Is she happy because she may be seeing another guy?
Q. Ok so me and my gf have been going out for a few months and things are kinda rocky atm. She has been going through some rough family times and was pushing me away till recently. She says that it will take time for things to get back to normal betw...
A. 8 April 2009: your gf has had some tough family problems she had to get through these last few weeks and she has been really down bout them, the chances are that these family problems are starting to sort themselves out. if i was you i would just trust her ... (read in full...)
I have lied to him about my age but I love him
Q. Hi, I have recently met a guy and we have got off on a really good start the problem is i have lied about my age saying i am 19 when i am really 16. he really likes me too, but him being 10 years my senior i know he wont like me for the followin...
A. 8 April 2009: i no exactly how you feel i have done this before and trust me he will find out sooned or later. its best you just tell him the truth and explain to him why you lied and how you feel about him. if you come clean he might still have trust in you and ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy.. But Pot is in his life..
Q. Readers, I recently starting dating somebody. He is a really great guy. I have some strong feelings about him, and he also feels the same about me. I am a " good girl" as you call it. No drugs, no drinking, partying or bars. I am also a mother to a ...
A. 8 April 2009: theres not much else you can do you have offered to help and support him and if he doesnt accept you offer then the best thing you could do is leave him. its probly best for you and your daughter.
Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
A mother's concern on daughter's new bf who has a history of abusive behaviour
Q. My 23 year old daughter has started a new relationship with a man from our small town who has a past history of violence. His ex girlfriend left him because he was abusive. He has been in jail for assault and has been in drug rehab for a cocaine ...
A. 6 April 2009: i understand that you are concerned for your daughter because of this man's past history but you cant realy show her that hes changed all you have got to do is warn her that he might not have changed and after you have done that all you can do is be ... (read in full...)
How do I solve this on-again off-again stressfull relationship with an ex?
Q. Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers, so I'm back again! My partner and I split up in March last year (he left and at the time I was unwell, which was really hurtful). Since then we've been sort of 'on/off' and...
A. 3 April 2009: wel i hvae been in your persition and it is very painful i no. But it seems like ur ex or watever he is isnt really interested in you all he wants to do is use you and upset you. If i was you i would try and forget about him (i no this is a really ... (read in full...)
What does a casual relationship mean?
Q. Hi, i would just like to know if someone says they what a causal relationship, what do they mean by this?...
A. 3 April 2009: If someone has sed they want a 'casual' relationship they usually mean that they are going to be sleeping with other people and that they are not commited to a relationship. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
Wish I could get her to stop talking about her bf
Q. I'm 15 and I'm just getting over a breakup with a guy I dated for almost 8 months. My best friend is in love with a guy she's been dating for 2 months. She's always telling me how they want to get married (when and where in a few years) and pretty ...
A. 3 April 2009: no your not being a bad frend at all. you are just getting over a relationship which lasted a few months and you are in pain. im sure if you explain to her that her keep talking bout her and her bfs relationship is obly upsetting you about your ... (read in full...)
I have no life because of him and think I am being brainwashed!
Q. ok, so seven years ago I met the man of my dreams. Total charmer. He went out of his way to impress me. But things turned south very quickly. For instance, every time I missed his phone call he would go crazy. He wouldnt talk to me for days. I ...
A. 2 April 2009: All this was mainly because of old emails you had. Your boyfrend/ex whatever he is sounds like a hgorrid person, u deserve so much better than him. Ok it will be very difficult to move on because you do truley love this guy and that is why your stil ... (read in full...)
I love him..but I feel I'm waiting for nothing!!
Q. My ex boyfriend and i had real intense passion. I love him still . But as far as being together we never work because he isnt ready 4 commitment! Hes 30 im 26. Two years we were together and no one has made me laugh so much cos he so clever and ...
A. 2 April 2009: it seems like this guy realy isnt ready to commitment and he probly never will. It seems like you have been waiting around for him to long you shouldnt put your whole life on hold just for him, your still young and i bet there are plenty og guys ... (read in full...)
I call my boyfriend too much
Q. Me And My Boyfriend God, we argue all the time and when hes in a bad mood i have a habit on ringing him to see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answe...
A. 31 March 2009: ok so basically it sounds like your boyfrend is loosing interest i could be wrong but that is what it sounds like. of course there could be other reasons he might just have stuff on his mind and need some space. At the end of the day you need to ... (read in full...)
Sex in the rest room!
Q. Dear cupid, Two days ago I had sex with my boyfriend in a public restroom at my boyfriend's favorite place (it's a pool hall), I didn't meet him for like 3 weeks because he was in Australia. I missed him a lot and I just can't stop myself of doing ...
A. 31 March 2009: you havent got to be embarrased you and your boyfriend are obviously truley in love. at the end of the day your boyfrend told you not to worry so try not to worry bout anything. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend want me?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...
A. 31 March 2009: well your girlfriend has said that she loves you and her feelings are still the same, this means that there is something else wrong with her and the best thing you can do is just be there for her and eventually she will start having sex again she ... (read in full...)
He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!
Q. Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help ...
A. 31 March 2009: you should only have sex if your old enough to start of with. your boyfrend knows your a virgin and should respect that you wont be as good as other girls and you mite not no what to do for the first time. you should only have sex if you are sure... (read in full...)
She doesn't believe it when I say I love her
Q. well i'm a 15 yr old guy. And i think i'm in love with this 14 yr old girl, she live's about 45 minute's away 4rm me. And i met her by a quincenera where i met her bestfriend, we dated, but didnt work out so i started tlkn to her. We've been tlkn 4 ...
