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writes:I really want Male opinions PLease! ..I met this guy not too long ago, we exchanged numbers and since then we keep txting back and forth...finally we met yesterday for a dinner. He brought me two gifts.. I didnt expect for that! After dinner we were walking around dowmtown and when I realized he hold my hand.. Then we went to a nice lounge and we took some pics and he wanted to kiss me but I just moved my head and he kissed me in my cheek...Since that moment he changed and I said ok is time to go home. He asked me if I am off this wknd maybe we can go dance or something.I said yes.He wanted to kiss me again but I gave him a big hug thats all.When I got home I txt him saying thanks for the dinner and the gifts everything was beautiful.He didnt txt me back since that moment and didnt even answer my phone calls.So, he got mad cuz I didnt wants to kiss him??? Guys..are u really expecting for a kiss in the first date? Do you guys give up if the girl dont kiss u in the first date? Whats wrong with that?I do like him, he is very nice, but for me is better take things slow!He is asian and I am latina..we both are in our 30's..I dont really get it..:(
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 He was prob expecting a kiss cause u accepted his gifts. Im certain because he didnt receive affection in return hes upset vs u kissing on first date.
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reader, Masterofpuppets +, writes (22 February 2012):
 Well, I have to agree with N91. I believe he was just looking for something physical. I personally don't feel it nessecary to receive affection on A first date , not now anyway maybe when I was 17. I would honestly have more respect for A women that has boundaries and isn't afraid to speak her mind. That to me is way more appealing than getting physical , at least until I got to know that person better. If he doesn't call you know what he's about and it's no good, I'm sure the right one will come along soon.
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reader, N91  +, writes (22 February 2012):
 No, absolutely not. Well, I wouldn't. But we're all different, so maybe he wasn't happy.
But that shows he's probably only in it for one thing...
You've tried to contact him, so the ball is clearly in his court now.
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