it's brutal, but you deserve more than this man is giving you or has gave you. Take your chance at a new and happy life! ;)... (read in full...)
Does my ex wife want to be a family again?
Q. About a year ago my ex wife told me she wanted a divorce. It devastated me I lost 60 pounds in a month; yeah I was a big boy. I tried so hard to get her to stop the divorce. I got down on my knees and begged her. I wanted our son to have both his ...
A. 19 May 2009: Give her time. Let her get to know the new you instead of the you she knew when you divorced. Keep being the same person you've been since the seminar and let her see for herself that you don't intend on changing. Show her SLOWLY that you want ... (read in full...)
Relationship with a close friend.
Q. There is this girl. She has been my best friend for 8 years or more. There is nothing that I wouldn't do for her. Recently, we have messed around. We both thought it was going to be weird being around each other, but it kind of made us closer. ...
A. 19 May 2009: Your friend is probably just like you said, willing for it, but is afraid of the outcome should things end badly. I would talk to her further in detail but maybe in a hypothetical way. Don't throw yourself to the wolves just yet, and feel it out ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I won't be able to satisfy her...
Q. ok ya'll heres my deal im roughly 35 years old, and male i am in a relationship (a fairly new one) we have had sex roughly 4 times, but the past two times, we went to have sex, yesterday and today , it was up, it was strong and seemed ready to go, ...
A. 19 May 2009: It could be linked to performance anxiety, (possible) or like you said your medication. I agree with other posters that if she were as great of a woman, she will understand. There are plenty of other ways to TCB with actually doing the deed and both ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with abusive husband's child! Do I tell him?
Q. Hi everyone, My name is Brooke and I am 24 years old. I met my best friend Mike, when we were in high school. We spent many hours hanging out and just being there for each other. 18 months ago he walked me down the aisle when I married the man off ...
A. 12 May 2009: Let me ask this one question-do you want your child beaten? If your answer is yes-then run back to your husband. If your answer is no-file a VPO against him and stay the hell away from him. No amount of love in the world should make a woman afraid ... (read in full...)
Insecure and obsessed with his ex girlfriend. He's to blame
Q. Any advice or words of wisdom...? I've been with my boyfriend (24 years old) for coming up 5 years (in June). I'm 20 years old and we began our relationship when I was 15 (inexperienced, insecure and unstable etc). This ex was with him for ...
A. 11 May 2009: Wow, you do hate her! I understand your frustration, along with the feeling of betrayal. The only advice I can offer is this, to say to him that if there is any contact made by either party that your relationship is over. Tell him you can't trust ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be able to swallow?
Q. Hi, I am 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a long time (almost 4 years) and we have recently started experimenting orally. He says that the sexiest thing would be if he could watch me swallow afterwards. I do enjoy perform...
A. 11 May 2009: Semen is a taste of none other. This is what I do, because I don't particularly like the taste of it myself. Before performing oral sex, bring something to drink immediately afterward. Don't tell your guy that its what it's for, but as soon as he ... (read in full...)
Masturbation help!
Q. I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...
A. 10 May 2009: I agree with satin & harry-it's ok. I don't think there's any reason to think infertility could rise from masturbating-although I'm not a doctor. Also, if it did-I wouldn't have the 4 children I do now. (Hint hint) ... (read in full...)
Husband rude to my elderly mother
Q. When I married my husband, he knew that my elderly mother lived with me and that I had responsibilities to her. Now he wants her to get out. He acts rude and hateful to her all the time. It makes me hate him sometimes. I don't know why he just ...
A. 10 May 2009: I'd hit the roof and I'd definitely have a strong discussion with him. If he can't respect your mother, and that fact that she lives with you, there are definitely issues you two need to meet with upon. If it were me, I'd tell him to start ... (read in full...)
Should I let her give me a bj? Or just say no?
Q. I have a bad situation, my date which i was taking to prom just as friends really likes me now when i still feel the same about her. We hung out yesterday and she was hitting on me really hard. She just does a lot of things i don't approve of and im ...
