My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?
Q. I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...
A. 26 September 2012: i have to agree . . . Him being married and fooling around with you should have been the first sign that he was a loser. Whats not fare is that you knowingly were with a married man all these feelings you are feeling . . . How do you think his wife ... (read in full...)
I earn double what my boyfriend does so he expects me to pay for everything
Q. Hi all. I earn double my boyfriend's salary and I'm a bread winner At home. He always ask for money and when he bring it back he doesn't bring the full amount. He's very stingy and he expect me do everything for him like give him money to go to ...
A. 21 September 2012: BE DONE WITH HIM !!!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is having white discharge 2 days after I fingered her.
Q. Alright so.. about 2 days, 16th September ago me and my girlfriend started to get a lil horny and after awhile i started fingering her, i think i could have precum on my fingers but i wiped it off and fingered her a few minutes after that. 18th S...
A. 18 September 2012: There is no need for the emergency pill . If you havnt had sex she isnt pregnant and white discharge usually happens around the time of ovulation sometimes there is more than other times maybe she never noticed before . If it doesnt have an odor or ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with the love of my life?
Q. I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little ...
A. 18 September 2012: WOW ... I read this and i see how much you have been through and its tough . Bipolar disorder is terrible difficult situation to deal with . Zyprexa has been a miracle for my bf . He was diagnosed after a horrible car wreck he aslo has speech p... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to take responsibility for what he did?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago because he got violent and went for me repeatadly. now hes claiming that i attacked him....i was sober as a judge and remember everything, he was drunk and admits it though says if i fight like a man ...
A. 17 September 2012: do not beleive anything that comes out of his mouth. If he wanted to change he would admit he was in the wrong if the way you tell the story is true. Alchol can make the sweetest of men turn into a monster and unfortunatly it doesnt usually get ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got herpes and how do you tel people and how do they react do you get rejected often?
Q. a few days ago a guy that i had been dating about a year ago contacted me and informed me during the time i was with him he had herpes. this was very upsetting for me because he said he knew he had it and didnt want to tell me.even when i asked him ...
A. 11 September 2012: my aunt has herpes but my uncle doesnt . . . With medication it can help prevent from passing it . She has been possitive since she was 18 and been with her husband now for right around 25 yrs and has two kids who have graduated and are getting ... (read in full...)
I've had it with my husband's cheating, what is the quickest way to get over him?
Q. my husband has been cheating on me from when i was pregnant and ive just had it with the cheating...im really tired of all this...a week ago i went to the doctor and discovered that i have a stress related infection in my mouth...i dont want to end ...
A. 10 September 2012: Just go !!! Dont be scared to do things by yourself because you can do it . Im not gonna lie,its hard as hell to be a single mother but well worth it . You dont want that baby seeing you hurt everytime this happens and you would be very surprised ... (read in full...)
How can I gain more confidence in bed?
Q. I know this is going to sound quite strange, but is there anyway to gain self confidence in bed?. That doesn't include anything drastic. As, i've only recently came to grips with my body (like i'm no longer that interested in loosing weight or anyth...
A. 10 September 2012: Has he ssid something about your weight ? Did you look this way when you two started seeing each other? I used to have problems with the way i look . I am heavy set and kinda short but i slowly gained confidence in myself. One thing you could try is ... (read in full...)
I gave him a warning. Is this time to walk away?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now but he's always been abusive to me. He is bipolar has anxiety attacks, clinical depression, and just a whole book full of problems that I dealt with because in the end he's always there for me and ...
A. 7 September 2012: I do know where you are comeing from i think even bondgirl72 helped me a on a few questions and she is absolutly right and ill tell ya ive only been doing it a short time and you made it through five years so kudos for trying but if your not happy ... (read in full...)
Ex didn't want anything to do with me and now can't take her eyes off me
Q. Hey, guna keep it short and sweet :) Basically, I was with my ex girlfriend for 9 months. In march this year she split up with me. Break up was messing, I was a mess, completely hit rock bottom and desperatly wanted her back. Over the summer...
