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How to deal with lies at school?
Q. I know this isn't the usual type of question for this site, but I pray you will help me anyway. there's this guy at school, who is spreading vicious lies about me [he's telling everyone I told him i'd be happy if he killed himself] when I ...
A. 27 March 2012: Well I feel that you might have to let this thing play itself out. If you didn't say this to him then you have nothing to worry about. I know it's tough to be at the receiving side of nasty rumors and it can be A blow to your esteem if people think ... (read in full...)
Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?
Q. Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...
A. 24 February 2012: Is the grass greener? I would be wary of someone that offers me the world.. ... (read in full...)
Am I not attractive enough for him? Or is it just that he respects me a lot?
Q. I have always had high sex drive and that kind of makes me feel weird about myself. My bf has a seemingly low one cause he doesnt not ask me for anything physical. Normally I would be the one taking the initiative to cuddle with him. Recently, I ...
A. 24 February 2012: Well it sounds like he has A great deal of respect for you and think that, this is A really rare occurance these days. Maybe he has issues initiating physical contact and you should try to be more aggressive. My relationship is kind of that way only ... (read in full...)
Is he using me for sex even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. this is a long story, everything i will mention is pretty important to the case but basically i just want a strangers point of view on what i should do... im 16 and i was dating this boy (j) in september, and i really loved him. sounds silly but...
A. 24 February 2012: Get away from him, other he's way confused or just A straight player!!! Find someone that respects you and Please practice safe sex if you aren't already. ... (read in full...)
B/f talks to too many girls on facebook and its starting to drive me crazy
Q. my boyfriend talks to lots of girls on facebook who are "old friends" as he says. i'm normally not a jealous person but this is starting to bug me as its in excess of 10 different girls, and the "chats" are quite overly friendly. they say things ...
A. 23 February 2012: Well, my opinion you should have trust in him. You shouldn't invade his privacy and if you can't be secure in your relationship with him then you need to think about what it is exactly that is bothering you about this and come to A solution. Trust ... (read in full...)
Is my husbands coworker acting inappropriately?
Q. Hi, My husband has a coworker who likes to act like one of the guys. They are in sales in a construction related business. Sometimes he will "ride" with her for the day, even though it isn't required.. While I understand lots of men work with wom...
A. 23 February 2012: Me, I wouldn't think it was cool if this situation was going on in my relationship. I don't know the woman but think she needs to back the f off A bit. Just my opinion.... (read in full...)
Do I give my ex yet another chance for my little girl's sake? Or do I move on?
Q. hi again... i seriously need advice. i come out of serious relationship of 4 years, 3 n half months ago, my ex is a recovering alcoholic, we have a little girl. he is desperate to get back with me and he is going to this council session every week ...
A. 23 February 2012: Hello, first I would like to say that I am A recovering alcoholic and addict. I can tell you that it isn't wise to get involved in A relationship in the early stages of recovery. It just leaves an opportunity for there to be an excuse to drink ... (read in full...)
Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship
Q. i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to ...
A. 23 February 2012: Thank you for the insight ladies. I do get A little insecure at times. XX... (read in full...)
I think he masturbated on me thinking I was asleep!
Q. Hi... My boyfriend courted me for almost three months (said he's okay with it and he's glad to wait). I told him that if he ever break my trust, I'd break up with him. I also told him that I don't want to break my family's reputation becau...
A. 23 February 2012: Ask him about what really went on and then make A decision. Men are kind of easily aroused that's normal, the fact that there were kids in bed with you makes me think that he wasn't using common sense or he in fact was dreaming . I personally have ... (read in full...)
Is this a problem? Or is it normal?
Q. so i've been reading alot of questions on here, and have only just realised i have a problem of my own. i am sexually active(safely), and everytime i have sex, if we are in missionary position or i'm on top, it feels good don't get me wrong, i...
A. 23 February 2012: May I make A suggestion, have sex in the shower him behind you of course and allow your mind and body to relax and let what ever happens just happen. Hope this helped. ... (read in full...)
Why does she still put me down? I just can't seem to do anything right in this relationship
Q. i am 38 and i am in A relationship with A woman that just can't take my advice without thinking that I am trying to change her or be controlling. I am A decent man that has had issues with addiction in my past and have gone through great lengths to ...
A. 22 February 2012: Sometimes I guess I just allow my insecurities to get the best of me. Stay clam focus and remember what you have learned and know about yourself... (read in full...)
Too soon to date?
Q. hi. just need advice on dating after serious relationship! Basically i was with my ex for four years and we have a daughter together. i finished with him 3 and a half months ago, coz i was sick of his drink problem and lies. he is getting help aga...