A. 9 May 2009: Use a condom-get a hummer-end of story. Clarify that no boundaries will be crossed as far as emotional feelings. You only have prom night once, ENJOY IT! There are no re-do's. Enjoy yourself!!!!!! ;) And yes this is coming from a female! ... (read in full...)
When your boyfriend says "he loves you with every fiber of his being". What does that mean?
Q. What does it mean when your boyfriend tell you "i love you with every fiber of my being"?...
A. 9 May 2009: It means that he is in love with you so deeply that it goes all the way to his soul. That's a wonderful thing! ... (read in full...)
My family is falling apart and I am turning to drink...
Q. i have been married for 3 years and have two beautiful children. I'm 26 and my wife is 21 and we got married young, well my wife feels she was too young. My marriage is falling apart and i feel I'm losing my wife and the family that i have built.In ...
A. 8 May 2009: I married young too (the first time). I'm so sorry to hear things are going so badly for your young family. My advice is this, suggest time for the two of you to occupy her wanting that free time. If you've stopped doing the things that woo'ed her ... (read in full...)
Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?
Q. Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual? ...
A. 8 May 2009: I never swallowed or enjoyed giving oral until I was married, I'm far from a prude but swallowing bodily functions LOL kinda grossed me out. I believe it's also a mix of emotional and sexual. My husband was totally turned on that I swallowed. If she ... (read in full...)
Do I disappear until after the court case is handled?
Q. I have a problem with the man that I am dating now...the issue that we have come across is that the man that i am dating is going through a nasty custody battle and recently divorced. I have been dating him for about four months now and he has been ...
A. 8 May 2009: I'm sorry to hear that things are going that way for you and him. You've got a good man, one who's willing to fight for his kids. You do need to be patient. Things will end-hopefully for the best concerning his children. Hang in there-he's just ... (read in full...)
He's 12 years older than me, what do I do?
Q. My mom is dating this guy who's about 10 years older than her... Well he has a son (I'll call him matthew) and hes really cute and sweet and just totally perfect... he thinks the same of me... i know your probably thinking whats the problem then... ...
A. 8 May 2009: I totally agree with the first poster. There is no way I'd like my daughter date some who is 12 years older than her. He is a man, who in my opinion, shouldn't even look at a girl under the age of 18. He also shouldn't be even telling you that he ... (read in full...)
I have NO idea what to wear for a dance!
Q. K so im going to a dance on the 9 th and my crush will be thet. This is a completley informal dance..... I have NO idea what to wear!!! Lol! Any ideas ??? I wanna look hot and cute and get noticed but not stand out too much from everyone else or ...
A. 8 May 2009: COMFORT! Comfort is the key! If you're not comfortable and you won't have fun. If don't have fun and if you're anything like me (I'm 29 LOL)you'll be fidgety-not very flattering. So just be comfortable. No heels or anything like that, if you dance a ... (read in full...)
I just want to know how to move on...
Q. I was best friends with this guy for eighteen years. We knew each other before we were even born; our moms were best friends! The last four weeks, however, he was in the hospital due to a Pilocytic Astrocytoma brain tumor. Apparently, it was growing ...
A. 6 May 2009: I am so so sorry about your loss. I'm sure you've heard that a lot since your friend passed. This isn't exactly like your situation, but I want to try to help you. In 2006, I lost my 6 year old son to a brain stem tumor. After he died, I felt lik... (read in full...)
Do I meet him... or do I say no and stay with my husband?
Q. I am married and have 2 kids. I have been with my husband for 5 years and married for 3. We have been haveing a lot of arguments and even got close to being physical with each other. So in all this i started chatting to other people. There was this ...
A. 28 April 2009: Emotional affairs are not the answer! You feel alone, unwanted, unappreciated and you need validation. I've been there, every wife and/or husband has at one time or another. I'm not going to down you, but think of your kids. Do you want them to ever ... (read in full...)
What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?
Q. Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you....
A. 28 April 2009: If you're age is correct (between 13-15 years old) neither one of you should be thinking of "FWB." I don't mean to discriminate against your age, but well, your emotions are not stable enough at your age to handle something like that.
