She doesn't seem to making much effort to spend time with me
Q. So all year I have been looking forward to this baseball game against our school rivals, and I'm pretty excited to play, but just last week i injure my arm and I need to be out for a couple games. That's only the start, and where it connects...
A. 12 April 2011: School can be stressful and when one's focusing on their grades, like one should, it can be time consuming, as well. Don't take it personal.
I'm not trying to be rude when I ask this, but what are YOU doing? Are you texting her A LOT? Are aski... (read in full...)
He said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was the marrying type...
Q. my boyfriend and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We were great together we were dating for about 4 years he knew very well I wanted to get married he always told me to give him some time.....he said if he wanted to be married it would be with me ...
A. 12 April 2011: Don't be humilated. There was something on your mind and you called him and there's Nothing wrong with that. He was sleeping--no worries. Who wants to talk when their half asleep, anyways? Not me :)
When you said is it really over? did you and him ... (read in full...)
Don't want to turn him off by bringing drama into our affair
Q. So I met a guy at work who is married and I am married as well and we had a discussion one day about hooking up. I am away for 8 weeks on business and don't have to worry about my man catching me as much as his wife would catch him. We hooked up and ...
A. 12 April 2011: I literally, LOL, sorry :) The answer to your question is.......don't be clingy. You will know if your being clingy. Don't chase him, let him chase you. Let him know how much you enjoy the time spent with him and let him know that you would like to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?
Q. I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...
A. 12 April 2011: Honey, you did make the right decision. It's a life-changing decision--but a good one. Relax. On the other hand, an abortion is a life changing decision, as well, for many reasons, I'm sure. I am anti-abortion, and first and foremost, I would li... (read in full...)
How the hell do I get him off my mind?
Q. I have a horrible, horrible crush on my gym teacher. He is the hottest man I have ever laid eyes on and he's shy but when he yells, oh God am I turned on. The slight problem is that Im thirteen and he just turned 28. I know that he's married ...
A. 12 April 2011: Honey, you must work harder to get him off of your mind. Go out with your friends, join a club, get a new hobby, join a zumba class.....go do something! In reality, you're the only person who can really get him off of your mind. We can only give you ... (read in full...)
Advice on dating outside your own race?
Q. Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't ...
A. 7 April 2011: If you're respectful, loving, and overall a good guy and this is for any women, then go for it. Take a chance. We woman all want a man who is respectful and loving... We ALL have our preferences...... (read in full...)
How can I get laid without lowering my standards?
Q. I've only dated people that I had really good chemistry with before, but it's been over a year since I've met anyone I'm interested in. It's hard for me to meet new people since moving to a new city and working around 80 hours a week. I thou...
A. 7 April 2011: It's not hard to get laid...it's just hard to find the right person to lay you. What I'm trying to say is....don't lower your standards. Waaaaait it out! Make a list of qualities you like in a man--once you meet a guy who meets 1/2 of those ... (read in full...)
How do I decide between my boyfriend who I want to marry and my best guy friend?
Q. I am having a really big problem… so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He’s a great guy, very sweet, and would never do anything to hurt me. He wants to marry me one day and have a family. We’re 17. So, two months ago my ...
A. 7 April 2011: I agree with strongfb! Follow your heart... you will never, ever go wrong if you just follow your heart. Deeeep down, you know who you want to be with. If it's your best friend, you will be doing your boyfriend a favor by admitting to him that you ... (read in full...)
How the hell do I get him off my mind?
Q. I have a horrible, horrible crush on my gym teacher. He is the hottest man I have ever laid eyes on and he's shy but when he yells, oh God am I turned on. The slight problem is that Im thirteen and he just turned 28. I know that he's married ...
A. 7 April 2011: Accept that fact that this is a crush--just a crush. You have to remember that you are 13 and he is 28 years old. You maybe mistaking his gestures (looks, funny things for attention, etc) for something that they are not. You may be one of his ... (read in full...)
He said if he wanted to be married it would be with me but he wasn't sure if he was the marrying type...
Q. my boyfriend and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. We were great together we were dating for about 4 years he knew very well I wanted to get married he always told me to give him some time.....he said if he wanted to be married it would be with me ...
