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writes:My ex boyfriend and I broke up and he's back with his ex. Everybody that knows me and him thinks that we're going to end up back together. A lot of his friends say that his girlfriend now is trying to compare herself to me b/c she doesn't want to lose him. They say that she even blows off her friends to spend time with him b/c me and him were together all the time. The difference was he always wanted to spend time with me and I wanted to be with him too. They even say that his girlfriend is very intimidated by me. I go to his basketball games to watch my new boyfriend play, but I always glance over at my ex and I end up watching him play instead! Every once and a while I catch him staring at me for a good couple of seconds. Does he still have feelings for me?
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reader, Lauren..  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Hi,
yeah i agree with the previous comment. It is one of those things where if you show a guy that you dont really need them, then normally they seem to want you more than they ever have.
In my opinion, you have a new boyfriend so just enjoy the time that you have with him, because it will not only take your mind off of this other boy, but it will make him realise that you dont actually need him, and this may be when his true feelings will show. If you are going to look at him, just dont do it so that he sees you because then this automatically makes him think that you still have feelings for him, which gives him control in a weird way.
Also remember that he too has a girlfriend, so for the moment just have fun. Whatever happens, will happen.
Good Luck.
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reader, pami +, writes (20 December 2008):
Don't show that this is bothering you. Let him see what he is missing, just go out and have fun with your friends. He will soon want you back babes and you never know you might not want him. Life is too short, smile and enjoy life.
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