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*hika
writes:I need advice!!!!! me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years and we have been living together for about a year. I dnt know what to do anymore, sometimes I try to have sex with him and he always tells me that he's tired. and he always goes in the bathroom with his laptop to look at porn and masturbate, he used to do that once a day and now he does that twice a day. I dont know if he does that because he is bored of me but, it really hurts me and pisses me off because he would rather go masturbate in the bathroom than plessure me....I always try to wear sexy clothes and high hills when I want to make love to him but, he totally ignores me or tells me not rith now. what should I do?????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): Sounds like you've got your answer. It sucks, it's not what you wanted to hear, but it kinda sound like it's time to move on.
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reader, chika +, writes (28 March 2009):
chika is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. he just doesnt care about the way I feel, he says, if you dnt like it thatn leave
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): On the face of it, going to jerk off instead of having sex with someone who's not only willing but anxious says that something's really wrong.
- it may be that he's just immature, that he's conditioned to do the easy thing rather than having to 'work' to please you. Are you difficult to please? Do you let him know what works for you, and make it clear that you appreciate it when he does get you off?
- it may simply be his way of letting you know that he's no longer content in the relationship, and that it's time for both of you to move on.
Whatever it is, you guys have to talk. Clearly the relationship as it is falls far short of meeting your needs.
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (27 March 2009):
you both need to talk and need to sort out why he wants to watch porn and masterbate instead of having sex with you, if after that he doesnt seem to change you mite want to consider dumping him. Good luck with everything!
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reader, Smiles  +, writes (27 March 2009):
Have a good heart to heart conversation with him; tell him how you feel and if he does not take your feelings into consideration...dump him!
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