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Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

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Question - (11 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2008)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

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A female reader, littlemissalf123 United States +, writes (13 December 2008):

littlemissalf123 agony auntH E double L No! He doesn't love you or care about your physical and emotional well being. YOUR NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO LOVE, BUT YOUR GOOD ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX WITH? think about that.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (11 December 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntBe with someone who wants to love YOU, not just your body. Please don't waste something as beautiful as your virginity to a guy who is not even worth giving it to. He does not deserve it.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (11 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntNO.. Give your body to someone who loves your heart.. You don't wanna ruin your life.. Do you.? I would request you to end your relationship with this guy immediately as he isn't good enough for you..

Actually you're also the one at fault.. You shouldn't have given him the liberty to ask you for sex even when he says he doesn't love you.. Please think over it..

G'day

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008):

Please don't do it; I think it is a fairly common misconception that perhaps in a situation like this sleeping with someone can maybe make them love you if they don't already. I doesn't work. Please save your virginity for someone whom not only you love, but who loves you too.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (11 December 2008):

tux agony auntIf you really have to ask this question here, I think you know the answer.. You really don't want to do it. If you did, you wouldn't have doubts about doing it. I could go on about how you'd probably regret it afterwards when he stops talking to you and so on, but the underlying fact is that you'd rather save yourself for someone you love, that loves you back. Stick with that.

On a side note, I doubt someone who only likes you as a good friend would really want to have sex with you. But then I'm kind of ruling out sex buddies, but well. I don't think that is the case here.

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