We hardly ever have sex anymore. I'd like this other man on the side. What should I do?
Q. i'm 42 yrs old and my husband is 52. i'm happily married and do not want to leave or lose my husband, but we hardly ever have sex. well a month ago i went on a little vacation and i met another man and yes, we did it 1 time, and it felt sooo good ...
A. 12 April 2011:
I'm sorry but your marriage is over.
You do not have the pleasure of saying
I dont want to leave or lose him when
you can easily betray him that way.
You are obviously not totally compatible.
Leave him, and THEN pursue a relationship
with... (read in full...)
My Husband Cheated on me, what should I do?
Q. So I am 22 years old and i have been married for 2 years with my husband for 4. We have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. Everything was great until Sunday morning. We live in a five bedroom house so we rent some of the rooms out to friends. We had ...
A. 12 April 2011:
I dont know how you can believe that he
"didnt know how" he ended up there with her...
Drunk doesnt mean blind.
I know you have a little one and it will be
hard but I would be VERY surprised if you could
ever trust him again. LEAVE.... (read in full...)
Fell in love with a man who is in a "marriage of convenience." What should I do?
Q. It's complicated, I fell in love with an Egyptian man. he is funny and kind and I love him with all my heart, but he is married. He married a woman to allow him to work in the EU as a doctor, and now she lives in her country and he is in England. ...
A. 11 April 2011:
I have to wonder how you can love someone who's
respect for marriage is so little that he can do
it for the sake of "convenience".
Tehnically speaking, the man is married and what
you are having is an affair.
I can understand that you may ... (read in full...)
Need snogging advice.
Q. When I went to kiss my new girlfriend for the first time I went too low even though I am taller than her but I don't want to mess it up again so how can i get it just right? Also any advice on how to snog ( make out if you are from the us)? Because ...
A. 11 April 2011:
Honey,
No one will be able to give you advice on kissing.
Its once of those that you just figure out when you do it.
Some general points are try not to drool, or poke your
tongue down her throat.
Slow and gentle to begin with.
You will be ... (read in full...)
Loving a girl but other girl proposes.....solution?
Q. I am loving a girl(same religion) from two years but can find the guts to tell her. Another girl (of different religion) who is a friend of mine says she is loving me since she has known me and is ready to change her religion for me. I've been ...
A. 8 April 2011: Solution is do not start a relationship with either of them. You can't say you love someone who it seems you have never shared anything with. And it sounds like you have no feelings for the second one. Find someone who you will have mutual fee... (read in full...)
Did something sexual with a guy friend
Q. Ahh Hi, sorry i've just signed up cos i've got a couple of questions or things i'd like advise on if thats ok? I just freaking out about putting this on the net thats all and getting dissed by people, here goes.... Last night i did something ...
A. 8 April 2011:
There is nothing wrong with it at all.
It is a beautiful thing.
If you liked it, continue doing it.
If you also like women, you may be bi-sexual,
and that is ok. :)... (read in full...)
When a man says "Be Patient With Me, ".what does that mean?
Q. I have been seeing this man since Nov. all was great until Feb. I saw him 3-4 times a week, slept over and suddenly that slowed down. I found out that he sees another girl on my off days, he has no idea I know, I have asked if there are other women ...
A. 8 April 2011: It means he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He is trying to get out there and see whats available, meanwhile keeping you in reserve. Do you really want to be someone's back up plan?... (read in full...)
We were each other's first for everything and she broke it off. How do I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. She told me she didn't love me anymore. She started talking to a new guy almost right away, but every once in a while she text me or calls me and says she misses me or is thinking ...
A. 8 April 2011:
Sweetheart you deserve SO much better.
You are just blinded by your first love,
believe me, it may hurt but once the pain
has faded you will be glad you didnt waste
any more time on someone who is not sure you
are the one for her.... (read in full...)
I gave him a BJ and he told all his friends I'm frigid.
Q. i gave my bf a bj the other day 4 the first time. i dont like the idea but he asked and i did it. it obviously worked but afterward he said it was s*** and he told all of his friends im frigid what should i do?????...
A. 8 April 2011: LEAVE! NOW! Seriously why would you stay with someone who has so little respect for you?... (read in full...)
My husband is cheating with one of his students. Does he still care for me?
