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Why was he embarrassed by the birthday gift I got him?

Q.   i was wondering if anyone out there could help me understand this. Why would a guy you have known for yrs and have a casual relationship with and are also good friends with. say to you that he was embarrassed by the birthday gift you gave him, eve...

A.   20 May 2010: maybe he just didnt like the gift and says he didnt because he didnt want to hurt your feelings... (read in full...)

Confused about how to make this work

Q.   so this past weekend i met a really cute boy at a party.. and we didnt kiss or anything but we hung out the whole night. he got my number at the end of the night and the next day he texted me. we texted the whole day. we added eachtoher on myspace ...

A.   16 April 2009: firstly you should take it slow tell him you wanna hang out or whatever nothing too big , the last thing you want to do is rush things and seem like a desprate girl to him. secondly, him calling you cutie or boo thats just pet names, that him trying ... (read in full...)

She said it is too late now, and I am shattered

Q.   hey, im a guy that is 16 years old. i have relationship issues with my girlfriend and im seeking a lot of advice... we've been dating for 3 years and 2 months now. during the 2nd year she cheated on me for another guy. they met, hugged and kiss...

A.   16 April 2009: because she came clean and told you the truth about her cheating on her you will never fully trust her anymore as you did because you now know what she was capable of doing in the past and as a human being you believe that it can and will be done ... (read in full...)

Should I Break the Cycle?

Q.   Seven months ago I met a very handsome man while hanging out with friends. A month into "dating" him, I found out that he was a professional athlete, something he did not want me to know. We continued as usual. After a while, he started to trav...

A.   16 April 2009: its actually rather complicated to help because he can be either doing this because he knows for fact that youl take him back as well as his feelings for you can be true, just lke there really is no excuse for him not calling or texting you when ... (read in full...)

Does it sound like she likes me or not and any tips to tell if they do?

Q.   Alright I like a girl I and well i have been talking to her for about 2 weeks and I feel like things are going nicely. I actually found out we have a lot more in common then I previously imagined. I had someone I know say that she was talking ...

A.   17 March 2009: Well to be honest I'm living a pretty similar scenario as you are, he likes me, hasn't said anything to me and it's pretty nerve racking cuz it's just friendship so you really shouldn't jump to conclusions especially since you have been talking to ... (read in full...)

Is this mean or am Itaking this too hard?

Q.   ok so there is this girl, we met about 2 months ago and the way we met i thought we was supposed to be together, we started seeing each other and it was all good. just recently ive started to feel so comfortable in holding her hand and kissing her, ...

A.   17 March 2009: i dont really believe the fact that either one of you love one another, but i do think you were nearly falling for her, clearly she didnt love you because if she did she would have taken you to the party or not gone to the party at all because her ... (read in full...)

Like me? or just trying to get into my pants?

Q.   Ok, So I like one of my guy friends. He supposedly likes me back..but i don't believe him. Well we've been making out for almost 2 months now.. this week we went a little too far. He showed me his penis and he touched my boobs. The touching happens ...

A.   7 March 2009: well i feel obligated to tell you the cold hard truth and because of your age this guy might like you but his main point here is to get in your pants and probably into your bff pants too... (read in full...)

Fix things with us? Or just fix me?

Q.   So me and my boyfriend will have been together two years in september. We have gotten in our fair share of fights over him drinking, getting a job, that kinda stuff. Well recently he did get a job and his very first car and i am so very proud of ...

A.   7 March 2009: well from what i can tell about this, there is nothing wrong with you, your boyfriend is the one with the problem here, he seems to think he is all that and a bag of chips because he has a car and a stable job or money coming his way so he thinks he ... (read in full...)

Good boyfriend or a head-fry? How do I keep her interested and happy?

Q.   I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18... we met last September and have been on and off since. When we first got together I wasn't into her as much as she was into me although I was into her a lot; I tried to stop myself falling in love because I wasn't ...

A.   6 March 2009: if she wasnt acting like this in the begining of the relationship, she is definetly punishing you for what you did to her.just give her some time yet not apart, and be a the best boyfriend you can possibly be, keep reminding her of how much it is ... (read in full...)

Abrupt silence. What's going on here?

Q.   Hi everyone, I need some help/advice/opinions. So i recently contacted an old flame. First of all, Im terrified of rejection, so I'm generally not too forward when it comes to relationships. But I feel so strongly for this man I took the chance ...

A.   6 March 2009: i definetly agree with emilysanswers, you never know what could have happened to his phone or whatever it is. i would definetly try one more time and leave a message or something like HEY HOW ARE YOU DOING? ITS BEEN A WHILE HOWS LIFE TREATING YOU... ... (read in full...)

My husband's family is driving me insane and his mother has managed to turn him into a perpetual baby so he doesn't support me in this!

Q.   Hey every one i just need to talk to some one who understans, i have been married to my husband for 9 months and i love him dearly but his family is driving me insane we still live with them and they think its their right to intrude into every thing ...

A.   6 March 2009: well of what i can tell, he has become nothing but a mammas boy i understand that you and your mother in law have had arguments and he doesnt stand up for you but i will tell you this, if you do once backfire to your in laws he will stand up for ... (read in full...)

How can I get his parents to understand?

Q.   I'm in a horrible situation. It involves the same guy as my last question. Everything was going okay then he told me he couldn't see me because his parents didn't like the sound of it because of the age gap. I didn't hear from him in about a week ...

A.   4 March 2009: it isint your deed to have his parents understand your relationship, im not sure how old he is but regardless of age, if he really wants to be with you he will forget anything his parents have to say and be with you anyhow if that is what he truely ... (read in full...)

Should I try to repair our relationship?

