Being used just for sex?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him came to me a condom and ready to go amd i said no because i'm a virgin now he said next week he want's me to suck his penis.but he want's he's friend there to.is he using me just for sex?should i do it?...
A. 2 March 2009: Yes he's using you. Not only for sex but to fulfill his perverted desires. 'm not sure what your religious background or views are, or whether you have one at all. But perversion, is perversion. Don't let that boy defile (corrupt) your body. I mean ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my friend?
Q. Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable ...
A. 28 January 2009: Whether you're 7 or 17, or even 37, virginity is still a big deal. You won't just be "getting it over with." By giving your virginity to a man you give him the opportunity to know you at the most intimate and personal level. You'll be connecting ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about not being a virgin, help!
Q. Hey, its very simple, I lost my virginity at 16 with my 2 year boyfreind and Im a catholic who wante tdo wiat for marriage. thing is things got complicated and we broke up. Now I'm with this new guy for three months. he is nice and sweet and a ...
A. 23 January 2009: I'm a Christian. I'm not sure about your race or ethnic background, but I suggest you read NO MORE SHEETS by the black author JUANITA BYNUM. The book is excellent and will explain to you what happens after you sleep with person after person. Sexual ... (read in full...)
Why is it rare?
Q. Why is being a 24 year old virgin rare? Is it a bad thing or a good thing? I'm almost 25. I'm a catholic. I'm saving myself (in a way). I think? I don't have kids yet. However, I have two cousins and a close family friend with kids and a family ...
A. 23 January 2009: I don't think it's that rare, I just think it's not that popular among the media. I'm 15 and I want to be a virgin all the way until I'm married. Most of my friends feel that way as well, even some of the not so religious ones. Personally I think ... (read in full...)
Always horny but then feel guilty
Q. hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks....
A. 1 January 2009: Masturbation is pretty repetitious (not sure if that really the correct word to use though). You masturbate and then once the orgasm is over your back to square one. I could suggest some things but I wouldn't want to push my beliefs of on anyone ... (read in full...)
Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him?
Q. The man I love is 10 years older then me. He was my karate teacher. Now that he's not my teacher can I tell him that I love him? I'm still not sure if he loves me though. He asks my mom about me and calls me beautiful but I don't know if he is doing ...
A. 30 December 2008: I don't suggest that you tell an adult man about your feelings for him. Whether he shares your feelings or not it would be illegal by law for the two of you to associate romantically. Teacher or not he's still a VERY grown man ... (read in full...)
My 17 year old boyfriend wants to have sex...I'm afraid!
Q. hi,i'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 17 he's always asking me if we could have sex but i'm afraid!! should i or not at this age?...
A. 29 December 2008: Honey drop him to the side, find a DECENT young man (that's right young man, someone who'll grow up and know how to provide for a woman) Don't let that boy (who must not have ben able to get a girl his own age so he's trying to prey on the ... (read in full...)
We don't want this kid!
Q. I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: Well with the option of abortion you will always be left wondering from time to time "Would I have had a son or daughter write now?" "Would he or she have eyes the same color as mine?" Then you'll remember "I guess I'll never know." ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm ready!
Q. Well, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We've been dating for about 2 months now and we had our first kiss about 2 weeks ago. I Love him and I think he's the perfect boyfriend. I just spent time with him yesterday and we made out for a couple hours. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: Whatever happened to being young, and being a kid. Okay so your 13, official teenager status. Do you seriously think your ready to handle the emotions that come from having sex with some 14 year old boy. Mind you it will hurt, and it will probably ... (read in full...)
Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?
Q. I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?...
A. 13 December 2008: H E double L No! He doesn't love you or care about your physical and emotional well being. YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO LOVE, BUT YOUR GOOD ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX WITH? think about that. ... (read in full...)
I don't believe in getting intimate with any boy just to satisfy sexual needs, I want to wait for the "one". What do you think?
Q. Hello friends. I am a 29 year old unmarried, virgin girl from India. I would like to discuss one of my beliefs with all of you. Hope you don't call me a psycho as all others call me. I have been a very outstanding student, always a topper. I am wor...
A. 10 December 2008: I think your one of the most honorable young women whose ever posted on this site. I'm 15 years old and I respond to so many times to girls, even young women (12-21) who don't know the value or worth of there body. They put them selves out there for ... (read in full...)
Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was ...
A. 10 December 2008: No, the law will just call it "CLINK,CLINK," because that's the sound the handcuffs will make as they put the possible father of your unborn child in jail. It's still considered statutory rape even if you consented. By law he's a grown a** man. ... (read in full...)
"Fiancee" troubles...