A. 6 September 2012: It sounds to me like she left you maybe to be with someone else he probably was a jack a** or something and probably regrets the dumb choice . . .To me this has heart break all over it again ... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 6 September 2012: Think about it this way . . . You are taking care of her most important needs . You should feel lucky she is so open to you.there are not many like that . A good idea would be to not make her feel like she has to hide things like that in fear of ... (read in full...)
Could any of this mean he's gay?
Q. I was on an elevator with 2 other guys.1 of the guys was close up to the doors and when he got off, the guy left with me reached in his pocket and started rumaging around 'down there' with rapid up and down hand movement.. I tried not to notice b...
A. 6 September 2012: i work with inmates and some tend to stand real close to my desk or other things talking to me till one day a guy friend of mine walked up and got really angry at him told him he needed to go back to work . He said those guys cut holes in there ... (read in full...)
Should I get the gastric bypass surgery done?
Q. I'm 16 almost 17, I have always been overweight and at this time in my life I think I'm ready to move forward and start working to lose my weight. I'm in the 300s and I'd really love to lose this. I know people are going to say your young and w...
A. 6 September 2012: ive been exactly where you are.ive been heavy all my life.if you lose that weight that quick you will have alot of extra skin when its over.my advice would be to find a buddy to do this with or even mom and dad . I will tell you just by taking soda ... (read in full...)
What can I say to get him to stop?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend last week, we had the stupidest argument he ignored me for a day and told me he didn't want to see me again. He rang me the next day and I ignored him, I set up my facebook account again because he asked me to delete it ...
A. 5 September 2012: this kind of aggresive behavior should include cops a restraining order. I had one like that who befor it was all over broke in my house while i was out put 300 $ worth of kids books in plastic tote and filled it with water then put all mine and my ... (read in full...)
Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment
Q. i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...
A. 5 September 2012: yea that is why i am glad the place he got into ... they make him attend groups . some of them are to explain what it is and what helps things like that the others are therapy . he is exited because he said he finally feels like he has a chance at a ... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 5 September 2012: she would probly think it was hot for you to watch and play with your own watching her get off . sometimes that can be really sexy !!! then have awsome sex ... or finnish yourself . get web cam just for you two when your not around each other ... ... (read in full...)
I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all. Is this because of hormonal imbalance?
Q. I am a 15 year old male and I was wondering if my sexual orientations are due to hormones? I feel sexually attracted to men but not emotionally or romantically at all.. And I am only attracted to some women (usually middle aged) but have emotional ...
A. 5 September 2012: of coUrse you have have a hormone imbalance. You are 15 . Your body and hormones are going crazy right now and will for a little while. I had my curious stage about that age to. It will all start making sense later but for now all that is normal an... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 5 September 2012: thing is most women dont orgasm from sex alone . There is the occassional few times it happens but for most it stems from oral sex is great to have to exspecialy after a big o from oral.makes everything more sensitive kinda like after yall go. Try ... (read in full...)
I love her but I think our relationship is dead, what should I do?
Q. Hello everybody, Me and my girlfriend, we have been together for more than a year now, but recently she started to act like she does not want to see me anymore. We used to have fun together almost every single day, but now I haven't seen her ...
A. 4 September 2012: girls sometimes use this approach to make you be the so called bad guy.Its the cowards way out but it happens.you seem to already know the facts.letting go doesnt mean you are actually the od guy just that its time for you to move forward in ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 3 September 2012: ok another update i had him bakeracted last monday they let me get him out weds to go to his appt thurs as long as he was with me till the appt and they gave him meds for this month the out come is amazing and the person i care so much is back but i ... (read in full...)
Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment
Q. i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...
A. 3 September 2012: ok so he is out and on meds and things are good so far.he really is a good person he looks and feels so much better and we have found out a few more facts on how to keep his mood swings down. He was just diagnosed with this 2yr ago and all the doc ... (read in full...)
Relationship is going down hill, after boyfriends comment about my weight!!
