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I've fallen in love with my best friend. How can I address this to him?

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Question - (12 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2007)
A male Australia age 30-35, *eenguy161 writes:

I'm a 16 year old guy. I've recently fallen in love with my best friend. He is awesome, and amazing, and I'd like to see if he is interested in me. How should I ask without ruining our friendship?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007):

be carefull,

have these feeling stemmed from obvious signals given by him (consistently) and your intuitions upon his "signals" or,

are you attributing genuine friendship connection to a lovers connection-be sure as he may feel that his friendship based intimacy has been abused, and feel rejected or isolated as a result.

no advice is as good as your understanding and truthfull intuition on his feelings-your his friend, you should make sense of him

good luck (and be swayed by truth not fanassy)

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A male reader, teenguy161 Australia +, writes (13 September 2007):

teenguy161 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

yeah, i am gay

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A male reader, jaimeamour22 Ireland +, writes (13 September 2007):

hi look we all fall in love are you gay or str8 .. but look its love you can love your friends too , i just think maybe your so young your feeling are a little muddled up and your confused but dont worry . look i dont think anyone is born straight we are all bi sexual , just dont worry about your feeling and things will come to pass , hope that helps xx jaime

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A female reader, LilWun23 United States +, writes (13 September 2007):

well it really all depends on the fact of him being gay and him knowing that u are, u can just start talking to him and tell him ur catching feelings and see iif he feels the same way.

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