Do these things mean he is losing interest in me and wants to break up?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 1/2 everything seemed to be doing great, until recently. It seems that he is losing interest in me.. and getting to the point to were he cant stand me. He points out to me, what wrong with ...
A. 28 June 2008: It sounds like he's losing interest in you, NurseC. And that's normal.
Under some schools of thought, there are multiple stages of relationships. The first stage is referred to as the "honeymoon" stage and it lasts for about 17 months on average.... (read in full...)
No period yet. What can I do?
Q. hi im 14 and i havent stared my perid yet what should i do ...
A. 28 June 2008: Unless you have any other serious medical problems, I don't think you have anything to worry about. The rate at which the human body matures is different for everyone. Many girls might say you're lucky to have not had a period yet, anyways. So enjoy ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex last longer?
Q. Hi, ive been married for 11yrs, i have very normal sex life, but somtimes i enjoy cum on porn movies? i feel it is different, another kind of sence or sexual pleasure, even i can control my cum as i wish. i need to know why when i have sex with my...
A. 27 June 2008: Medicines and creams are, in my opinion, a bad idea. I seriously doubt there are any highly credible products that would serve this purpose. If you choose one that's less than 100% reliable you risk losing sensation in your genitals and/or your ... (read in full...)
Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 27 June 2008: I can't say I've ever had the experience myself, but I've definitely heard lots of stories about guys doing this.... (read in full...)
Need help in coping with my boyfriends past
Q. i have been with my bf for 5 months. we are in love. before me he did drugs and had alot of one night stands. he says he is done with all that now and has vowed never to touch drugs again. altho he has promised me before and has done them twice ...
A. 27 June 2008: As much as it sucks to think about, if he's done drugs that recently (especially after saying he wouldn't), he's likely to do drugs again in the future.
The most you can do is trust him to not become a drug abuser. Not all drugs are harmful ... (read in full...)
She likes me but doesn't love me...how can I make her love me??
Q. 40 and i love lady how is 24yers old but she send me email taling me {that you know that i like you, but i dont love you}. so pls how cain i make hemer loves me...
A. 27 June 2008: You can't, man. Sounds like she's giving you the "Let's Be Friends" speech. Just accept that you've had your chance with this girl and try to move on.
On the other hand, if you're in a sexual relationship with this girl, consider yourself lucky an... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful women out there ,...or not?
Q. All the women i have ever dated cheated on me one way or another i looked at my self more closely i didnt see anything seriously wrong with me and how i treat these women is it ok to think that there are no faithful women out there no more ?...
A. 27 June 2008: You're dating the wrong kind of women.
What kind of girls are you attracted to? Where are you picking up these girls you're dating? What is your technique when trying to pick up girls? Chances are you're just attracting/finding the kinds of girls... (read in full...)
I emotionally cheated on him 3 years ago and he can't get over it! What can I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of nine years are in a huge fight. It's to the point where we haven't lived together in over a month. I take complete responsibility. Three years ago I had a emotional affair with someone, no sex. Well three years later he can't ...
A. 27 June 2008: Sometimes love isn't enough to keep a relationship going. If your boyfriend hasn't gotten over your affair in three years, chances are he never will, especially for someone who is "very hard headed and stubborn".
My advice is to break up with him... (read in full...)
I've been married for 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake I've ever made...how quickly can I get a divorce??
Q. hi am only married 6 weeks and its the biggest mistake i have ever made want to know how quick i can get a divorce since am only married a short time?...
A. 27 June 2008: According the Wikipedia article on annulment [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Annulment], getting one isn't all that easy. Assuming you're a regular couple and the marriage was fairly normal as well, the only reasons you could get an annulment were ... (read in full...)
I have a problem staying hard after foreplay....help!!
Q. Hi there, i'm 16 years old, and i've been dating this girl for about a month... We started staying over each others house's, and we gradually got further (sexually) each time, untill the first night when we both decided we wanted sex... So, a...
A. 27 June 2008: I'm no doctor, but this doesn't sound like a medical condition at all. Just nerves, most likely. You stated that you have no problem staying hard regularly, and unless you're experiencing pain or any other symptoms, you shouldn't need to see a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends family keep picking on me and my bf...what should I do??
Q. Okay so I have a dillema that I'm having trouble on how to handle. I've been with my boyfriend for going on nine months now. The issue isn't with my boyfriend its with his family. He has cousins all younger than we are and for some reason they find ...
A. 27 June 2008: Well, for starters, you should stop meeting with his family. If they're disrespecting him as well, neither of you should really have any reason to spend time with them. Even if he's living with them, insist on only meeting with him in places where ... (read in full...)
How can I make sex last longer?
Q. Hi, ive been married for 11yrs, i have very normal sex life, but somtimes i enjoy cum on porn movies? i feel it is different, another kind of sence or sexual pleasure, even i can control my cum as i wish. i need to know why when i have sex with my...
A. 27 June 2008: In response to Emivia:
Very, very true. I should have mentioned the masturbating beforehand trick, as well. That always works very well for me, though I often find I have to give myself sometime between that and the actual sex to get ready ag... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to play this situation??
Q. Any advice for how to play this - I haven't seen my boyfriend for 8 months. I am due to fly out to him in 3 weeks and we have had an argument (not the first time as the distance has taken its toll) but he has said not to bother coming he is not ...
A. 27 June 2008: I dated my girlfriend long distance for two years before she moved to the same state as me, so I think I know what he's feeling
Long distance relationships are really tough, and the stress can hit hard at the worst times. Your boyfriend may have... (read in full...)
How can I make sex last longer?