Q.   Hi everybody! Sorry if my English isn't that good. Here is a problem. I have been dating this girl for about 4,5 years from which we lived together some 2 years (when I was working in the same city where she is living). It was a year from that and...

A.   4 March 2009: evidentally she does miss you and honestly the only thing that will happen to you if you consist on acting like this and treating her bad she WILL stop calling or texting you and not want anything to do with you. if you really love her, you need to ... (read in full...)

Could I still be pregenent

Q.   On October 27, 2007 I had sex with my ex and the comdom burst and he came inside me. On the 1st of November I came on my period could I still be pregnant?...

A.   3 November 2007: any woman can be pregnant and yet go threw the period for the most part of the pregnancy... (read in full...)

Could I still be pregenent

Q.   On October 27, 2007 I had sex with my ex and the comdom burst and he came inside me. On the 1st of November I came on my period could I still be pregnant?...

A.   3 November 2007: any woman can be pregnant and yet go threw the period for the most part of the pregnancy... (read in full...)

Surely I'm Better For Her... But She's Chosen Him

Q.   She has a guy, but he's made her cry multiple times and chooses games and cars over her... I've been talking to her for several months and also spent time together... we had unbelievable chemistry like soulmates... We both said we made each other ...

A.   3 November 2007: the best word to describe her is "masochist" she is pleased by having a man hurt her and is obviously blinded by the fact that their is someone else who is willling to treat her better. tell her how it all really is, and when the relationship ends ... (read in full...)

After Years Of Cheating, I'm Undecided On How To React

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm a 24 year old girl and I have just split with my boyfriend of 3 years after I found out he had been seeing a girl for sex over the whole of out relationships, about 5 times in all. I've suspected as much the whole time...

A.   3 November 2007: i havent had anything quite like that happen to me but one thing i do know is that u need to leave him now and dont become friends with him either because it will only torment u more and more by the day, if u get back with him i can guarantee u he ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't like my breath, any cures?

Q.   My boyfriend complains of bad breath. I take all the precautions, I even do brushing properly. Now i have gone in for braces since the dentist adviced me so that my bad breath decreases. I have used all sorts of mouth freshners still no use. Any ...

A.   3 November 2007: the only thing thats left is seeing another doctor and no not neccesarily a dentist i have heard that uncontrolled bad breath has to do with stomack problems as well sometimes jusk ask ur physician about it... (read in full...)

Have I lost my lust for life?

Q.   Please help.... I have been with my partner for 9 years and we can't stop fighting! We argue every day about sommthing - i am so bored in the relationship and i know he is too - we very quickly escalate into full hatred and he has called me so...

A.   3 November 2007: ur right ur only 32 ur still young if ur not happy with the relationship leave it. if ur kids keep seeing ur partner and ur self fight all the time theyre relationships will be exactly alike when they get older and it wont be pretty... (read in full...)

How can I balance between disciplining my bf's daughter and being liked by her at the same time?

Q.   My boyfriend has a daughter (age 7) from his previous marriage. She lives with her mom and I get to see her every other weekends. His daughter likes me a lot, but sometimes I don’t know how to say no to her. She likes to play rough with my boyfriend ...

A.   13 September 2007: i agree with both rockelle and frank u do need to set boundaries because if u dont in the future u will be disrespected that is if the relationship between u and ur boyfriend is serious.... (read in full...)

I am crazy about my friend and I don't know how to deal with it right now. Please help!

Q.   I can't stop thinking about one of my friends!!!! weve kissed and shared a bed with eachother a few times but i havnt slept with him because he doesn't want a relationship, but neither do i!! i just love being around him and when im not with him hes ...

A.   13 September 2007: well i have been there myself and the best advice i can give u right now is to confess ur feeling toward him before its too late because u never know what u got until its gone, and by that i dont just mean that he leaves for college tomorrow but ... (read in full...)

I've fallen in love with my best friend. How can I address this to him?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old guy. I've recently fallen in love with my best friend. He is awesome, and amazing, and I'd like to see if he is interested in me. How should I ask without ruining our friendship?...

A.   13 September 2007: well it really all depends on the fact of him being gay and him knowing that u are, u can just start talking to him and tell him ur catching feelings and see iif he feels the same way.... (read in full...)

Which one of us is in the wrong?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for over 3 years now and just over a year ago we were going through a difficult time, always arguing etc, anyway we had a major argument and fell out but not properly and he kissed a girl at work (who i might add ...

A.   13 September 2007: wow... personally i have trouble trusting people too but if it has been a yr since this happened and u pretended to be someone else u are actually somewhat paranoid. i think u should seriously think about the relationship over all and ull find the ... (read in full...)

He said he wants to wait till my pill is sure to work, but I'm afraid by that point he'll just say he wants to wait again...

Q.   I'm an 18 year old girl who's dating a 20 year old boy, and for the sake of it, I'll call him "Joe". Joe and I have been dating for about a month, and both of us have had sex before, so it's not like a mammoth decision or anything. The problem is ...

A.   9 September 2007: ok first off he is 20 which makes him a man and not a boy, secondly i truely do believe that he doesnt want a kid at this point in his life i honestly do think he is beign honest about his decisions and besides its also for ur own good and sake... (read in full...)

Can my mother forbid me to see my older boyfriend, whom I met on msn?

Q.   Hey, 6 months ago i met my boyfriend through msn and have been together 4 months now, 2 days ago he moved down to be with me. We love each other but i was wondering if my mum can stop me seeing him? im 16 and hes 27. Please give me good advice x...

A.   3 September 2007: ur mother can do anything and everything she wants to considering the fact that ur only 16. especially call the cops on him because he is way too old for u which tends to freak people out ... (read in full...)

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