He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?
Q. This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing...
A. 27 February 2012: Hi, would just like to thank yous for taking your time to add your coments, they are much appreciated.
Ok, firstly his jail sentence. I met him through my wee cousin as they have been friends for many years, they were out one night sitting in a park... (read in full...)
Is it really a big deal if I have never been in a relationship?
Q. Why do women make its such a big deal, if you've never been in a relationship? (girls is it a red flag or what? and how is it a red flag, i mean if somebody hasnt been through a intimate relationship, does that make it a no go?) ive honestly been...
A. 20 July 2011: Personally I would prefere if my partner didnt have any previous relationships, your always hearing horror stories about people going back to their ex, this way you wouldnt have to worrie, also it would mean that you would become his first love, I ... (read in full...)
Any hope for us?
Q. Can this relationship go anywhere? We are on different levels. I make more money than her. I have a degree in graphic arts. My job is a part time hotel job and I freelance from time to time. I'm continuing to look for a full time graphic position ...
A. 17 July 2011: They do say opposites attract!
This is like me and my boyfriend I have an hounors degree in criminal justice, and starting a career as an forensic investigator, whereas my boyfriend dropped out of school at 16 and works in a garage spray pain... (read in full...)
Torn between my boyfriend and a new guy
Q. i have caused a huge mess and i know i deserve every last bit of what i've caused but please, i need some help. i was with someone who was good to me for a couple of years now. i know how much he loves me. he loves me more than anything in the ...
A. 16 July 2011: If your in love with two people, choose the second one, because if you were truely in love with the first guy, you wouldnt have fallen for the second one.... (read in full...)
A question for people who have been cheated on...
Q. A question for anyone who's been cheated on... Would you say that when you found out this person cheated on you that you were shocked and surprised? That you didn't think the person you were with could be capable of it? That you thought that per...
A. 16 July 2011: I know this is kinda different, but I once cheated on my partner, I am very much in love with him, hes the love of my life. It was after a night out, one to many drinks and well ... I felt so terrible I had to tell him, I think I was hurting more ... (read in full...)
Can you really change your future?
Q. Hey, I know this site is for relationship worries, but I dont know where else to go to to be honest. Do you think its possible to change your future? My aunt went to a fortune teller on Saturday there, and they told her that i'm going to get pre...
A. 23 February 2010: thanks for the advicee :) just gave me a fright when i heard this. And Miamine thanks for your advice, but it wasnt me that went to the fortune teller, it was my anite, and she was told this information about me, but i would like to think that i ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him!!!
Q. He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...
A. 15 February 2010: first of all you say yous were close before he got married, well doesn't that tell you that he picked her over you.
and for him to keep seeing you once he is married, im thinking that to him this is just a bit of fun, as you said you only see him ... (read in full...)
My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!
Q. A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively,...
A. 11 October 2009: Hi just came across this, i was just wondering how you got on with it, did everything turn out ok?
after reading this i have made more attempt to stay in touch with my friend and she comes and see me during my free periods at school so at least i se... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant, help!
Q. I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...
A. 11 October 2009: wow iv just sat n read all the coments,
just want to say well done, and i hope you and your babies all the happiness in the world. Im 17 and i dont think i could cope if i found out i was having twins, so really well done, most other girls woul... (read in full...)
My mum is marrying the guy she cheated on my dad with. I'm not happy about it, what do I do?
Q. Im 16, when i was about 3 or 4 my mum and dad went thorught a really bad divorce, because my mum was cheating on my dad, as i was to young to know, i stayed with them both, and i still stay with them both, my brother only stays with my mum though he ...
A. 9 October 2009: Im not selfish or spoiled, iv been throught a lot in life and mostly by my self, i didnt want to go in to great detail, but the reason i dont talk to my mums partner is because of things hes done in the past, he did talk to me when i was younger and ... (read in full...)
What does messing around mean?
Q. The guy I'm seeing totally me he's a virgin. He said he's only messed around with girls he's met at clubs and his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what that means. I really don't want him to go into detail about it either. I always thought messing ...
A. 13 August 2009: messing around could just mean kissen, love bites, cuddling ect or it could mean that he has proformed oral sex, either him doing stuff to the girl or the other way about or both, its just a cleaner way of saying it i suppose. It could mean he has ... (read in full...)