A. 28 March 2009: you need to explain to her that its only her you love and that you would never cheat on her again. you need to show some commiment to her also and that may help. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!
Q. I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and ...
A. 28 March 2009: you need to explain to your husband how you feel and you could maybe talk tothe family and explain to them that u and ur husband need quality time so that you can build you relationship im sure they will understand. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
I have not had a sexual partner for 20 years. Advice please
Q. hi, im an older women who lives by her self and have not had a male partner in 20 years, i have recently been texting and calling a guy who i think is my perfect match and think i am falling head over heals for him, but he lives a fair dist...
A. 27 March 2009: you dont need yo worry just because you havent done it in 20 years it doesnt mean you wont be as good you just have to relax and trust youself if he loves you he wont mind how good or bad you are at the start, Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
It feels like he hangs with me just because he has to.
Q. I was in love and after two years he broke up w me without giving me any reasons. After two month he told me he loves me but I couldnt answer with the same because I still loved my ex, so now 1 year passed and I love my bf but lately more and more...
A. 27 March 2009: to me it sounds like none of you are in love anymore, it seems like you have both moved on and maybe you should both go in different directions if things dont start to change soon. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
Porn issues: He totally ignores me or tells me "not right now"
Q. I need advice!!!!! me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years and we have been living together for about a year. I dnt know what to do anymore, sometimes I try to have sex with him and he always tells me that he's tired. and he alway...
A. 27 March 2009: you both need to talk and need to sort out why he wants to watch porn and masterbate instead of having sex with you, if after that he doesnt seem to change you mite want to consider dumping him. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
I need to feel loved and in a secure relationship
Q. Heres the situation. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 6 months ago cos basically we didnt spend enough time together and i felt that he didnt love me as i loved him. And i was gonna get hurt! Even though he tells me he does. I have thought bout him ...
A. 27 March 2009: if you think being with him and not getting much attention is going to hurt you walk away now before you get hurt. he needs to realize he either gives some commitment or you walk away and as for this other guy you should meet up with him if you like ... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: it isnt worth the risk you should just wait until it is legal because if u did have sex and he got arrested you would feel really bad. if he truly loved you he would understand. Good luck with everything!... (read in full...)
Husband's homecoming from Iraq
Q. My husband is in the army and has been in Iraq for the last 10 months, he is due home in less then 3 weeks. This is his first tour and it has been very emotional for the both of us. (we were only married 6 months when he left) He is a huge momma'...
A. 27 March 2009: just explain to her that you are happy to do some things with her but you will need some time on your own with him so that you can both catch up on time you have missed out. she must remember that you are stil newly wed!... (read in full...)
Should I talk to the "other woman"?
Q. my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. i found out yesterday. i'm really sad, but glad that i know the truth. i told him its over, obviously. I think he likes the other girl a lot. But my question is: should i tell the her? It's not to get...
A. 21 March 2009: now if i was u i wouldnt get involved. if he cheated on u he obviously isnt worth the pain dont let him see that its hurtin u. if i was u i would move on and find some1 betta than him which u wil find in time im sure!... (read in full...)
Help? Is this too soon?
Q. OK, I have mustered up the courage to type an email asking the girl I like to join me for a walk and possibly a meal. I am nervous about sending it though. We have only met 4 times, and only 2 of those were times we had arranged to meet and spen...
A. 25 February 2009: i think that if you really like this girl then you should send the email...a walk and a meal sounds like a wonderful idea...so give it a try you sound like a really sweet guy so she wil probably say yes!!... (read in full...)
I kissed another girl, but I didn't plan to cheat, help?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 and half years now. Last week when she was away I went to the cinema with a friend of mine who is female as it was her birthday. After the film while waiting for her mum is was a bit cold so we hugged ...
A. 24 February 2009: well if it wasnt ment to happen then there is no need to tell your girlfriend...but if this girl you kissed wants you to get into a relationship with her then your going to have to tell your girlfriend... (read in full...)
Shall I dump my b/f and get back with Bryan or not...?
Q. A few months ago i started goin into a chatroom for the first time. I met a guy in there(Bryan)and he was very kind and caring. After a few weeks of just being frends i started to develop emotions for him. I didnt want to tell Bryan how i felt ...
A. 19 February 2009: thank you your advice has realy helped me and you are right i shouldnt rush in to moving in with him...thank you!!... (read in full...)
2 men... only one heart.
Q. I really need advice, my chilhood sweetheart and I had a son whom is now 6 years old, I am now married to another man and my ex works away we usually keep in contact via text or pm etc, he has recently told me him and his wife are getting a divorce ...
A. 16 February 2009: If i was you i would stay with your husband because 1) your ex became your ex for a reason 2)your husband treats you like a princess you said... (read in full...)
To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...
Q. I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I ...
A. 16 February 2009: Well you could try and just make a random but friendly conversatin with her. Just talk about random things like what class you have next that kinda thing and then eventually she will get to feel more comfortable with your conversations. The more con... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!
Q. I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....
A. 16 February 2009: Girl youre way too young. Tell your guy that you are not ready to have sex you are to young. If he really loved you then he would understand how you feel and except it. If he doesnt except no as an answer then its probly now a good idea to stay in ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???
Q. I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...
A. 16 February 2009: ummm if i was you i would tell your mum because she has the right to know, but i would also explain to her that you dont want your brother to think he cant trust you. you could maybe ask your mum not to tell your brother that you told her.... (read in full...)
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