Q. I am married with grown up children. My husband has been seeing this university girl the age of my children. He said he was helping her to stop drinking spirits cos she was addicted. Other times he says she is the security in case anyone wants to ...
A. 8 April 2011: To be honest, I cant believe you are asking this question. How can YOU still care for him and sit back and watch this spectacle which is your life as if its a soap opera, please find some self respect and leave this messy situation.... (read in full...)
Inappropriate crushes?
Q. I have a habit of making trouble for myself. I develop crushes easily and seem to always have one on somebody somewhere. This is a problem because I have been happily married for many years. It seems that the more inappropriate the crush, the ...
A. 7 April 2011: You say you are happily married, are you sure? It sounds to me there is something missing in your marriage: spice, passion, excitement. The way I see it you have 2 choices: 1 - Try to introduce the passion back into your marriage, or 2 ... (read in full...)
How do I make husband see a friendship is all we will ever have?
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 12 years... we got married on our 10th anniversary... three weeks later he moved out.. he has always either used and sold drugs... abusive verbally, physically and emotionally. I haved always been in love with ...
A. 7 April 2011: Have you divorced him?? If not, maybe doing that will start the clues kicking in. I understand having nothing to do with him will be hard as you have children.. Try to be amicable but only for the sake of your children Keep your contact wit... (read in full...)
My ex-bf recently got married and I want him back...Plead for a lifeline.
Q. I met this pakistani guy on the internet since 11 dec 2008. I am lebanese and was 19 years old at that time he was 27 years old. The moment he sent me msg on facebook we clicked, we exchanged emails and chats for almost a year without seeing each ...
A. 7 April 2011: Baby girl, STOP, and read your article. This boy is NEVER coming back to you, ever. You said yourself he doesnt believe marriage is based on love, WHY do you want a man like that? I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but he never took ... (read in full...)
Advice on dating outside your own race?
Q. Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hello, Im not sure exatly what the cultural differences are, but as with any relationship,if you really like each other you should be able to compromise and understand each other. Dont be afraid and take a chance, approach whomever takes yo... (read in full...)
Should I become his second wife?
Q. Dated a guy for a year-lets call him Peter,he loved me and l loved him too but we couldn't get married because his relatives did not want me,they wanted his ex girlfriend.the ex girlfriend started to live with Peter's mother,the relatives went on ...
A. 7 April 2011:
PLEASE for the love of god wake up!
You want to be SECOND choice? and live with
the fact that he will share his affections
with you and another woman? I have to wonder
where in the world this is still legal, and what
level of self este... (read in full...)
I love my first cousin what should I do?
Q. I love my first cousin with all my heart and i want to tell him but wat if he does not feel that way about me what if he rejects me and we lose the cousin bond we have now.I live in conneticut so its legal could you plz help me tell me if i should ...
A. 7 April 2011:
Firstly, determine and make sure it is more than
a family/friendship bond that you are not mistaking
for lust/love.
If you truly believe you want to have a relationship
you need to tell them otherwise it will fester and
tear you up into piec... (read in full...)
My ex wants me back and I'm unsure because I'm seeing someone, so what do I do?
Q. We were together since we were 16 for 5 1/2 years but 2 1/2 years long distance. We've been through everything together, we grew up together, I stuck with him through the Army for a year. Distance was not a problem because we had a strong connecti...
A. 7 April 2011:
NO! Do not go back to him.
Guaranteed the same thing will happen again.
He just feels a void and misses the routine
and comfort of having someone familiar.
Believe me when I say a relationship ends
(especially that way) for a reason.
If h... (read in full...)
Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...
Q. so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...
A. 5 April 2011:
Have you tried speaking to him about being there
for his baby, even if it means you are not back together,
or maybe you can try give the relationship another chance
now that you have a good reason to be happy both of you?
Try to be fr... (read in full...)
Should I just slip this guy my phone number?
Q. So there is a guy at work (typical start I know) who is really cute and I'm interested in. He comes in every Tuesday for music and I will admit I've spoken maybe 4 or 5 words at the most to him-mostly because I don't really get an opportunity to ...
A. 5 April 2011:
Hi,
He seems like a customer, or is he a colleague?