I feel like I've got nothing to show for my teen years! How can I change this?
Q. In a few months i'm going to be 17, and i just can't shake the feeling that i have wasted the prime of my teen years. I've only ever had a gf for like 2 months, only kissed one girl, have barely been to any parties or stuff like that. I go out like ...
A. 9 August 2009: you say that your friends go out every weekend and most weekdays, why not invite your self out with them, just ask you never know they might say yes. If your not confident try to change your style, a new clothes sense or new hair style so that ... (read in full...)
Forced to raise a brat!
Q. I have lived with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have been thru a lot and I really love and care for him. The problem is he has a 14 year old bratty son who no one has ever diciplined and now the child's mother wants to give up custody and have us ...
A. 3 August 2009: the nanny cam- if you are goin ahead with this, i dont think you should put one in this room, as he is a teenage boy, and well lets face it, we dont really want to see what they get upto in their rooms, but if you feel unsure about him, try p... (read in full...)
Forced to raise a brat!
Q. I have lived with my bf for almost 6 years now. We have been thru a lot and I really love and care for him. The problem is he has a 14 year old bratty son who no one has ever diciplined and now the child's mother wants to give up custody and have us ...
A. 29 July 2009: I understand that the boy can be annoying and a lot of hard work, but think of it from his point of view, his mum is giving up custody on him, basically saying she dusnt want him, now that must be hard for anyone to take on, but especially a 14 year ... (read in full...)
Should I have anal with my boyfriend?
Q. ok i need help cuz my boyfriend wants to have anal but i dont know if i should. i want to know more stuff about anal before i do it. ive heard that it hurts alot and that their might be remains of poo on the condom when your done. then i also heard ...
A. 24 July 2009: I would recomend you dont do it, i did it ONCE and it was really horrible, it was also very sore, but their was a werid feeling, it just didnt feel right, there is other fun things to do rather than that, and yes even trying to sit on a seat after ... (read in full...)
Do I have an elastic hymen or something?
Q. ok actually this is my first time 2 talk about it.the first time i had sex i didn't bleed at all and then the secoond and so on. ahy is that? is it that i have an elastic hymen or what? plz tell me how can i know that without going to the doctor?...
A. 19 July 2009: Id just like to say that i never blead the first time either, or second ... it is normal for girls not to blead, some do and some dont, it could be that you have already broke your hymen by taking part in sports such as horse riding ectect xx... (read in full...)
Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?
Q. My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...
A. 19 July 2009: I just want to say a big thanks to everyone, i have been reading about the websites you's advised me to go on, iv told my friend about some of them,and she has been on reading them, i hope she realises this is a big deal and people have to know ... (read in full...)
Does every girl bleed, when she loses her virginity?
Q. When u lose ur virginity, do u bleed?...
A. 19 July 2009: When i first had sex i never bled after it, but i can remember some of my friends telling me they did, so dont worry if you did or didnt its normal :) xx ... (read in full...)
Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?
Q. My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...
A. 19 July 2009: I would like to thank you all for your advice, because of the mixed reaction, i think i will just try and advice her into going to see someone, or telling the police. I dont want to lose her as a friend so i think it would be better if i didnt take ... (read in full...)
My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!
Q. A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively,...
A. 18 July 2009: I lost my best friend becuase i didnt like her boyfriend, we were best friends for 5 years and we did EVERYTHING together, until she got her boyfriend, we just totally drifed apart because he fefused to hang about with me because we dis liked each ... (read in full...)
I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?
Q. Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog ...
A. 8 June 2009: I was scared about my first kiss to. I think i was 14 and it was during a game of dares lol. Dont do it when you are completely drunk, just a wee bit so you come out your shell more. You will want to remember first kiss so a wouldnt get to drunk. ... (read in full...)
What are the chances a girl keeps her virginity until marriage?
Q. I'm just wondering how many girls keep their virginity until 20 + or until they get married ? I really have no idea about that so thanks for your answer by the way....
A. 30 May 2009: As most of the others have said, its not common that girls will stay a virgin untill wedd. I was 16 when i lost my virginity and so where most my friends, if not younger. I think it is highly unliky in this day and age, but if you know of someone ... (read in full...)
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