A. 22 February 2012: If you feel alright with it then go for it you deserve to have some fun! ... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Yes, it's cheating. Haha! Did you just really ask that?... (read in full...)
Do you guys give up if the girl don't kiss u in the first date?
Q. I really want Male opinions PLease! ..I met this guy not too long ago, we exchanged numbers and since then we keep txting back and forth...finally we met yesterday for a dinner. He brought me two gifts.. I didnt expect for that! After dinner we were ...
A. 22 February 2012: Well, I have to agree with N91. I believe he was just looking for something physical. I personally don't feel it nessecary to receive affection on A first date , not now anyway maybe when I was 17. I would honestly have more respect for A women that ... (read in full...)
Should I still be sleeping with my ex?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, but were still good friends. We hang out regularly and its not awkward at all. He will call me up just to chat, surprise me with dinner and ice cream and even bought me chocolates the other day. We s...
A. 22 February 2012: I'm sure that he is A great guy but to me it seems as if he isn't interested in an exclusive relationship it's more of A friends with benefits situation with him. I can tell by what you wrote that you are holding on to the possibility that you might ... (read in full...)
Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?
Q. I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...
A. 22 February 2012: I'm A guy so I can't really answer the question properly but to give my opinion on the matter. If he can abandon his responsibility without A second thought then I wouldn't bet that he would ever give A crap about you. I am the non judgemental type ... (read in full...)
This is my reality, how do others cope with living with or saying goodbye to an alcoholic partner?
Q. Hi I am new to this, so don't quite know if I am doing it right or not. I have written in reply to a question 'What's it like living with an alcoholic'. That's me well at least until last week, I had, had enough and told him to go. This has h...
A. 21 February 2012: Hello Suey, wow thanks for sharing this. I am A recovering Addict and Alcoholic and this hits home for me. I was that man you speak of over and over again until I made A conscience decision to do something about my use and abuse of substances. I at ... (read in full...)
Why am I having so much trouble dating?
Q. Hi I'm 16 and for some odd reason I can't get a girlfriend I have good grades I'm not a nerd I play football I try asking them out and the always say "no" or "I'm not ready" then like a few weeks later there dateing someone else and or if they are ...
A. 21 February 2012: Dude, this is A tough question to answer because I find it difficult giving advice on A topic with so many textbook clichés. Such as, maybe you're not ready , you haven't found the right one ect,ect. Being young is tough this I know and finding A ... (read in full...)
Should I tell this mean girl off or just keep my mouth shut?
Q. Hello :) This girl and I use to be friends since 7th grade and now we are in 9th. We are not friends anymore because we fight constantly and she causes so much drama. I've been waiting for her to be mad at me for I can tell her we will never be...
A. 21 February 2012: drop her like A bad habit.. telling her off will only feed
the fire and if it were me I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of showing her that it is possible to sink to her level.. Move on and find better people to hang with
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How can I get my guy friend back (whom I have a crush on)?
Q. I have a guy friend who I have a crush on. We have stopped communication after we had problems going on with the whole crush deal. He didn't like me back, he had a girl with a boyfriend who he liked, so we had a on-and-off friendship this year after ...
A. 20 February 2012: well, in my opinion you kind of hit the nail on the head when you made the comment about peer pressure. I know when I was A young man I kind of followed the crowd and generally crushed on girls that my friends approved of. It's hard for me to say ... (read in full...)
The girl I have a crush on keeps teasing me about a blonde girl I danced with. What does this mean?
Q. I am 18 [male] and have a crush at work [a girl my age]. We have gotten friendly before on a night out, but nothing has happened since. I have sort of fallen for her since then, and wish I had made a move at the time. Before we got friendly...
A. 20 February 2012: It could be that she harbors A little resentment. I say lay it out there on the table and tell her you have feelings for her. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?
Q. Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...
A. 20 February 2012: Well, first I would like to say that most if not all guys have this same feeling of insecurity about not being able to satisfy their partner because of size so don't feel alone in this. I am A 38 yr old man and have been with probably 10-15 women in ... (read in full...)
Pointy boobs and big nipples - is it okay to have boobs like mine?
Q. My boobs are pointy and my nipples are big. I have small boobs already so neither of these things help at all. i have never seen anyone with boobs like mine. I want a boob job but i'm only 16. My boyfriend says they are fine but sometimes when we ...
A. 20 February 2012: well, I believe that there's so much pressure being A young lady like yourself these days. I mean socially everyone that is in the public eye, so called celebrities are thin and well dressed have plastic surgery ect ect.. The reality of it all is ... (read in full...)
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