Q. Hi, ive been married for 11yrs, i have very normal sex life, but somtimes i enjoy cum on porn movies? i feel it is different, another kind of sence or sexual pleasure, even i can control my cum as i wish. i need to know why when i have sex with my...
A. 27 June 2008: There are a number of things you can do, but there are two things I can recommend the most:
1) Strengthen your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle. This is the muscle that cuts off flow of both urine and semen travelling through your urethra. The exercise... (read in full...)
He says sweet dreams, is he flirting with me?
Q. hi again... like i said there this guy i like alot... i want to know if he is flirting with me.. well when we hang out on saturdays he hits me with rubber bands in areas if you know what i mean.. an he says sweetdreams an dreams about me. he is ...
A. 26 June 2008: Yes. Yes yes yes yes yes. He is flirting with you.... (read in full...)
I know he can make it all better by telling me he wants to be with me.
Q. I met this great guy 2 years ago in a "club" not a good start i know! Got on great that night (he told me he'd just come out of a marriage) and we exchanged numbers. he texted me the next day to say he thought i was really nice but he wasnt ready ...
A. 26 June 2008: There are a few things that could be happening on his end. I'll list the different possibilities here:
1) He's enjoying the booty calls he's getting with you. He sees your friendship as one that can always include casual sex, and flirts with you... (read in full...)
Since I've started seeing this other guy, my ex has been back, asking me out again....
Q. im hoping some people can offer some advice. my ex broke up with me 5months ago after 6years, he met someone new a few wks later. i was devastated but he didnt want to know. i then met a guy for drinks, he heard and since then has been back ...
A. 26 June 2008: All the dedication and love-struck singlemindedness in the world means absolutely nothing if your ex can't learn to respect a simple, "No". He's not in love with you, anonymous; he's in love with being with you. His actions are being driven out of ... (read in full...)
I have some doubt about whether he fancies me or not!
Q. hi i am a 15 year old student. i fancy a boy from my school. he keeps on staring at me in my lessons but he hasn't asked me out yet. he very rarely speaks to me, don't know why. i don't talk to boys much. have you got any idea whether he fancies me. ...
A. 26 June 2008: He probably does, though if you were to ask him about it he's more likely to pull your hair and run away than tell the truth.
Go ahead and ask him out yourself. Do it in private and make it sound like two friends spending a night together... (read in full...)
What should I do? Is she a true friend?
Q. My friend only just meet this boy on Saturday who I've known for quite long because his in my and i told my friend i fancy him and she said ooh. then a day after she said she fancied him too. then tonight she asked him out for her self when she knew ...
A. 26 June 2008: Nope, not a true friend. There's a "waiting period" required in a case like yours where your friend should have backed off and let you make a move first before she gets to try. Less than a week is definitely not long enough.
Don't worry yourself... (read in full...)
STD question! Please help!
Q. I've been wondering this probably for about a few weeks now. I had anal sex with my boyfriend and I know for a fact he's clean. He's shown me papers. I know I'm clean because I too have also had a test. If both of us are clean is it still possible ...
A. 26 June 2008: By definition, you can't get an STI unless one of you is a carrier. Tests aren't always completely accurate, but I'd say they're accurate enough that you can consider yourself safe from STIs.
At worst, if you guys aren't careful, you could te... (read in full...)
My insecurities are interfering with sexual things with my boyfriend.
Q. Okay, so this is a pretty embarrasin' question, but i really need advice. The thing is, i'm 15 nearly 16, but i'm really not comfortable with my body in any shape or form. When i say things to people, i'm really genuine and don't do it for attent...
A. 26 June 2008: Sit your boyfriend down and tell him how you feel. Then tell him that you need him to constantly tell you how beautiful you are. You'll be surprised at the result...
When I started dating my girlfriend, she just couldn't be convinced that she was ... (read in full...)
My 'best friend' keeps flirting with my boyfriend!
Q. Ok, i have a big problem with my bestfriend! Recentley ive started dating this guy that i REALLY like and he really likes me. Well Today at break my boyfriend came to meet me like he usually does, and we were in the middle of a conversa...
A. 26 June 2008: Your boyfriend has shown a lot of loyalty to you to flat out refuse another girl's advances and instead spend time with you. Give him a reward and invite your flirty friend into the bedroom for a little 2-on-1...
But seriously, a good friend w... (read in full...)
Broken up 2 nights ago. Is it too soon to text her friend?
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend about 2 nights ago. Would it be bad form to start texting her friend and meet up with her?...
A. 26 June 2008: Guy here, weighing in. Unless you have a really good reason to think her friend will want to go out with you, and that the girlfriend doesn't have anything nasty to say about you to her friend, don't do it.
It won't work, and you have the possibil... (read in full...)
Can I win him back?
Q. hi i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and we lost are virginity together and because the relationship was becoming a bit mediocre we decided to be just friends. but ever since that, i think that im in love with him and i ju...
A. 26 June 2008: Sounds like you two have some emotional baggage that's weighing down this friendship. The only way to tell if you really are feeling something real for each other is to get over this awkwardness. And the only way you'll be able to get over this ... (read in full...)
Am I an odd girl for not trying girl on girl sex at least once?
Q. Am I odd? I`m a 28 year old girl and never experimented with girls. 80% of the straight girls I grew up with and girls in school and even married girls I know tried this at least once. I mean more than just kissing. Is this common for girls to try ...
A. 25 June 2008: Statistics-wise, maybe. I don't know how many girls have done bisexual stuff (I'm a guy, so that stuff isn't usually shared). I would however be surprised if more than 50% of the girls in the US have ever been sexual with another girl, though.
... (read in full...)
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