A. 7 April 2011: Just the thought of marriage scares a lot of people. Marriage is a serious step, forward. (Let's not even consider divorce, because marriage is suppose to be forever). What do YOU think is the reason behind him thinking he's not the marrying type? ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid giving her space means she's going to forget me
Q. If you have been a bad boyfriend but you know she still loves you and misses you do you give her space when you break up with her and realize you messed up? I went to counseling and all kinds of other stuff to change into a better person. I broke up ...
A. 14 December 2010: She probably really does love you, but when a female says they need space, they really need space! Don't take it personal. If she wants to be with you she will be back and she will be a much better person after the break and this will make you love ... (read in full...)
Help! I think I'm falling out of love with my husband!
Q. I have been married for 3 years. After 5 years of dating I became pregnant with our first child. We got married while I was pregnant and had another child shortly thereafter. We now have 2 kids under 5. Before we had children we both liked to...
A. 14 December 2010: He's not going to stop smoking pot of he doesn't really want or need to. He has many reasons as to why he should stop, but sometimes not even that's enough, unfortunately. I feel that you should stay, because you used to smoke pot yourself, before ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend was robbed and says that if I love him I should go cash in my bonds and give it to him
Q. My boyfriend was robbed for several hundred dollars, right before Christmas. He has a 6 yr old we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. The past year has been rocky because he cheated on me and I'm stiiill trying to regain all the trust. He says because ...
A. 12 December 2010: Thanks for all of the help everyone. I really do appreciate it. But to answer the questions....there's nothing more to this story. I didn't leave a thing out. He does have a job and can earn the money back. He does not have a checking account due to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend was robbed and says that if I love him I should go cash in my bonds and give it to him
Q. My boyfriend was robbed for several hundred dollars, right before Christmas. He has a 6 yr old we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. The past year has been rocky because he cheated on me and I'm stiiill trying to regain all the trust. He says because ...
A. 12 December 2010: @ CindyCares.. You have been such a great help. Thanks so much. And no he did not report the robbery. He was really robbed though. He has been a mess since it happened, which was a couple nights ago. Especially with Xmas around the corner, it's a ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing?
Q. Brief History: I.. 1) Recently graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree 2) Have my own car 3) Have a decent paying job 4)No kid. My boyfriend 1) Does not have a degree, but DOES have a High school diploma 2) Does NOT have a car 3) Has an OK ...
A. 12 December 2010: Thank you, thank you! You all have been a great help! I love this website and all of you!... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing?
Q. Brief History: I.. 1) Recently graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree 2) Have my own car 3) Have a decent paying job 4)No kid. My boyfriend 1) Does not have a degree, but DOES have a High school diploma 2) Does NOT have a car 3) Has an OK ...
A. 12 December 2010: He refuses to take anytype of public transportation. He feels that he's "too good" for any transportastion other than SOMEONE'S (not his own car) car. We do have public transportation around here, but we don't live in the city. It's moreso the ... (read in full...)
He's telling him that if I don't give him a kid soon, he will leave!
Q. I don't have any children, but my boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter. He said he wants another kid soon. I'm 23, he's 24. I recently just graduated from college with a bachelor's degree and I'm currently looking for better employment (something to ...
A. 12 December 2010: Thank you......... (read in full...)
Women who have a Facebook account turn me off. Am I alone on this?
Q. Am I the only guy in the world that won't give a girl who has a facebook acct my time of day no matter what? I can't stomach the site. It's foolish, ridiculous, petty and childish sorta like immature teenage mentality. I can understand teenagers ...
A. 12 December 2010: I don't have a facebook account, because everyone I talk to I have their number in my blackberry and we chat/text/meet up/whatever. I don't see the point of having a FB account because almost everyone on there is fake anyways. All you see posted are ... (read in full...)
Can we put the cheating behind us and just be happy?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for two years. 6 months ago we went through a very very bad rough patch. he was going out 3 times a week, taking alot of drugs and going to this flat where girls were but would never let me come and i was very paranoid. ...
A. 11 December 2010: I understand how you feel. I cheated on my bf once and told him. I regret telling him because he since then has cheated on me like 3 times, with 3 different girls that I know of! (Probably more) But the thing is, if you tell him what you did, he ... (read in full...)
How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?
Q. my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over...
A. 11 December 2010: The guy likes to know if he's doing a good job. He will get turned on even more when he hears you! Let him know how he's doing. My bf goes down on me all the time and, you will see, you won't be able to control NOT moaning lol.... (read in full...)
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