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female
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30-35,
*enus2mars
writes: Okay, theres this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's very confusing. He sits near me in class, finds ways to talk to me about random things, and he even playfully teases me about other guys(that are my friends) A.K.A liking me. He even finds ways to talk to my friends, always seems to be where I'm at, remembers things from past conversations, gives me nicknames, and he always asks me the same questions over and over again. Yet, he tends to flirt with girls in my face sometimes, and seems to treat me differently than others. My friends claims he likes me because he bothers me a lot. But it's very confusing, I would really appreciate some help. Thank you very much = )
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reader, Lauren.. +, writes (20 December 2008):
Hi!Guys are really good at giving mixed signals, and a lot of the time, they are not very good at reading signals from you either. He does seem to like you because he feels the need to be close to you a lot of the time.. Guys sometimes flirt with other girls in front of you because they want you to think that they are really wanted by other girls, and that they can get anyone, showing off basically. You say that he treats you differently though, in what way? Because sometimes guys are naturally flirty, and if he is flirting with other girls too, then maybe that is just his nature. I think you should jsut make sure that he isnt a ''player'' before you think about anything more with this boy, if that is what you really want? If he is a player, then I would steer clear of him.I hope i was some help (: Good Luck!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 December 2008):
Sounds to me as though he likes you and the flirting with others in front of you is his way of trying to make you jealous, one of you needs to make the first move and if one of you does not want it then you both know where you stand.
Take care xx
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