Q. Good day! Well what I am asking is down to this situation here me and my boyfriend of 8 month have decided to take a break after a long argument that blew the holiday to pieces. About a month ago we had wonderful holidays together. whiles watchi...
A. 31 August 2012: i agree . . . You asked he told. Maybe he just wants you healthy because he does care. Im not small either and i dont even ask that loaded question. Besides i think because you wanted to know he cared enough to tell maybe you should lose some weight ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 24 August 2012: just a little update in case anyone was wondering ... He called and set up a doc appt for this thurs. I am going with him as a friend for support . Made a rule if i am gonna go that we wont talk about relationship issues only things to help better ... (read in full...)
I need someone to help push me and motivate me!
Q. This is a weird request but here it goes. Im soo fed up of feeling and looking like crap. I have a bad case of PCOS and with that I have the side effects of being over-weight, have more hair than any woman would like and spots. Those are my ma...
A. 22 August 2012: i have been there done that ... exact same problems . now i eat the things i like only small portions i dont deprive myself of anything i like . i have lost 67 pds since this time last year i still am at 220 so a lil more to go but some one told me ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 22 August 2012: Thank you everyone for your help ... and being someone to vent to.Yall are all right ... i do know that . it just sucks .plain and simple . i am a caring person and i guess sometimes it bites me in the ass but to late to change that now but yes i do ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 22 August 2012: I agree ... it is just hurting really bad knowing that there is nothing i can do i guess. feel like a horrible person for backing out when i do actually care so much , but i have my hands full. im a full time mommy to 2 small kids and i just cant ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 22 August 2012: i have and i have looked up doc # and told him to make an app he says he gas but something comes up and he cant go. The saddest part is i know he wants the help but i dont think he can make himself do it as crazy as that sounds. Im just recently ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really insecure. How can I help him overcome this?
Q. ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 4 months. He is really sweet to me most of the time other than doubting me. Always thinking im gonna leave or do something behind his back.even went as far as to ask my fellow employees what kind ...
A. 22 August 2012: Thanks for your answer but i figured out tonight what was going on with him. I havent done a single thing to prevoke this behavior . Apparently there was more going on in his life than he wanted to share with me . He is suppose to be on meds for ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to tell my boyfriend our relationship is over?
Q. Hie.I have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger than me and we have been together for two years now.i met another man who is married and said he is having problems with his wife and started having an affair.he said they will break up soon so as to...
A. 17 August 2012: first thing . . . What makes you think this man wont do the same to you . Do you remember the old saying . . . Dont leave the one you love for the one you like because he will leave you for the one he loves. . .I would make sure this is really what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really insecure. How can I help him overcome this?
Q. ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 4 months. He is really sweet to me most of the time other than doubting me. Always thinking im gonna leave or do something behind his back.even went as far as to ask my fellow employees what kind ...
A. 17 August 2012: he has also accused me of sneaking off to the bathroom to use my phone while we were in the movie theater . I finally blew up at him about it . Told him i dont need someone who feels they need to check my every move . I wont stop seeing my friends ... (read in full...)
I'm angry that my partner was eyeing women in bikini's
Q. hi i want some advise bout something just want to know is it me over reacting or would you not be happy what it is myself and my partner took the kids swimming and i hate my body i am size 14-16 and i feel massive and feel like i look disgusting in ...
A. 14 August 2012: i to am a size 14-16 .... I have been steadily doin things to better myself now that i have built my self esteem back up i know im beautiful . . . The fact is . . . Guys look ! Just like we look and he probably didnt mean any harm . Im sure he didnt ... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me and I've never done anything to break his trust!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't trust me, I have done nothing to break his trust. So I don't understand why he has such distrust towards me. We can talk about anything else but nothing about his trust in me. He also holds double standards, if he doesn't ...
A. 14 August 2012: besides things happen to everyone who hasnt had their heart broke or been cheated on ? I get tired of being accused of others mistakes i refuse ! So my advice would be to talk to him and if it doesnt change do exxactly what im getting ready to do . ... (read in full...)
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