Q. Me and my fiencee have been together for 15 months. I call him he never answer phone most of the time. We use to spend alot of time together. I havnt seen him for 3 weeks i miss him and love him so much. It seems all he wants is sex. I no thats not ...
A. 9 December 2008: A man who plans to ACTUALLY MARRY YOU doesn't mind waiting to have sex because he knows that there will be plenty of time for that once the two of you ACTUALLY GET MARRIED. Seems like lover boy is a little TOO ANXIOUS to get in those pants. You ... (read in full...)
Why is sex such a big deal?
Q. Why is sex such a big deal?...
A. 4 December 2008: It's also the one main act that's become overrated and exploited. I mean sex can't really prove that you love someone. Two thirteens year olds having sex wouldn't be as loving at all compared to two people who are devoted to each other and took the ... (read in full...)
Should I loose my virginity to this guy that's a player?
Q. I'm 31 yrs old and still virgin. I've being a virgin b/c I haven't had chance to loosing it. I'm in the middle of two guys who are military both. One I met and being in love with almost 2 years ago. I consider him the love of my life. Couldn't had ...
A. 3 December 2008: HE LOOKS AT ME WITH DESIRE AND LUST
You've maintained your virginity for 31 years, and you want to let some guy just pop it and go of to war. I know they say support our troops, but really. So anyway you say he looks at you with desire and lust... (read in full...)
I want to wait, so how do I make him shut up about sex?
Q. my boyfriend is 16 but i have discussed that with him he just turned 16 though nd. he keeps asking me for sex nd. iht'z not apart of my religion(christianity) i know im going to wait no matter what no one says but what do i need to do to make him...
A. 2 December 2008: I would tell you to explain to him, but it would probably be a waist of your time. Simply tell him in plain English: I HAVE NO DESIRE WHAT SO EEEVVVEEERRR TO BE YOUR SEMEN DUMP! Now if that doesn't get him just kick him to the curb. A guy that ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin?
Q. Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin? All my friends have been in serious relationships, however, I have not. I have been on a few dates but I have never felt attrated to anyone. My friends say im picky but I dont want to hurt anyones ...
A. 30 November 2008: People would tell me I'm picky, however, I've just come to realize I have HIGH STANDARDS. Your right, you should wait until you find a guy who's suitable for you. Plus at 20 I think you shouldn't really feel rushed to have sex and lose your ... (read in full...)
I can't ask her to be my gf because she's skinny and I'm fat.
Q. I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if I can ask her to be my girlfriend. I can't tell my mom and dad, because they would just say "my baby is in love." I try to ask her out on Fridays, but I'm just too nervous. I mean she's skinny and I'm ...
A. 16 November 2008: First as girl I'll tell you that size doesn't matter to me; it's about how a guy treats me. If your a nice guy no matter your physical appearance she shouldn't mind going out with you. However if she's shallow then she was never worth you anyway. ... (read in full...)
I want to believe my bf loves me, but I feel like he has a weird relationship with this guy!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. He has a friend that he has known since early adolescence. I have had the distinct pleasure of spending time with the two of them together at numerous social occasions. I think his friend might ...
A. 16 November 2008: Sure he cares about you... AND HIS CLOOOOOSSSSE friend too. Sounds like something other then a few games of Parcheesi are going on between the two of them. In my opinion if your boyfriend didn't have hidden feeling for this guy he wouldn't be ... (read in full...)
Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?
Q. best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....
A. 16 November 2008: Not that I can think of except going under the knife. Don't be shy about your body; like they say everyone really is different. I wore D cup in the 8th grade, i guess it's just in the DNA. Be proud of who you are. ... (read in full...)
What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?
Q. What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?...
A. 16 November 2008: I think that depends, what is he offering to the relationship?... (read in full...)
How do you know if you are really in love?
Q. how do u know if u are really in love??...
A. 16 November 2008: I'm going to assume you think your in love. I'm also going to assume(because of your age "13-15") you think that you're ready to do somthing that "IN LOVE," people do. If that case let me say first, there are all types of love. The first thing ... (read in full...)
I'm only 13 and nervous about having sex - I don't want babies!
Q. i think im ready to have sex, but i dnt kno yet because babys cuz along wit it, but my boyfriend is waiting on me. so wat should i do im only 13?...
A. 16 November 2008: Girl, let me first say if your boyfriend is waiting on you for an answer, he's an a**. I'm fourteen years old. If any boy ever told me he was waiting for an answer I'd know write then he's only interested in my body. He's not worthy to hold ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.
Q. I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...
A. 16 November 2008: As a fellow 14 year old i gotta just tell you like it is girl. He's leaving in 8 months correct? If you have sex with him now after he leaves he'll have your virginity and you'll just be sitting there with nothing left. Save yourself. You'll come in ... (read in full...)
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