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... Send *auren.. a private message | | | *auren..'s profile:I think that I am qualified to help you because throughout my rather short life, so far, I have been through a lot. Whether it be bullies, domestic abuse, dating, frienship dilemmas, insecurity, life choices and seeing the people I care about going through hard times. So I think that I can give first hand advice into many situations and hopefully help you through them (:
The things that make me tick about myself, are the fact that I tend to put myself down a lot, so that if failure or rejection occurs, I think it will soften the blow. However, this means that I always second guess myself and rarely believe that I am good enough to achieve some of the things that I want out of life. This is something that I'd like to change because I am gradually learning that you can do anything if you really want to achieve it.
What makes me tick about other people, are arrogance, a lack of understanding for other people and their situations and stubborness.
I might not have all of the answers, but I have opinions and advice on many things, and I am always here to help if it is needed (: |
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I like him, but he calls my breasts saggy and grand-ma tities. I'm losing my confidence, help?
Q. I'm 16 years old and guys say im hot and im wanted by many(sexually) my breast size is 36 c..and this guy that i really like commented that they're getting saggy and he calls them grandma tities and no one else does! and now i think they're saggy (H...
A. 15 May 2009: Heya
maybe the reason he puts you down is because you are wanted by many? He doesnt want you to flaunt your breasts because he is scared of losing you? He sounds like a bit of a twat to be honest.
I cant tell you if your boobs are saggy or not beca... (read in full...)
What should I do about my two BFF's who are ignoring me?
Q. my two best friends at school are ignoring me. Because recently i've been going though some really hard stuff with my mum and everything and they are just a bit fed up with it. should i just face the fact that they don't wanna hang out with me or sh...
A. 14 May 2009: Heya
if they are your friends then you should be able to talk to them about this stuff. See what is actually bothering them ask them if its the way you have been acting because you never know, it could be something else.
My advice is just to talk ... (read in full...)
Staying together for the kids....
Q. I haven't been in love with my girlfriend for a long time. We have just had our 6th anniversary, we have 2 kids, 5 and 4 years old. We were friends for many years before we got together. We are not married but have lived together and shared ...
A. 13 May 2009: Heya
my parents felt the same way as you did, and I was around 3 or 4 when it happened. And you know what? I am happy that it happened when i was too young to remember it fully, because if i has been older, it might have been worse.
If you are not ... (read in full...)
My sister says she hates me
Q. I love my sister but every time I ask her if she loves me, she says no. Then when I say I love you to her, she says I hate you to. Now I know she doesn't mean this 80% of the time, but it still makes me upset when she says this. I have heard her say ...
A. 13 May 2009: Heya
was she an only child before she found out about you?
maybe since meeting you, she feels that she isnt getting as much attention as she used to, and therefore has grown to resent you a little bit? This could relate to the fact that you said... (read in full...)
Fuzzy feeling with my friend
Q. Hi, I am implicitly going nuts over my friend. I met this girl about a year and 6 months and we have been very good friends. I wanted to ask her out but I was scared of loosing her as my friend. Eventually I did because I just could'nt shake th...
A. 13 May 2009: Heya
I think that she doesnt want a relationship with you, which is why she doesnt return your calls, texts, emails etc.
However, I think she likes the attention you give her when you are together, so she still hugs you etc, because she wants yo... (read in full...)
Have I made it obvious?
Q. Okay my friend told this guy I really like that I think he is cute, but just in a young way. (cos he is slightly younger than me.) Ever since then he is really nice to me, laughs at everything I say - and sometimes its not even funny - there are ...
A. 13 May 2009: Heya
normally guys stare when they see something they like. Maybe since you are older and since it was your friend that told him you thought he was cute and not you, then maybe he isnt sure whether to approach you about it to see if its true.
Maybe... (read in full...)
Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?
Q. It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, ...
A. 27 January 2009: I guess that he is a charmer because it seems to be the way that he talks, that really gets you. I just think you should be careful as to what his intentions are basically, but since he has acted differently towards you, that to your friends, my ... (read in full...)
I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...
A. 27 January 2009: Also, if people are saying good things about you, then I think that they mean it in a good way. I think you should just take on board what they say, as just what it is, and thats a compliment. Generally the people that say bad things about people, ... (read in full...)
I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...
A. 27 January 2009: Hiya there is definitely not anything wrong with you. For a start, guys prefer little makeup to people who cake themselves in makeup, because they look over-done and it hides their natural beauty. So i wouldn't worry about that. ... (read in full...)
She ditched our friendship for a guy, now he dumpted her.
Q. ok so basically throughout high school i there were 4 close friends. one got a bf a few years ago and decided to ditch the rest of us. we never heard from her, but tried to invite her out. she never did come out, her bf was her life and she had no ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hiya
Ive had exactly the same problem as you. I had a friend that ditched us (we were also a group of 4) for her boyfriend and despite the fact that he cheated on her several times, she continued to stay with him. Whenever they would fight, s... (read in full...)
Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?
Q. It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hiya
Maybe this guy likes you, but at the same time, doesnt it bother you that he has touched up one of your friends, and kissed another? It just seems like he is working his way through the group to me, but then again i don't know the guy so i... (read in full...)
Was what I did wrong?
Q. well my best friend is dating this girl that i really liked and he knew it to. then one day she had enough with him and she wanted a break but she wanted me to tell him that didn't though. so after school me and my best friends ex where alone and ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hiya
I think that you picked a really bad time to make out with the girl that you like, just because of the principle of it. She had just broke up with your friend, and you kissed her.