Do it, but try to make sure no one sees you,
maybe put it in a CD case as you load it,
im guessing this is what he is buying,
if you dont, you will just drive yourself insane
with cu... (read in full...)
I have injuries from the war and now no one wants to date me
Q. Here's the deal i got back from Iraq almost 1 year ago from a explosion in which took my leg off, and left me with bullet holes in my back. I had my leg put back on, but now there is a 10 inch scar going down the right side by my knee and wraps ...
A. 5 April 2011:
These people are right, there WILL be a girl
who respects and appreciates you, scars and all,
you may just be associating with the wrong type
(dont we all at some stage).
Be patient and hold your head up high.
You will find her, or she... (read in full...)
How to find the courage to ask someone out for the first time?
Q. I am a male teenaget st 16. And i still havent 'went out' with anyone yet. Most of my friends have girlfriends now and have had them for a while. Although i am quite popular in school I am still single. I just really need help with asking people ...
A. 5 April 2011:
Hello,
You really shouldnt think about it too muh,
or it will come out rehearsed.
Treat them as though they are one of your male
friends and suggest grabbing a coffee after school sometime. Simple as that.... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I can't seem to forget my first crush
Q. Hello Aunties! Okay here is my question i finally have a boyfriend! yay! the problem is i can't seem to forget about my first crush i had since i was 9. i really love my boyfriend with all my heart but when i see my first crush i freeze to death ...
A. 5 April 2011:
Babe you will never forget your first crush/love,
i would just try avoiding where here is/will be.
Im 27 and I saw my first love of 8 years, and I nearly
died.
Just focus on who you have now, and how you feel about
him.
You will be fi... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to be ok with husband working with co-worker he cheated with?
Q. Me and my husband have been together for 5 years and married for one. He recently told me that he has felt his love for me was gone for a while and that he cheated on me once with a coworker of his.he wants to try and regain what we once had but ...
A. 5 April 2011:
I dont know about anyone else but I think you are silly
to still be with him.
He has suceeded in pulling the wool over your eyes,
not only will he cheat on you with her again,
he will cheat on you with others.
Have some self-respect an... (read in full...)
I want to divorce my husband and marry my soul mate
Q. I am a lady of 40years has been married over 12years. I like my husband and has three kids with the youngest 3 years.I have really never been in love with my husband though I like him and actually ,he is a caring husband and a father every woman ...
A. 1 April 2011: Have you spoken to him and told him how you feel? You say you will wait until your youngest is 8. Isnt that another 5 years. If you are going crazy, how will you be able to wait that long? By then he may have met and married someone else!... (read in full...)
I'm gay and only seem to be attracted to my straight friends! Why??
Q. Hi. My name is Phillip and I'm gay and at the university. I don't have a problem with being gay or anything. I've accepted that a long time ago, but my family doesn't know. The issue I have is that I keep becoming attracted to male friends that I've ...
A. 1 April 2011: I would say because as you get to know these guys, you have the chance to realise the traits which attract you. I would also suggest maybe at a subconsious level, you like the fact that they are hard to get, and that feeling of taboo interes... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship but I love someone else
Q. i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?...
A. 1 April 2011: Hi, You really need to leave both guys alone, and find someone who you can develop feelings for and to whom you can reciprocate those feelings. The guy you are seeing is probably nice and deserves someone who can return his affection.... (read in full...)
She cheated once. Will she do it again if I forgive her?
Q. If your wife of 5years cheats on you w/her baby daddy. Would she do it again if I forgive her? She confess to me because she felt unhappy with her self. She said it only happend once and that she is sorry? Should I forgive her?...
A. 30 March 2011:
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is not just a saying.
If she was unhappy with herself or the relationship
the first thing she should have done is talk to you.
I strongly believe that the trust is broken beyond repair.
I say get out and fin... (read in full...)
I want to try gay sex but I have a gf.
Q. ok so im straight ive been in a relationship for three years, i think i was to have sex with a man im very curious but i don't know what to do? can any one give me any advice on what to do pleaseeeee??? HELP!!!...
A. 30 March 2011: Hi there,
I think its great that you are choosing to explore your
sexuality. I would start by using chat rooms for bi/gay
men and meet someone who may also be new to it,
and go from there. If you like it, then maybe you can
continue and spea... (read in full...)
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