I don't recc... (read in full...)
Would I be a bad parent for moving in with this guy?
Q. So my situation is that I use to talk to this guy my freshmen year of college and we were "dating" and we were pretty serious, but it was understood between the both of us that it couldn't go any further because he was going to soon be deployed to ...
A. 28 April 2009: Hi! :) Tell your man a BIG THANK YOU for serving our fine country first!
Now then onto your dilemma. How old is your daughter if you don't mind my asking? Has she met your guy and how does she act around him if so? Kids will tell you a lot abou... (read in full...)
I like him, I think he likes me too but we're both so shy...
Q. Hi! I'm 15 and I wanna ask you about my situation especially boys because you know each other well!!! I got a crush and even love 'wb'. We go to the same school but we don't know each other, we've never talked before! He's always staring at me an...
A. 26 April 2009: LOL, you can't be his friend if he doesn't know you. He can't know you if you leave at the immediate danger of his presence. Stick around, hang out, join in on the conversation. Let him get to know you through your friends. Then he'll be able to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!
Q. HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is ...
A. 26 April 2009: Call the prison and ask which telecom company they use and get their number. Then you can put $$ onto an account for your mobile-whether it's pre-paid service or contract doesn't matter. Then after your account has been funded-he can call you at ... (read in full...)
I feel as if my marriage is falling apart...
Q. More than a question I need advice. I feel like my marriage is falling apart!.. I dont know if its because of the birth control I use. I recently read other womens reviews on the same birth control and most suffered some of the symptons I have, such ...
A. 26 April 2009: WOW! How long have you been on this current birth control? If it's more than a month-I would get in contact with your prescribing doctor and ask for something else. Your birth control shouldn't be causing you the effects it is. I trust nothing but ... (read in full...)
I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!
Q. hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...
A. 26 April 2009: Wow! Really? You are a grown woman between 22-25 and you are wanting your DADDY to still take care of you? Like many others have said-the American "dream" is to work for what you want-not be a grown woman and still depending on daddy for what you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in prison, and I missed his calls!
Q. HELP!! - My boyfriend has just been recalled to prison and both times he has tried to phone me I have been out and missed his calls!! - What shall I do? - I want him to know I'm there for him and not deserted him!! - Help! - The whole situation is ...
A. 26 April 2009: Hello, I was in your situation not too long ago. I missed some of my then boyfriend-now husband's calls sometimes. Are you able to correspond via regular mail? We wrote EVERY day to each, and talked as well. When you can't get his calls, if you are ... (read in full...)
She has feelings for he ex
Q. I am not feeling well as I am writing this. I have just found out that my girlfriend still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She has been hanging with him a lot lately and she has just admitted that she has now grown feelings for him again. We had ...
A. 23 April 2009: You are so young to be really worrying about problems like this! I'm not really judging, just making a statement. It will hurt like nothing else for a while, but remember that it's not the end of the world. You will find another girl with whom you ... (read in full...)
Prom is in 2 days but I'm terrified of dancing in public!
Q. Sort of vaguely related to relationships, so I figure I'd ask here anyway. I'm 19 and a Freshmen in college, my boyfriend is 18 and a Senior in high school. His senior prom is this Saturday the 25. I am, as his girlfriend, obviously going ...
A. 23 April 2009: Girl, take those shoes off and HAVE FUN! It's ok to act immature sometimes! Your guy will love it as well. I was kinda the girl who had a little bit of rhythm, but not much. LOL My husband suffers from "white boy syndrome" as well-LOL previous ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my friends house after this "incident" ?
Q. last weekend somthing scarey happend at my best friends house i dont want to say much but the police came and my best friend didnt get hurt but her dad did somthing scarey to her mom. that same weekend on saturday we went to the movies (the acci...
A. 23 April 2009: You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders. I would say trust your gut. If you don't feel comfortable, you won't have fun there. You'll be miserable-be honest with your friend. At first there might be some hard feelings, but if your ... (read in full...)
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