I also agree with the previous response, in that you betrayed... (read in full...)
How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??
Q. I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too......
A. 27 January 2009: Hiya
i know how you feel, because i have moments in my life where i dont think im worth a damn, but then i stop and think about all of the positive things about me and it makes me feel a bit better. There is nothing worse than being unhappy ... (read in full...)
14 and worried about getting pregnant!
Q. hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...
A. 30 December 2008: Hi
I think that this boy is saying things to make you feel a little bit pressured, because even though he knows that you are not ready, he is still saying, in a way, that he wont wait for you to be ready and of legal age.
In my opinion, don... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?
Q. Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...
A. 30 December 2008: Hi
I think that it depends on how long you've been going out because that may factor into why he hasnt made a move. This being his first relationship as well, may also factor because maybe he isnt really sure what to do in a relationship, and he d... (read in full...)
Very confusing behavior from him
Q. Okay, theres this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's very confusing. He sits near me in class, finds ways to talk to me about random things, and he even playfully teases me about other guys(that are my friends) A.K.A liking me. He even ...
A. 20 December 2008: Hi! Guys are really good at giving mixed signals, and a lot of the time, they are not very good at reading signals from you either. He does seem to like you because he feels the need to be close to you a lot of the time.. Guys sometimes flirt w... (read in full...)
How can I tell him my real age???
Q. Ok here's the story, I've been on this chat site for about 2 years, and because I was under the age you were allowed to join, when I joined, I obviously lied about my age, basically saying I was 3 years older than I actually am, I've built some very ...
A. 20 December 2008: Hi..
I think you should just tell him your real age, because you dont want things to progress with everything being based on a lie. If you are really something special to him, then hopefully he wont be livid about the situation.
Maybe jus... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said I was a show off and hasn't talked to me in a week!
Q. My boyfriend and me went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we stated playing this ball ball game when you knock down milk bottles. He was horrible at it, he couldn't make a shoot. I didn't want he waste his money, so I grab the last ball ...
A. 20 December 2008: Hi, This is a manly pride thing. He doesnt like the fact that he wasnt very good at the game, and that you were not only better than him at it, but also gave him the prizes too. He may have seen this as a way of rubbing in the fact that you we... (read in full...)
Does he want me or his girlfriend?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I broke up and he's back with his ex. Everybody that knows me and him thinks that we're going to end up back together. A lot of his friends say that his girlfriend now is trying to compare herself to me b/c she doesn't want to ...
A. 20 December 2008: Hi,
yeah i agree with the previous comment. It is one of those things where if you show a guy that you dont really need them, then normally they seem to want you more than they ever have.
In my opinion, you have a new boyfriend so just enjoy t... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my shyness?
Q. how long should i spend before being involved in sexual activities with a new boyfriend? secondly im shy of kissing than of making love coz i think i dont know how to kiss affectionately,so how can i overcome this?...
A. 18 December 2008: Hi In regards to the first question, i think that you should wait until a comfortable time to start engaging in sexual activities with a new boyfriend, and when you and he both feel ready to move further in the relationship. With regards to... (read in full...)
Said he was getting back with ex but then starts dating someone new not me???
Q. I'm in the very common situation, where i have strong love-like feelings for a friend - who i've only known since September. But these feelings are real, I think about him non-stop. However, i'm a little confused right now and was hoping you c...
A. 18 December 2008: Hi i think that your friend is trying to tell you that he does not like you as more than a friend, without actually saying those words. He doesnt want to hurt your feelings, which shows that he must really value your friendship. Perhaps he is una... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have sex but I don't want to neglect him!
Q. I'm scared witless by the thoughts of having sex, i'm 17 and i've been going out with my first boyfriend for a time now, he is 22 and has much experience. i feel trapped and in some ways forced to have sex, but i feel like i'll would be hurting him ...
A. 18 December 2008: Hi, you should really consider this carefully, because you do not want to lose your virginity when you are not ready to, because in the end, it will cause more pain than good, and in some cases regret. If you are feeling forced against your will to ... (read in full...)
I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past.
Q. Hi I am 16, almost 17, and unlike all my friends and apparently everyone else, I have not had much experience with guys as no one ever seems to have shown any interest in me in the past. I do not mean sexual experience, what I am worried about is...
A. 18 December 2008: I think a lot of people are worried about this right now, so dont worry you are not alone. The whole point of a date, is to see whether or not there is something there between you two. Usually, the start of the date can be awkward, esspecia... (read in full...)
What is the right age to have sex?
Q. hiya people i have a problem what is the right age for sex? I am 18 and my girlfriend wants to have sex. should i do it or am i too young?...
A. 18 December 2008: I think the right time to have sex, is always when you are both of legal age, and also when you are both ready to have sex.
The fact that you are questioning whether or not to have sex with your girlfriend, suggests that you may not be ready. If y... (read in full...)
Do his actions mean anything
Q. hello :) i would really love some opinions for my question it would be alot! its driving me crazzzy, ok lets cut to the point well i really like this lad, lol yes you have probably read loads of these questions but i really have no idea weth...
A. 18 December 2008: Hi (:
well from what you have said, it does seem like this boy shows some interest in you, the fact that he stares at you, clearly means that he is noticing you.
However, i dont understand why you treat being 14 and having never been near a lad a ... (read in full...)
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